Section 1 20201009 The impact of women’s teachings on children reading notes. Women play multiple roles in the family. They are the husband’s wife, the mother of the children, and the daughter-in-law of the parents-in-law. Sun Yat-sen’s famous saying, the world is peaceful. The safety of the family depends on the woman, and the prosperity of the family depends on the mother. A famous saying is enough to show how important women are to the country and the family. As the focus of family education, how can women pass on the family tradition from generation to generation?

In the first part, the mother's way of speaking determines the height of the child's life. The child unconsciously hears the words of the parents, which becomes the child's conscious influence. In an interview, Nobel laureate Mo Yan said that he was born ugly, and many people in the village laughed at her face to face. There were some domineering classmates in school who even beat him for it. He went home in pain, and his mother said to him , you are not ugly, you do not lack a nose or eyes, your limbs are sound, what is the ugliness? And as long as you have a kind heart and do more good deeds, even sadness can become beautiful. Mo Yan's achievements today are all because his mother taught him what life and life are like.

In the second part, the tranquility, weakness, and kindness in my mother’s words are my mother’s lifelong practice and cultivation. The real power of a mother is her kindness and gentleness. The image of a loving mother is the rule, and her words are the direction. Diligence can make up for weakness, and diligence can bring wisdom. In addition to cultivating a loving heart, mothers also learn to show weakness to their children. The children of Confucius did not know how to scold, and the children of Zengzi did not deserve to be angry. Therefore, those who are like this are born to be good at teaching. It is difficult for children of strong mothers to be confident. The mother's strength will gradually weaken in front of the children. Learning to show weakness in front of the children is to support the children.

Part 3: How should mothers talk to their children well? First of all, mothers should teach their children to be careful in their words and deeds. They must be careful when speaking. They should say what they should not say and should not say too many words. Parents who are good at talking will tell their children to be noble. Secondly, mothers must control their emotions before speaking. , Children who often act based on their parents’ faces will have two faces. No matter how profound the impact of the natural environment and social environment on children in this world is, it is not as profound as the impact of parents’ faces on their children, because your face is your child’s. The color of the whole world.

Finally, we teach you how to communicate correctly with your child through the three senses of sight, hearing, and feeling. When your child talks to you, create a warm talking atmosphere, smile, look into your child’s eyes, and extend your hand. Gently put your child's shoulder, or hold his hand, to let the child feel the physical connection. Finally, gently turn your ear in the direction of your child, and say to your child that your mother is listening. When the child speaks, , you only need to nod and smile in response, um, I heard it, I felt it, you said I was listening, and ask the child after a while, have you finished speaking? Can I say it now? Maybe the child's cognitive behavior is incorrect in the process of speaking. As long as it is not a serious matter involving life or morality, don't rush to criticize or disapprove of him. Say to the child, "My child, I have different ideas. Please listen." Take a look, let’s discuss it together. Even if the child does not accept your suggestions at the moment, small problems can allow the child to try and fail. Only by growing up in frustration can the child’s mature, complete and stable heart be built. For children, this is the best way to comfort them. Just listen to what he has to say first, so that the child can experience the care and warmth. The moment the child speaks, his heart has been nourished and healed. For the mother, the path of parenting is actually nurturing herself. She wants to Running a happy family and educating a sensible child starts with speaking well.