The tip I want to give in the workplace is that the greatest happiness comes from the most beautiful people around you. Don't betray, tolerate and help each other, don't be moved by small gains, don't fight for temporary gains and losses, and can take credit for the past. The best thing is to work with people like this and spend good times together. So the next question is, how to find the most beautiful person around you?
Zeng Guofan has a very simple truth: "In times of danger, those who love and follow them may have one or two; those who are afraid and follow them will have nothing to do." Real danger appears. , There may be one or two people who can be with you because they love you, but there are no people who can be with you because they are afraid of you.
A successful CEO and successful executive will have two types of subordinates: one is motivated by love and is moved by the manager’s personality charm and ideals, and is attracted by the skills and skills that can be learned from him. The other type is moved by the wisdom they experience; the other type is motivated by fear and is attracted by power and the benefits that can be generated, such as wages, bonuses, opportunities for promotion, capital to show off, etc.
It is really amazing to hear love from the mouth of Zeng Guofan, nicknamed "Zeng Shatou". He said very frankly that those who can follow you in times of real crisis must be those who love you. Those who are afraid of you will never have the slightest chance of following you.
The underlying truth is that we should not place too high demands on human nature. It would be great to have 23% of the people who are able to survive adversity and advance and retreat. It is common sense in the world that "when a tree falls, the hozen will scatter". Don't expect everyone to have character and integrity. So if you have to memorize words, don’t complain about yourself, your life, or the people around you for not following you. It’s normal to “fly away when disaster strikes”. Those who don’t leave are very individual people with temperament. What motivates these people is not money, but the sense of brotherhood and warmth of doing great things together for a long time. ?
Why are you willing to suffer so much together? In the face of greater interests, why not pursue it? Why not go when there are better opportunities? Why are there other stronger teams that are unwilling to join? In fact, it's all because of a simple sentence - "We had good time together".
Thinking about it, the starting point of life is falling to the ground with a "wow" sound, and the end point is passing away with a "sigh" sound. Life will not bring it, and death will not take it away. The middle component is time. There is only time. People with temperament understand that life has no ultimate meaning. If it has meaning, it is the little moments in the process. Just like a necklace, it must have a starting point and an end point. The middle is like those twinkling jewels and small stones. Those bits and pieces of good times will remain in the memory, reflecting the quality and meaning of life. This seems to be a paradox. People who achieve great things seem to be colder, more reliable, and more mechanical. However, I found that among people who can achieve great things, the proportion of people with temperament is surprisingly high.
I hope that after reading the above, you can find the most beautiful people around you, that you can have someone to follow you in times of crisis, and that after spending a long time in the workplace, you can be with the most beautiful people around you. People say "We had good time together".