1. Where is the focus of her pain? This is self-evident: she sincerely loves Gao Jialin, but she also sincerely does not want Gao Jialin to be a farmer! She is suffering from this contradiction! If she had made a firm choice in one aspect, she would not have been so painful: if she did not love Gao Jialin, then Gao Jialin would have nothing to do with her even if he went to hell; if she did not care about anything for love, then Gao Jialin would have nothing to do with her. Even if Lin goes to hell, she will follow him! Contradictions cannot be reconciled. She thinks both aspects are very important: she loves Gao Jialin but is afraid that he will become a farmer! Life is always cruel to people like her. If she does not establish and strengthen her life principles, life will constantly ask her such severe questions and let her choose. It’s okay not to choose! The contradiction of life itself is the omnipresent God, no one can get rid of it! ——Lu Yao's "Life"

2. Fate is always not what you want. But it is often in the midst of countless pains, contradictions and difficulties that people mature and become stronger; although these things do not always bring joy to people in actual feelings.

3. If you like someone, you can't control your heart. Even though I knew it was wrong, I did it anyway. "Life"

4. Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few critical steps, especially when a person is young.

5. The warm embrace of a woman is always as important to a man as a harbor is to a sailing ship and a swaddling clothes is to a baby. This embrace is as broad and deep as the earth, soothing the wounded hearts of men, giving them warmth, happiness and the strength to re-enter the storm!

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6. Only after you have experienced the journey of life can you know its shortcomings and longs; how can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain? How can you appreciate the splendor of spring without experiencing the cold winter? Flowers don’t last a hundred days, and people don’t last a thousand days. Learn to experience the ups and downs of life and the sudden enlightenment of a new spring. ——"Life"