In life, you will always hear various voices, including those that praise, those that slander, those that encourage, those that suppress, those that support, and those that oppose. Are you always sarcastic, angry or resentful of other people's untrue comments? There are even some who are unhappy and full of doubts as to why others would slander them like this.

Because everyone has different thinking patterns, perspectives, and values, naturally their views and opinions will be different. Many comments may be about boring people who rely on talking about others to create some fun in their boring life, or they may be disguised ridicule and belittling of others to find comfort for themselves and gain a sense of satisfaction or existence.

These words are actually junk information and purely negative energy. When you hear them, treat them like wind blowing in your ears and don’t leave any trace in your heart. Only by spending your limited time and energy on valuable life and work can you be full of vitality. If you care about and analyze the causes of those boring sounds, it will interfere with your life and disrupt the rhythm you have set. and plans, because we are always another person in other people's mouths. To really care is equivalent to asking for trouble. Living as the protagonist in other people's mouths will make your life misplaced. The best state should be to be yourself. The protagonist of life.

Although everyone has the right and freedom to speak, you cannot stop others from speaking, but it is your right to accept or not accept it! Anyone who hears untrue and unpleasant comments or ridicules will be in a bad mood. Therefore, you must practice your ability to resist interference, block out boring and meaningless sounds, be your own best guide, and build a voice with positive energy. and circle, focus and invest your time and energy on people and things that are truly valuable and meaningful to you! When you devote yourself to a career or hobby that you love and move unswervingly in a clear direction, you will naturally block out the "noise" involuntarily.

The famous dancer Venus received much more criticism and verbal attacks than ordinary people after undergoing sex reassignment surgery. Jin Xing once said in his published book "Sounds on the Ground" that during the days when he was under siege, he almost only heard the curses of others, but rarely came out to defend himself. At that time, he was just busy moving forward. When faced with various malicious misunderstandings from the outside world, I once clenched my fists in anger, but when I wanted to fight back, I asked myself in my heart: Can you resist? I told myself that what you have to defeat is not the person who attacks you, but the position where you are attacked - when they can hurt you, it means there is no gap between you.

The best way to deal with those rumors is: just move on. When you reach the top of the mountain, they are still chattering at the bottom of the mountain. You are enjoying the beautiful scenery of sunrise and sunset, and they are enjoying their spittle and cannot hurt you at all. At that moment, you will be at the top of the mountain thanking those voices.

Venus has a strong ability to resist interference so that it can keep running towards the top of the mountain. Venus has done it. Now Venus not only has a career that ordinary people cannot reach, but also has an enviable career. A warm and happy family.

So how can you have strong anti-interference ability?

You must start from yourself, do not receive or spread any slanderous, hurtful and offensive language information. When we hear someone deliberately slandering, belittling others, or even making up some distorted additional information to spread to you, we must stick to our good principles and stop passing on this junk information to the next person, and don’t be a disseminator of rubbish! Because we live in the same environment, when we see others spitting garbage, we also join in the fun, pick up the garbage, and spread it to the next person. Over time, we will be assimilated and become the same kind of person. Because we live in the same environment, if there is garbage everywhere, we will eventually be affected.

If you want to have a strong ability to resist interference, you must build a strong and benign ecosystem for yourself. Get to know more friends who are consistent with your own three-view system, have similar interests and hobbies, and have a high positive energy magnetic field, or friends who have certain personality traits that are complementary to yours and can stimulate each other's strengths and strengths, downplay and repair your own weaknesses; use negative energy or friends to Eliminate destructive people from your circle of friends, purify and create your own social ecosystem. This is your strong backing and magnetic field. With strong backing as support, you will have an anti-interference system.

When the values ????and positive energy of your ecosystem are stronger, those negative voices or energy will not be able to enter and will be directly purified.

Spend more time with people you feel comfortable with. When you are with someone who often affirms you or recognizes your strengths and sincerely praises you, a sense of inner comfort will arise spontaneously. And those who are always rude and even condescending will find faults and accuse you, saying that you are no good at this and that you are bad. Being with these people will only make you less and less confident, and even lead to self-doubt and self-denial. So much so that it affects your daily mood and your own growth, so you should take the initiative to stay away from such people.

You must have beliefs and goals. The reason why those noises affect you is because the distance and level between you are too close. Only by working hard to improve yourself can you silently distance yourself from those noises. As long as your goals and beliefs are firm enough, you can keep moving forward. When your level is getting higher and higher, your environment will be more unique, and those noises will not disturb you. At this time, you can Smile with joy at the noise at the bottom of the mountain! Let him be the driving force that drives you to keep moving forward.

Think of those noises as the tiger in your life. In the face of all kinds of noise, there will actually be fear, irritability, and worry in the heart. In fact, you can temporarily accompany this tiger and keep running towards the goals you set, just like the movie "Life of Pi", when you After reaching the other side of the target, the tiger left. When you think about this experience again, you may be grateful for the tiger's company.