The writer Ibsen once said such a wise saying: What is a man's first duty? The answer is simple-be yourself. Yes, as long as people are alive, they must have their own unique style. Being yourself is actually very simple. We should grasp our destiny on the basis of knowing ourselves clearly, so as to realize our life value and be our real masters.

To be yourself, we should not only show our popular personality, but also strengthen our cultural accomplishment and enhance our spiritual realm. At the same time, we must ensure that our unique style can be accepted and appreciated by others, so as to interpret the most beautiful self.

This requires us to conquer ourselves and get rid of all bad habits. Because sometimes bad habits that are not noticed can easily destroy a person's creativity and imagination, as the saying goes: control yourself first, then control others. In short, everyone has his own set of principles for dealing with people, whether in life or work, don't care too much about other people's opinions, and don't deliberately change yourself because of other people's comments.

There was once a painter who wanted to make each of his paintings popular, so he took them to the market for exhibition, and put a pen and a note beside them, which said: Every viewer can make his own unique mark if he thinks the pen is poor.

When the painter came home at night, he found that the whole painting was covered with traces and almost every stroke was criticized. Therefore, he is very unhappy and frustrated.

The painter thought of another method and decided to try the same painting again, so he copied the same painting and put it on the market. However, this time he asked every audience to mark their favorite wonderful pen on the painting.

When the painter came home at night, he was surprised to find that the painting was full of traces. What was criticized by everyone last time is now praised one after another.

So the painter sighed with emotion: No matter what we do, it is enough to satisfy some people, because what is ugly in some people's eyes is beautiful in others' eyes. If we listen to people blindly, we will lose ourselves and even be afraid to do anything. Such a person, because he values the attitude and vision of others too much, can't achieve great things in his life. What's the point of life without your own principles and styles?

Life is like a blank sheet of paper, we don't need to hand over all our fate, because effective planning and self-control are very important in our life. People should have their own unique style when doing things. Only in this way can we survive in society, make great achievements in the world we like, and live a brand-new and brilliant self.

Dante once said, "Go your own way and let others talk!" Everyone has his own nature and principles. No matter what our life is like, it is enough to live a high style. As long as we feel happy, we must never suppress our hearts and throw away the principle of being a man at will. We must live a high happiness and self-confidence and live a high style.