It means that if a person really loves his child, he should guide him with morality.

From "Zuo Zhuan", "Fang" means Tao, and "Yi Fang" means morality. "Love without moral principles will cause harm to children." If you do not guide your children with morality and love your children with morality, you are not loving your children but harming them.

From "Zuo Zhuan" to "Zi Zhi Tong Jian", there is an interval of about 1,500 years. The two sentences, pros and cons, talk about the same thing: how should we love our children, what kind of The love of parents is the kind of parental love that is truly beneficial to children.

Three aspects of family education:

The first aspect is that "the family is the first classroom in life, and parents are the first teachers of their children." What does it mean? What kind of children will be created by good family education. Therefore, for parents, family education must pass on good moral character and habits to their children, provide them with correct guidance, and establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values.

Each of our children has been receiving education and influence from the family since they were babbling and toddlers, and they have been influenced by their parents subtly and subtly. The "Three Character Classic" says: "If jade is not polished, it will not become a useful tool. If a person does not learn, he will not know righteousness."

In a family, parents should be role models and role models for their children. Educate your children well, buckle the first button of life for your children, take the first step in life, and take the first step in life. This is the first question.

Second, parents should take the responsibility of educating future generations. Parents should educate their children, "It is the father's fault if they are raised or not taught." In our traditional Chinese culture, and in our Chinese history, there are many cases of strict tutoring.

The things we are familiar with today include Meng’s mother moving three times, Tao’s mother returning the fish, mother-in-law tattooing characters, and painting Di to teach her children. These are all cases and typical examples of strict family education in ancient times. This is what the ancients said when they said that a strict father produces a filial son.

Third, family education involves many aspects, but the most important thing is moral education.

Therefore, we parents should pass on good moral qualities to our children and pass on full positive energy to our children. Good family traditions are passed down from generation to generation, and the spring breeze turns into rain, moistening things silently, and influencing future generations.