The way men and women get along in love, it is very lucky to meet people who love, but we should also master some ways of getting along with men and women in love while having love. If there are still friends who don't know how men and women in love should get along, please read the following article.
How should men and women in love get along? 1 1. Pay attention to the promise.
Pay attention to commitment, not make you promise without realizing it. Men who like to brag are the most chilling for girls. Because in women's hearts, it's not that they don't know your ability, but that your casual commitment doesn't matter to them. Failure to complete it proves that your commitment to your girlfriend is useless.
Together, these two things will make girls feel that you just don't love her, respect her or care about her. Therefore, a man should take every need of his girlfriend seriously. Even if he refuses, the girl will know where your ability lies and will respect your thoughtful decision.
When the other person is ill, he should do something substantial.
Many people often just talk about comforting words when their partners are sick, especially when they have a fever or a cold, such as "drink more water" and "pay attention to rest". As a result, the other person doesn't feel that you care about him at all. In fact, at this time, do something substantial for the patient. For example, "companionship" or finding some ways to alleviate the pain will make the other person a little moved.
3. Don't be absent-minded
Although girls are often the one who talks too much, it doesn't mean that they can do it by themselves without the attention of their boyfriends. For a woman, it is more important to respond from time to time than to give her a small gift, if you always wander when couples go out to eat. It is very impolite for girls. Moreover, eating with a boyfriend in front of outsiders, while boys are wandering around, is a mockery of their charm and women, and boys should understand that this is a prelude to quarreling.
4. Grasp the scale of joking
Many times, the other party seems to be joking, but it is not like this. Many times, because of a joke, he will hold a grudge and be biased against you. And in fact, many women are a little stingy than men, and not all jokes are affordable.
Especially in public, just as girlfriends should not expose their boyfriends' scars in public, boys should also be careful not to make jokes about their girlfriends' shortcomings or points they don't like in public. Otherwise, when my girlfriend is angry, sometimes she will face it directly no matter where she is, and everyone is embarrassed.
5. combine rigidity with softness
Don't be gentle blindly, but also let the other person see your strong side. Especially men, no matter how tough a woman is, want to find a solid support.
A gentle man is good, but if he is gentle but not strong, then in the eyes of girls, this man is cowardly and can't really rely on peace of mind. There are some things that boys need to learn to stand up and make decisions. Why do gentle men never get a woman's heart? It is because he is too gentle to show enough masculinity.
A man who combines rigidity with softness and knows how to let girls do small things and stand up for big things can easily get full marks in dealing with people and showing charm.
6, easy to get angry with others
Especially in restaurants or some public places, it is especially ungentlemanly to get angry with waiters. Anyone who has this grumpy attitude of "because I am a guest, you have to do what you want" has a strong desire for power. The closer you get, the more arrogant his attitude becomes. This kind of man is very vigilant and is likely to turn into a violent family.
7. Surprise appropriately
Everyone likes surprises, and sudden gifts will move the other person, but only if you know each other, what you like or what you like but haven't bought. If it is an unnecessary gift, it will be greatly discounted, especially if you buy a gift that the other party doesn't like, both parties will be embarrassed.
In fact, I think commitment is the most important thing, because if a man likes to brag, it is easy to give people an unreliable impression, and it is also easy to make girls feel insecure and then always quarrel with you. So you boys should pay attention to the above seven details.
How should men and women get along in love? 2 Skills of getting along with boyfriends and girlfriends.
1, go ahead
Many girls are more or less wary of friends of the opposite sex. They are always worried that they will get lost because of carelessness and sentimentality, so that they will regret it for a lifetime. In fact, this is artificially narrowing their social circle.
After setbacks and vicissitudes, many people have lamented that there are still many good people in the world. With your life experience, I believe you can still tell the pros and cons of people around you quickly. If you want to get friends of the opposite sex, don't be too defensive and make a mountain out of a molehill. You must first open your closed heart. The ancients once reminded us: "When you see fire, you will prevent fire, and when you see people, you will guard against theft." Some people have deduced from this old saying that "seeing the opposite sex prevents hooligans." I have this terrible idea in my heart, and then I will timidly think, "I can't talk to him." In this way, you will never have friends of the opposite sex. Didn't the ancients also have a famous saying "Nothing ventured, nothing gained" to persuade people to go forward bravely?
2. Semi-suggestive method
The feature of the "half-veil method" is that although the suitor does not explicitly say "I love you", the courtship information is clearer than the "hint method" and requires the receiver to respond quickly. For example, at present, the communication between men and women in our country is not very casual, so we specially bought movie tickets, concert tickets and so on to invite each other out to watch; Invite each other to go for a walk, outing, etc. Being alone usually means courting each other.
In life, when one party loves the other and doesn't know whether the other party is interested in him or not, this semi-implicit method should be adopted. You can ask for directions as a stone, or you can express your attachment to each other first. A pair of intimate people who were afraid to express their opinions can easily step into the track.
3. the method of love
Between men and women in love, their conversation is no longer a tool to convey information, and the content of the conversation is not important to lovers. More importantly, the act of speaking itself is accompanied by the laughter and eyes of lovers, which give each other pleasure and joy. This feature is the special communication function of love words. It focuses not on the meaning of language, but on feelings and hearts. For lovers, it is fun and happiness to listen to the beauty and voice of the person you like slowly echoing in your ears.
Everyone likes people who agree with their own views. When you tell them your experiences or thoughts with him, they will naturally appear close to you. The topic narrowed the distance between the two people and became more congenial.
4. Find the truth in the conversation
The art of speaking plays an important role in any situation, especially in the field of love and marriage. If you want to know the truth, you must talk more. This is the so-called "teaching by example" method.
The process of young people's love is sweet and poetic, and once they fall in love, young people tend to idealize and idolize their objects, thinking that they are as dazzling as the sun in the sky and as perfect as the moon on the fifteenth. This is the halo effect that often appears in the process of love.
However, marriage in love is real life after all, and marriages that fall in love at first sight and get married in a hurry will fail in nine cases out of ten. Only by getting to know each other better in the process of love and communication can we have a happy life.
5. Love at first sight
Love at first sight, in short, is love at first sight with affection mentioned intuitively. At the moment of "first sight", it is the images and impressions of both sides that play a decisive role, such as appearance, manner, conversation and so on.
According to Greek mythology, the early integration of men and women was that God divided human beings into men and women. In the future, everyone has their own beautiful prototype, and everyone is looking for their own possession in this vast world. And this kind of search is generally done by the strong impact of the mind. So love at first sight often produces the strongest happiness.
In fact, the first love talk is a complex art, and the talk of love at first sight is not "specified", so it is hard to say anything. Moreover, people with different levels, different occupations, different cultural attainments and different temperament have different expressions.
6. Hongyan delivers books
Love letters are a way to communicate feelings and a means to express family affection. It can be said to be "emotional swan" and "angel of love".
Although lovers talk a lot or say a few words when writing love letters, not everyone's love letters can communicate emotions, deepen understanding and build a bridge of love. People who are not good at writing love letters start writing with pens, even kissing all over the paper, sometimes scaring off lovers. Love letters, your sincere feelings, should not be flashy.
Love letters, writing feelings, need to impress people with feelings. "People who touch people's hearts, don't worry about feelings first." Reading a novel once may be enough, but reading a love letter is never enough. The key is "tempted".
Lyric, pay attention to discretion, and grasp the temperature. The first letter of "throwing stones to ask for directions" should be extremely subtle, taking care of each other's psychological endurance.
The lost youth left you only empty memories and memories. Love letter is eternal youth and the most glorious page in your life history. I hope you cherish your youth and leave it to your gray hair as a pastime for studying hard. That smell will definitely make you get the greatest sweetness.
7, borrow things to send love method
If love is the most beautiful flower in the world, then the endless love words between young men and women in love are a string of dew on this beautiful love flower. The language of love, like the colorful love life of young people, is full of infinite charm.
Yes, sweet words are charming and inexhaustible. However, sometimes lovers feel a deep pain, and they can't find the right words to express their feelings for their lovers. They feel that compared with the rich feelings flooding in their hearts, the words are really too poor and limited. At this time, lovers will look for another language and another way to express their passion.
This way of expressing love is especially suitable for those introverted and shy lovers. Although you have feelings, you dare not reveal them. At this time, you can use your head and come up with a unique way, which does not need to say such passionate words as "I love you" and can make the other person understand your good intentions in a relaxed atmosphere. Why not?
8. affectionate address
Address is often the transmitter of two people's feelings. Every couple wants to hear their nicknames, nicknames or other intimate names from each other.
A simple name, it is a ruler to measure the distance between people. The love relationship between the opposite sex is the most natural and intimate relationship of human beings. The appellation between lovers can reflect the subtle relationship between the two worlds.
First of all, the change of address marks the change of "love concentration". Young men and women have a natural development process from acquaintance to love. This development process can be seen not only from the hints in the eyes of both sides, but also from the changes in the names of both sides.
But some of our young people don't pay attention to this. When he first met, he called his sweetheart "Comrade Wang Xiaoli", his acquaintance "Wang Xiaoli", his friend "Xiao Li" and his love "Li", but he simply omitted this word as soon as he got married. "Hey, come here" and "Hey" are really uncomfortable, which obviously affects their relationship.
9. Empty gloves and white "lang"
Although there was smoke everywhere, the strong wolf looked around. However, it is really not easy for a young female wolf to get a good wolf king. Once you have a good goal, fighting is by no means a gesture, and ordinary moves can be used. First, control your eyes. Don't try very hard to discharge when you see what you like, be careful. "It's heartless to fall out of love" will become a laughing stock and ruin your reputation.
Then, look inside him. The girl's mind is the smallest, he is good and he is bad, and there is always a feeling.
Some boys are timid, and some boys have been hurt. How many good sisters have been hurt by the phrase "boys should take the initiative", be generous and take the initiative. It's no big deal to tell him first. But: don't show your teeth. Don't care too much about him. If you care too much about him, you will be less calm; If you care too much about him, you will lose confidence; Too concerned about him, reserved. People are always like this. The more nervous they are, the more arrogant they are. What do you mean, "a gentleman doesn't marry"? You don't even believe it yourself. Boys chase girls and try their best; Girls chase boys, and their hearts turn. Once the paper is punctured one day, everyone is happy, sad and depressed, which is unexpected.
Compliment your partner.
Praise is very useful in love, maybe it is a compliment, which makes the right person have a good impression on you, from unrequited love to love. If you have been procrastinating, it is a good way to praise your partner from time to time, which will greatly increase your feelings. However, praise should be measured, otherwise it will be counterproductive. I am most afraid of praising what others think is a shortcoming. For example, if the other person is obese, you can say that the other person has a good figure. Your opponent's handwriting is not elegant, but you say his handwriting is good. When the other person hears it, he will only think that you are satirizing him, so think carefully before praising others and base yourself on facts.
Not everyone is born with the ability to fall in love, it needs you to learn and practice, so please absorb the above ten love skills. When you have absorbed enough, you can fully feel the sweetness brought by love.