Story:
1. The Analects of Confucius and Yan Yuan asks for benevolence. Confucius said, "Going out is like seeing a distinguished guest, making people like bearing a big sacrifice. Do as you would be done by. No complaints in the state, no complaints at home. " Zhong Gong said, "Yong is not sensitive, so please talk to me!" Zhong Gong asked Confucius how to behave in a humane way. Confucius replied: "One should treat people seriously, don't impose things he doesn't like on others, and don't complain whether he is in opposition or in opposition." Zhong Gong thanked him: "I am slow, but I must remember what Mr. Wang said."
2. "The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong" "Zi Gong asked:' Who has a word and can do it all his life?' Confucius said,' I forgive you. Do as you would be done by. Zi Gong asked Confucius,' Can the truth of life cultivation be summarized in one sentence?' Confucius said,' That is forgiveness. Never impose on others what you don't want.'
truth: what this sentence reveals is the important principle of dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with others, don't be narrow-minded, but be generous and forgive others. If you push something you hate to others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control. The communication between people should really adhere to this principle, which is the embodiment of respecting others and treating others equally. In this world, besides paying attention to your own existence, you should also pay attention to the existence of others. People are equal, so don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Second, don't do it because of the small evil, and don't do it because of the small good
Story:
These are the words in Liu Bei's last testament to his son Liu Chan, urging him to study in Germany and make a difference. Good things should start from small things, and small things can make a big deal. Bad things should also be prevented from small things, otherwise many a mickle makes a mickle, which will also ruin big things. Therefore, don't stop doing good things because they are small, let alone doing bad things because they are small. A lot of small good will become a great good for the world, while a lot of small evil will be "enough to mess up the country." Liu Beiwen of the Three Kingdoms said, "Don't act on the small evil, and don't act on the small good.". This sentence is about the truth of being a man, as long as it is good, even small goodness should be done; As long as it is "evil", even small evils can't be done. This sentence deserves to be known and remembered by the students.
Truth:
The school has made repeated demands on students' daily behavior norms, but there are still many students who violate the rules, and some only violate some very small mistakes, such as jumping out of windows, throwing peels and plastic bags. Although these phenomena are becoming less and less, they still exist after all. It can be imagined that when these students violate these "small" mistakes, they are most likely lucky: "It's a piece of cake. The teacher didn't see it. " This kind of luck is harmful. Missing a section may be the beginning of a big mistake, because a person's good quality is often reflected in the section, as the saying goes, "don't do it with small evils." On the contrary, self-discipline, self-love, self-esteem, self-improvement, starting from "small" at all times and everywhere, may be a good start to grow into a useful person. As the saying goes, "Don't be good at small." Of course, all this doesn't have to be seen by teachers. Violation of "small" mistakes, even if "the teacher can't see", is still a definite mistake; Having done "small" good deeds and gained "small" gains, even if "the teacher can't see", it is still a gratifying progress. Don't do it with small evil, and don't do it with small good. If the students take Liu Bei's words from the Three Kingdoms as a motto, they will gain a lot and make a lot of progress!
third, a gentleman is always striving for self-improvement; As the Earth’s capacity is to hold, so must a gentleman constantly cultivate virtue in himself to shoulder the world.
Story and truth:
Tsinghua University's school motto is: "Strive for self-improvement and be virtuous." I quote
"Tian Xingjian" from Zhouyi: "Tian Xingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement" (dry divination) and "the terrain is Kun, and a gentleman carries things with virtue" (Kun divination).
It means: the movement of the sky (that is, nature) is just strong and healthy, and accordingly, a gentleman should be resolute and vigorous; The momentum of the earth is thick and smooth, and a gentleman should add virtue and accommodate everything.
a gentleman should run like Tianyu, and be indomitable even if he is displaced; If you are a gentleman, the measurement of receiving objects should be like the earth, and nothing can't be carried.