A woman who has the conditions to work should of course go out and work. Being a housewife is very hard and extremely boring. Housework is so trivial that if you don't do any of it, you won't feel comfortable. Women who work have an excuse to ask men to do some housework, but if they don't work, they have to do everything well.
Some men who understand their wives are okay, but some men who don’t understand their wives always feel that their wives don’t have to go out to work and can’t even do housework. In fact, he doesn't know that housework is the most difficult thing to do, because it is too time-consuming to do all the housework well, no matter how small it is.
Just like after eating in the morning, you will still be hungry at noon, and you will have to eat again after you are hungry. These household chores always have to be done repeatedly. After cleaning the house in the morning, it becomes dirty in the evening. We have to clean it again tomorrow morning. What woman can bear this day after day, year after year?
Especially cooking. In fact, cooking is not very tiring. Meals for a family of three are ready in an hour. But if you are a housewife, you always want to make your family eat better, and rack your brains every day to think about what meals to cook. But there are only a few kinds of home-cooked meals that can be made, and they are still the same over and over again, and I get tired of making them.
As a woman, you must have children. When the children are young, they cannot do without the care of their mothers. But after the children go to kindergarten, women can go out to work. It is very reasonable for them to make their own money and spend it. After all, they always reach out to men for money. Maybe one day men will resent it.
For me, if I keep doing housework at home, one day I will collapse. What I don’t like the most is doing housework, and I think it’s a waste of time and energy. I would rather work overtime at work than do these trivial things at home. So I think that as long as women have the conditions to work, they should not stay at home.