1. Don't miss the ignorance of girlhood. Mature and sensible is the real capital of women.
2. Love can create great energy, but it needs conditions, mainly to be sober and reasonable.
3. Nothing in the world can't be lost, except inner freedom.
4. There is never a doomed misfortune, only the persistence of never letting go.
5. Don't hold a grudge, just let him leave. Don't mind who he is with, let him bear it himself, we have no right to intervene in other people's lives. It's already very comforting to manage yourself.
6. We can't control when love appears, but you can choose and control how to love and who to love.
7. Only when you learn to leave the negative desire you are attached to can you really mature, otherwise it will be difficult for you to be competent for many social roles of women and get rid of the controlled demons.
8. Women are sometimes very rogue, thinking that they still love each other if they can't forget. In fact, it's just inertia, even inertia, because they don't want to be alone, and they have to bear the life they don't want to grow up.
9. True happiness needs reason, not fate. Finding the wrong man will only make people miserable, but it is their own choice.
1. Love is very realistic, and you can't be too emotional or adventurous, especially for those who are not casual and strong, so be practical. Returning to independent reason is the beacon of love.
11. Only by knowing the other sex with your heart can you get along with the opposite sex. Man is not a model of transformation, he has his unique physiological, psychological, secular and gender identity needs.
12. Abandonment is not a solution to the problem. We must face up to and mend contradictions, learn to grow, give and bear in the process, and finally love.
13. Emotion alone is not enough to feed love, and passion alone cannot guarantee a quality and lasting relationship. We must mature ourselves and understand that people don't live for themselves. We must learn to get along with others in order to grow up, learn to love and respect each other. Let go of yourself, pursue a deeper level of love than the relationship between men and women, enter each other's inner world modestly, feel each other's thoughts and feelings, care about each other, be less selfish and care more.
14. Ask yourself first: What do you want, what are you most afraid of losing, why are you afraid of losing, and whether you have ever had it. Understand that if you don't have it, you can't talk about losing it, then there is no excuse to be afraid.
15. The biggest obstacle for smart people is that they are consciously smart, persistent in disguise, and inflexible, and they misunderstand that they have strong ability to change everything and win the world.
16. I don't know if I have gone wrong, but if the reality can't turn back, I can only look forward and actively face the life from the beginning.
17. People who live only for others are not great, but irresponsible.
18. Powerful love always begins with self-love, so that there is a lot of room for love, at least to release one's emotional shackles in love. Many times, what we love is not love itself, but the shackles in the relationship, which encourages the morbid self-persistence.
19. On the road of love, we may not see through that our partner will go bad at the beginning, but when we go on and find that the other person has become inhuman and insatiable, we should have the determination and decisive solution to wake up.
2. A woman's true happiness cannot be brought into her heart by a family, a man or a piece of wedding paper. To bring into the heart means to feel the happiness of peace and joy from the heart, not the superficial vanity that is known to shine at the moment. Fame, status, material and wealth can all bring happiness, but they do not guarantee peace of mind and satisfaction.
21. A truly happy woman must have the following conditions: emotional stability, independent thinking ability, a rich spiritual world, economic independence without relying on others, awareness and proper management of her own desires.
22. Every predestination has positive significance. If we can rebuild the energy of life, every relationship will be earned back, and life is trip worthwhile.
23. Forgiveness and love are more effective forgetful drugs than amnesia.
24. If forget the sorrow lets go of those who have hurt himself, it is the best release. This is not cleverness, but self-love and knowing how to love others. Since you can't love anymore, you should let go, let your feelings run away, let unnecessary and even harmful substances flow away from your body like detoxification, say goodbye and then go on your way.
25. Forgiving each other is tantamount to forgiving your own persistence, at least the persistence of love and hate for each other.
26. Love is not lost, only a passerby is lost. If the other person is destined to leave, he is just a passer-by from beginning to end. We have no reason to be upset about the departure of a passer-by, so we can't help ourselves! The road still has to go on.
27. Learn to face it. When the extreme pain is exhausted, hate has no power anymore, and what you get is love for life and yourself.
28. We haven't forgotten the reason for the pain. We just need to transform it and return to the care of love. All the memories are peaceful history, so that we can grow up.
29. Many people will become the most despised people in the past when they are lovelorn. They do the most despised things in the past, not because they are so ugly, but because they lose the power of love for a while and can't balance themselves, which contributes to the most unstable self and the most desire to vent their own side.
3. Learn to be grateful for what you get, not to resent what you lose.
31. Go back to yourself and don't give up love. Although the object of love has changed, love has not run away, and love is still there. This kind of love, just don't waste this life. Many people miss love, not because it is gone, but because they don't know how to grasp it. The love that can be grasped, the memory is beautiful, because I loved and still loved.
32. Those who have lost love and forgotten love should find back the dignity and value of love and life.
33. People who like to keep pets need to show their love by manipulating another life more or less, but they are never willing to let it go, and they don't know the truth of returning life to freedom. I don't know how to release my feelings and occupy each other's private space. In fact, I don't fall in love with each other. I just fall in love with the sense of fulfillment that I enjoy by bringing my lover into my life. I don't really fall in love with each other and care about each other's life.
34. The most suffocating thing about love is to kill each other's freedom in the name of caring. The greatest consideration is not to cling to each other like strong glue, but to leave room and empty space for each other to breathe and breathe, so that they can have new strength and feelings to love.
35. Lovers leave themselves and learn to grow up in breaking up.
36. Life is originally independent. Although it is related to other people, it does not constitute a reason for being necessarily shared. Life is lonely, but not necessarily lonely. Loneliness is self-sufficient, but loneliness is hard to control! People need independent space to face themselves, which is human nature, not autistic or selfish. Relationships have always contradicted this nature.
37. We always think that we have the right to enter other people's world, and even as a spouse's hegemonic status, we ask the other party to open the window of the heart and let ourselves break in as a foothold. I've always been empty, just looking for a dependence, and it has nothing to do with love.
38. Looking at your feelings, how many are open-minded, pure, carefree love, and how many are self-obsessed and unwilling to let go of your doomed love? Let it go, and love will really live.
39. If love is only self-centered, it is often just an illusion, a feeling made up by oneself and the relationship with many demands. We all love architects, but we forget the feelings and real needs of the residents in the building.
4. It is easy for us to feed a love belief that we don't want to lose by the existence of our lover, so that we can have eternal love and create the eternity of life. Therefore, I can't bear the feeling that the other party betrayed my belief, and I can't walk out of my own ideological trap for a while, preferring to escape by death.
41. If you have relied on it and realized it, you should give up, go on the road alone, transform it into the wisdom of love, realize the true meaning of love, release its power, and infect yourself and others. In this case, you should also say to the venerable person who has opened your heart, "Goodbye, I will just go on the road alone." This is the real enlightenment, a glimpse of light.
42. You will be more sensitive to love if you have experienced the most painful pain. When the most painful feeling has been experienced, I suddenly find that nothing needs to be afraid.
43. Only when you learn to let yourself go can you have the strength to give love.
44. Revitalizing yourself and not giving up is the key to turning sadness into life force.
45. Love is not sacrifice and submission. I am willing to give everything for love, even the most precious dignity. In the end, I usually get nothing instead of the other person's love.
46. Only by living independently and with self-respect can you have the strength and ability to love and give.
47. People's hearts are actually very complicated, and no one can fully understand themselves, let alone others. Positive people learn to adapt, face and accept themselves instead of seeking 1% understanding.
48. People with self-confidence don't care whether they are understood or misunderstood, but only liberate their stubbornness first. Knowing yourself is more important than waiting for others to understand you.
49. Mature people are responsible for their own choices and emotions, and take care of the consequences. They understand that people live not only for themselves, but also for their feelings and desires. They must first understand their own limitations, take care of themselves and others, and be responsible for their own efforts and those of others. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. Only then can you determine the orientation of happiness and establish a loving relationship.
5, love, do what you can. Love that is powerless is just a dead end.