Stephen Covey's famous saying:

1. What hurts us most is neither what others have done nor our own mistakes, but our response to them. Just like after being bitten by a poisonous snake, if you are busy catching the snake, it will only make the toxic attack faster. It is better to try to expel the venom as soon as possible.

2. Most people spend too much time on urgent things, but not enough time on important things.

3. Most people listen not to understand, but to answer.

4. What hurts us is not our experience, but our response to it.

5. Love is a verb, and the feeling of love is the result of love action, so please love her, serve her, sacrifice for her, listen to her heart, put yourself in her shoes, appreciate her and affirm her.

6. Happiness, like misfortune, is an active choice.

7. Remember, to a great extent, we are always teaching something, because we are always radiating our own appearance.

8. People who are not self-disciplined are slaves to lust, desire and feelings.

9. When you are raising children, you are also raising your grandchildren, and your way will continue. This is the family culture, which exerts a subtle influence on everyone in the family. Virtue is also worth inheriting, and you will become a respected person.

1. Wisdom comes from understanding. It is unwise to act without understanding, even if people feel that their actions bring a good feeling from their own perspective.