Don't blame others for your mistakes, but summarize them in the Analects of Confucius?
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", from The Analects of Confucius-Wei Linggong. The famous words of Confucius, an ancient thinker and educator in China. If you don't want to be treated like this physically or mentally, don't let others suffer unwanted results and get unwanted treatment.