Today I especially want to share two sentences from the Qing Dynasty's "Proverbs Lian Bi": In great joy, no people are allowed. Don't answer people's letters when you are angry.

Just don’t make promises to others when you are happy in the moment, because otherwise you will overpromise and you will be very upset, or else you will be unable to fulfill your promise and will be unable to get off.

A few days ago, a friend said in the group that he was lucky enough to win a new stock lottery and made a small profit. He then sent red envelopes to the group to show his happiness. Everyone was happy to have the good luck, and some of them started joking that they would have a dinner together to have fun together, and their friends immediately agreed.

A few days later, everyone was asking where to have dinner together, but my friend was silent. Later, he said that he was too happy at the time and did not think carefully. In fact, the money he won was not much, and his wife used it to pay the mortgage.

Everyone was embarrassed when they found out!

Don’t answer people’s letters when you are angry. Never express your opinion when you are angry, because when you are impulsive, you may regret it the next day. And not all relationships can tolerate your harshness, and not all relationships can be repaired after being damaged. The damage to some relationships is irreversible.

Let me tell you about my own personal experience!

I have a friend who I have played with since childhood, and we have kept in touch since we entered society respectively. However, I did not know that she was married. When I found out, I felt quite angry and asked her, "What are you doing?" Why didn't you tell me about your marriage? She talked a lot. Due to various reasons, she did not host the banquet, but only invited both parents to witness it. I said, then I probably won’t invite you to my future weddings because you didn’t invite me.

I was very angry when I said this, but afterwards I was very upset and regretful. I wanted to explain it to her, but there seemed to be no way to explain it, and it would only get darker and darker.

Later on, our relationship really faded away. We would chat a few words when we met at home, but it was limited to politeness. We only existed in each other’s circle of friends and only liked each other. self.

Therefore, as I gain more experience and age, I gradually learn to speak a little slower when I feel and speak a little slower. It seems slow, but this makes it less likely to fall and makes me faster. , more calm.