In our ordinary daily life, we are often touched by certain things or people. At this time, you might as well try writing an article of sentiment to facilitate memory. So, what do sentimental articles generally look like? Below is the life experience of giving and giving back that I have compiled for you. You are welcome to learn from and refer to it. I hope it will be helpful to you. Life Insights on Giving and Reward Part 1
There is always a reward for giving. A philosophical saying that has been passed down through the ages. Does giving really have to be rewarded? If you pay, you must be rewarded!
Many people always complain that they have paid so much but received so little in return. Therefore, I worked hard to achieve a balance between giving and receiving, and I was exhausted. But in the end, it was not clear whether the two were really directly proportional. In fact, you don’t have to worry about so much in life. You have already paid for it, so does it matter whether there is any reward? Perhaps, all people want is inner balance.
I don’t know if you have ever seen the story of Lord Buddha cutting off his flesh and feeding it to an eagle. Back then, Lord Buddha saved an eagle that was starving and was about to die. There was nothing to feed it, so he had no choice but to feed it from his own body. Cut off meat from the body and feed it to the eagle. From this we can see the depth of Lord Buddha’s enlightenment. If Lord Buddha had also thought about whether the contribution and reward were directly proportional, then this story would not have happened. When we do things or pay, sometimes we may not get any tangible rewards, or the rewards we get are not proportional to what we pay. In fact, when we pay for others, others may not be able to give us tangible rewards, but they must be full of gratitude to you in their hearts. In fact, this is enough, because we help others, we may also get pleasure at the same time.
Previously, I saw a story: The general meaning is that when we give or help others, we should understand some rewards appropriately. I didn't feel very clear before, why do I need to understand the rewards for helping others? As time goes by and my social experience grows, I slowly understand some of the truth. When we go to help someone who needs help, it may be just a simple task for us. It can be done easily, and why not do it if we can help others! Afterwards, we will think that this is just a trivial matter, so why bother to understand others? feedback, that seems a bit too realistic, so I always don’t take other people’s feedback lightly. In fact, sometimes it is a good thing for the person you help to have some understanding in return. They may not be able to give us more valuable rewards, it may be just a small gift or a glass of water, or a home-cooked meal. But what they return to us in their hearts is gratitude. When we reject that small gift, we also reject the gratitude from others! If we often do this, then in the eyes of others, There may be a feeling of guilt in the heart, or we may think that his reward is not good enough. Therefore, after helping others, when others reward you, please do not refuse them easily.
We don’t need to get something in return after giving, but when others sincerely want to repay you, you must also collect some rewards appropriately and give others a chance to repay you. It also makes others feel that they don't owe you anything, otherwise they will always feel that they owe you a favor.
After you pay, it’s hard to think about whether the reward is proportional to your efforts. If you pay, there must be a reward. It’s just a matter of how much. Life Insights on Giving and Reward Part 2
Giving and returning are the balance of life. How do we correctly treat payment and reward? This is the true embodiment of the value of life. I think: We should underestimate rewards, so that we can live a simple and free life, be kind to others, and make money with kindness. People cannot make money or get promoted in life, but they must have a good mentality and emotions, which is wealth, and being free from illness is blessing. Kissinger from the United States said: "If you pay a lot, you may get little or no reward, which may appear to be a loss, but you have accumulated valuable experience. That is the real reward, which cannot be measured by economics." Taoism said: "Suffering a loss is taking advantage." There are many ways to respond to your own efforts, understand the kindness of others, and repay others. It should be said that every kind of effort will be rewarded. Paying without reward is not called giving. Regardless of whether you are willing to understand and receive rewards, as long as you pay, there will be rewards, but the materials and methods of rewards are different. Perhaps, the rewards are often not as perfect as imagined when giving. However, we should know that there is a lot of effort, and the rewards we get may not be what we think. Those who have given their lives will not be rewarded with their lives. Those who have given their youth will never be rewarded with youth. Those who have given their kindness may be rewarded with true love. Those who have given their true love may be rewarded with a sneer. Those who have given their energy may be rewarded. Those who have time to rest may be rewarded with illness; those who work hard and be honest may be rewarded with dismissal. The rewards vary.
The words "pay and return" are brothers Luan. No matter how you say it, as long as you pay, you will always be rewarded. Buddha said: "Everything has a cause and effect. Everyone has three feet of sky above his head, so who can be let go." It means that the sky will not bear the fate of people, as long as you pay There must be something in return. No matter what kind of social system it is, the only difference is its size.
People who only care about rewards and are unwilling to pay are the garbage of the times, stupid and unrealistic. It is unrealistic to just sit back and enjoy the fruits of success, and let the pie fall from the sky. There is only one kind of person in the world who can't get results despite his efforts, and that is the martyrs who have fought for and succeeded one after another. Only their efforts cannot be enjoyed. Shouldn't flesh-and-blood brothers pay attention to how much they give and what they pay in return? Otherwise, there will be no family affection between people. People who focus on giving and returns all day long are too selfish and will lose everything. The value that life should have.
As the saying goes, "A drop of kindness should be repaid by a spring." Repaying kindness is a virtue of being a human being. Everyone has the method, method and conditions to choose to repay, and there is nothing wrong with this. If a girl uses her body and mind to repay a boy's kindness to her, such a return is likely to put a heavy burden on her body and mind. This burden is likely to gradually make the girl unable to breathe. Cause long-term mental burden, even complete depression. Therefore, tranquility and far-reaching, all our pursuit of fame and wealth are ultimately for a better life. Some people wait until they have all this before enjoying life. When they look back, it is already dawn and dusk, and youth is no longer. Why don’t we let go of those things that are too heavy? Give yourself a beautiful mood, listen to the sounds of nature, integrate into nature, and give yourself a beautiful scenery.
People are all about feelings, but they also want something in return. There are very few people in this world who don’t want something in return. Just think about it, when you give love to someone, if that person is indifferent, can you continue to show love to him? Those who boast that they never ask for anything in return are simply deceiving themselves. Is there anyone in this world who doesn’t ask for anything in return? To work hard is to reward; to raise children is to reward; to provide for old age is to reward; to give people roses is to reward; to take revenge is to reward; to write hard is to reward; to make friends is to reward... As for knowing each other by fate and not being separated, it is not It cannot be explained clearly by the word "love". There are many kinds of love. The depth of your love for others determines the depth of friendship between you and others. If you cannot repay love, you will be "isolated and helpless" and you will be "alienated". How can you be "unappreciative" Woolen cloth?
In real life, you may not get what you expected in return for your efforts. But you didn't realize that when you paid, you got rewards at the same time. It is precisely because those rewards are so small compared with what people usually think of as rewards. What they give you is spiritual happiness and spiritual comfort. Give you too much heartbeat. Many efforts in life do not get the return you expect, but you cannot stop giving just because you don't get the return you want. Reward is everywhere. There is a Chinese saying, "Giving roses to others will leave a lingering fragrance in your hands." Can the lingering fragrance on your hands not be called reward? When you help others and they say thank you to you, and when others are enjoying their lives because of your efforts, don't you feel sincerely moved and happy? This is the reward.
There is a kind of love that you cannot repay. One day, our parents will grow old slowly. They were as young as me and full of desire for life. However, when they become parents, they give the benefits of their own lives to their children. No matter how well you do now, in the future, when you see your old parents, you will still feel regret, because you know that your parents have given you too much, and you can give them too little in return. The journey of life is complex, tortuous and changeable. My father is like a mountain and my mother is like the sea. My father is an upright man, and my parents have provided us with a blue sky in life. My father has a heroic spirit, and my mother has a soft intestine. Our parents raised us with their generous minds, their implicit and deep love, and passed on our strength. Parents are worthy of our life in return. The love that parents all over the world have for their children is sincere and selfless, without asking for anything in return, and it never ends. That kind of unrequited love, for me, for us, or for more people, is unforgettable and even difficult to repay. We can only face the future life with a grateful heart!
Chinese parents have traditional virtues and are the most diligent about their children. They always want to arrange everything for us properly and thoughtfully. Parents have no selfish intentions towards their children. Motherly love is the greatest in the world. We can't repay, but as children, if we often call our parents to make sure they are safe, it can make the mother worry less; if we help our parents do what we can, it shows that we are sensible, and it can also make the parents worry less; And more importantly, as recorded in The Analects of Confucius: "Meng Wubo asked about filial piety, and Confucius said: 'Parents are only a source of worry for their illness.'" Therefore, he said: As children, we must cherish our parents, and do not let the tree grow quiet. Sometimes the wind blows, and the son wants to be filial, but sometimes the relatives are not there. Some things in the world can be made up for, and some things can never be made up for. "Filial piety" is a fleeting attachment, "filial piety" is a past that can be regretted forever after a mistake, "filial piety" is the chain of life transfer, once broken, it can never be connected. While your parents are still alive, hurry up and show your filial piety, maybe it's a piece of clothing, maybe a pair of clean cloth shoes, maybe it's a cordial greeting, so as to leave less regrets for yourself.
It is worth mentioning that there are still many things in this world that are beautiful because of gratitude. There is always a kind of great love in this world, which never cares about personal gains and losses, and never cares about one's own efforts and rewards. , that is, like the spring breeze blowing on the face without leaving any trace, spring is everywhere, green, flowers are in full bloom, and fragrance is overflowing.
There are many people spreading love, filling the world with love, allowing us to be moved in the ordinary and enjoy the warmth of great love. In the vast sea of ????people, in the complicated world, in the colorful life, what is the most touching? Family affection! Friendship! emotion! Both and no. The most touching thing is those selfless gifts and true love in return. Between people, in addition to fame and wealth, there is also a touch of affection. "Human beings are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless." Even if everything outside the body is lost, there are still feelings that cannot be taken away. When there is love, there is also righteousness, so that life will not be blinded by material desires, and society will be able to demonstrate and inherit morality. Gifts and rewards reflect the perfection of true love in the world. "If you receive a drop of kindness from someone, you must repay it with a spring of water", "Sending goose feathers from a thousand miles, the courtesy is light but the friendship is heavy." "A man will die for a confidant, and a woman will look good for herself." These simple sentences express people's love for thousands of years. An inner agreement of true love in the world.
Love is an eternal theme in human life, a topic that is always chattering. When you give your complete love, do you want something in return? I think the answer is yes! Love is a matter of two people, not a one-sided love. There are many people who initially treat relationships with the idea that feelings do not need to be reciprocated. Often, after a long period of emotional dedication, they find that they are exhausted physically and mentally. Their bodies and hearts have long been emptied by feelings, and they feel that they have been emptied by the other person. Got it! When you pay for love, the final expected reward is the word "love". People who pay poorly for love are also doing it for the word "love". If you love life deeply and understand with your heart, you will find that although there are great evils in this world, there are still more perfections than evils. As long as you sincerely give, when you give, others will also give to you; as long as you sincerely repay, when you repay, others will repay you. However, when giving a gift, don't be utilitarian or have too many hopes. Just like the spring breeze blowing on your face, the spring breeze is pleasant, and you are also happy. However, when giving back, don't go beyond what you bear, and don't do it perfunctorily. It should be like the fragrance of autumn fruits. The autumn fruits are sweet and so are others.
If we really love our relatives and loved ones, we must live well, work well, and understand well, so that they can feel relieved and happy. Because, this is the best return of love. It is indeed not advisable to be greedy for small favors. It does not necessarily lead to the results you want. Similarly, it is probably not advisable to base the favors given by others on utilitarianism. All in all, pay and repay should be treated correctly, underestimate it, ignore it, ignore it, you will live more gracefully than anyone else, your life path is infinitely bright, treat life well, and be proud of the world. Life Insights on Giving and Return Part 3
The scale, just like its name, symbolizes equality and fairness, accurately reflects the weight of things, and never favors any party. There is also such a big scale in the world, which is specially designed to weigh a person's efforts and rewards. How much you pay will correspond to how much you should get in return.
An ordinary teacher, for decades, spent his youth and sweat on the three-foot podium. With his exquisite teaching quality and noble teacher ethics, he gained peaches and plums all over the world. In exchange for the respect of the world for him.
An ordinary traffic policeman sticks to his post no matter how cold or hot the weather is, solving problems for passers-by, standing up before disputes, punishing illegal drivers, safeguarding people's safety and interests, and winning the trust of everyone. of appreciation and praise.
A hard-working housewife has worked hard for her family all her life, raising children and taking care of the elderly. She has won the respect of the whole family and has become an indispensable backbone of a happy family.
Ordinary people are working hard in their ordinary positions. They are not pursuing fame or profit, but the big scale between heaven and earth has rewarded them with corresponding fame and fortune.
On the contrary, some people who lose their direction in the face of fame and fortune and are unwilling to give only for rewards will only make the scale tilt more and more until they fall into the abyss and cannot extricate themselves.
A young accountant was obsessed with profit and indulged in a life of extravagant wealth. In order to satisfy his high consumption, he did not hesitate to abandon his conscience and embezzle public funds. In the end, the matter was exposed and he was imprisoned.
A customs official took advantage of his power to accept bribes from unscrupulous traders and opened a green channel for his merchant ships, causing losses of more than 10 million to the national economy, lining his own pockets, and damaging the public's interests. Benefits, what awaits him in the end is the severe punishment of the law.
A young man in his prime has developed a bad habit of eating and being lazy since he was a child. In order to meet his living expenses, he embarks on the road of stealing, kidnapping and robbery step by step. Finally, he is arrested during a money robbery. Spent behind bars.
People in the world always expect how much the world will give themselves in return, but they ignore how much they have paid for the world. The invisible scale between heaven and earth is fair to everyone, and only by giving will there be rewards. As a song goes: There is justice in the world, and there is always a reward for hard work; it is better to do what you say, and do your best if you want to do it... Only if we let ourselves give and do our best, will our lives be more perfect. . Insights on Life of Giving and Return Chapter 4
Once when a disciple of Confucius went out, he met a man who fell into the water and rescued him. The man was grateful and gave him an ox. After returning, Confucius praised him for doing the right thing.
As a result, everyone rushed to imitate and the folk customs improved. We have to admire the great sage’s foresight: sometimes efforts must be rewarded, which will encourage more people to do it.
After giving, everyone is eager to receive rewards, either material or spiritual, but we are used to separating them. Selfless dedication is more noble, but we do not know that this is the suppression of human nature and the distortion of the soul. Mr. Tao Yuanming is called Mr. Jingjie. How many people admire his noble character and integrity, and how many people understand his heart. He served the motherland loyally, but in return he was ridiculed and ostracized. He could only walk into the barren mountains and forests, and could only accompany him. With green lanterns and fragments of scrolls. Doesn't he want something in return? think.
The great philanthropist Chen Guangbiao likes to promote his charity wherever he goes. Is this wrong? No, on the contrary it inspired more people to do it. Parents' love is priceless but it cannot be said to be selfless. They also long for rewards. A greeting or a look is often the reward. "The crow's kindness in feeding back" and the sheep's kindness in kneeling to breast have moved many people, but what did they repay?
The reward is for you, me and him, and our world will be more perfect and harmonious. Life Insights on Giving and Reward Part 5
There is no smooth sailing for success. Only by constantly forging ahead and working hard can we achieve success. As Grandpa Tao Xingzhi said: Struggle is the father of all things. I think this sentence is very close to reality. Because I have had this experience myself.
I remember that in a math class last year, we had a math test. After I received the test paper, I saw that the test questions were very simple, so I started doing them as quickly as possible. In less than twenty minutes, one exam paper was completed. I thought to myself: This test question is so simple, I will definitely do well! This time, there’s no need to check! So I started playing. After a while, it was time for the exam, and I handed in the test paper with confidence. After school in the afternoon, I went home and proudly said to my mother: "Mom, I took the math test today. The questions are super simple. I will definitely do well in the test!" My mother said dubiously: "Oh, really? But you can't do math. If you don't pay attention to your weak points, you will make mistakes.
The next day, the math teacher came into the classroom holding a stack of test papers. I observed the teacher's facial expression - Qing, I was finally relieved. But the test paper that was handed out surprised me. The dazzling letter "B" and the bright red crosses made my scalp numb. The teacher said: "Our class did well in this exam, but some students did not do well." After listening to this, my face felt burning pain...
After this, I have always kept this unforgettable lesson in mind and got rid of the bad idea of ??"hating mathematics". Whenever I have free time, I will carefully review the new knowledge taught by the mathematics teacher, and then do some related exercises. , consolidate good knowledge. I also got rid of the bad habit of always not answering questions in math class. Basically, I can raise my hands attentively for every question asked by the teacher. Although I didn't have to be asked questions by the teacher, I was very happy.
Soon, another unit test began. I kept the lessons learned from the last time in mind and did it very seriously. I checked all the calculation questions that I usually did carelessly, not to mention other questions. They were all done after careful consideration. Hard work paid off, and I got full marks in that exam. I cried with joy because I finally defeated myself and proved myself.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Efforts must be rewarded!