Life is full of Qian Qian's knowledge. For the weak, most of the knowledge they understand about life is that they believe in "becoming themselves through the help of others", so they are always used to looking for the "third hand", while for the strong, their knowledge of life is to sharpen themselves and be good at winning the world in their own way. Where is the success of life? Some people think it is a springboard for others to succeed, so that they can step out step by step. This is one of the most absurd fallacies in life. Such people will naturally be weak-soft as mud. Crispy as grass. The real life is completed by the strong, who are good at honing themselves, finding their own goals, and opening the gap in life with tenacious perseverance. Zeng Guofan was born to be strong. He spent all his life in the word "honing", constantly strengthening his mind and ability, and thus found a road to success that he called "the dragon of man". This is Zeng Guofan's learning to sharpen his life. This knowledge directly determines the foundation of his soaring.
Second, the knowledge of changing personality: life is a big classroom for self-study.
"Misunderstanding of personality" is a topic that modern people are very concerned about, because the mistake of personality is a big mistake in life. Obviously, personality is a university question of life. To this end, some people are always arrogant, thinking that they are the most knowledgeable and have the strongest momentum in the world, so they often act like a vice president, pointing east and west and drinking five cups; Why do some people sigh, only envy others, but don't know how to start the Long March, so life is always bleak. These are all caused by personality diseases. Zeng Guofan's life has a very prominent feature, that is, he is good at changing his personality in different environments. Strive to achieve a perfect state and deal with the situation of life. It can be seen that Zeng Guofan regarded his life as a big classroom for self-study. Learn to change your personality and achieve great things in your heart.
Third, the knowledge of saving fate: firmly grasp the initiative to break through life.
More than two thousand years ago in ancient Greece, there was a great thinker named Plato. He has a famous saying: "Destiny is the first knowledge in life." Indeed, everyone is trying to change his own destiny and make himself the master of it. So we have seen countless people who want to save their own destiny. They are showing different fighting postures every day. There are also countless people who have succumbed to fate and become slaves to it. At the moment of saving his own destiny, Zeng Guofan never simplified any problems, but completed his life planning with a grand vision and fine means. He around a central point, many attacks, in the most effective time to find the most effective breakthrough, making it difficult for others. In Zeng Guofan's view, the knowledge of saving fate lies in the word "initiative". As long as one has the initiative, what else can't be done?
Fourth, the knowledge of being in power: keep in mind the training of "being in its place and seeking its own politics"
Success is one thing, and how to succeed is another-the former is the result and the latter is the process. Once a person gets what he wants, for example, he can have the capital to govern for politics, then there will be more problems, and each problem is a knowledge that needs to be studied and solved. Otherwise, why were there ministers and ministers' books in ancient China? People who don't understand this problem will never be able to "seek politics in their place." For Zeng Guofan, learning to be an official is the highlight of his administration. According to his personal experience of upgrading to the third grade, he summed up a set of official studies about patience, diligence, incorruptibility and being close to the people. Zeng Guofan's knowledge of being in power can be summarized in three words-"be a good official"!
Fifth, the way of employing people: a person can never become a climate.
How to use people, especially how to use the right people, is extremely profound. People who are not good at employing people will be exhausted if they catch one and use the other. This is the worst employment skill in the world. People who make good use of people always give people status, power and willingness to work and serve. This is called the wise man's skill of employing people. Zeng Guofan's way of employing people is an important part of his success in life. He never blindly selects people and confuses authorization, but keeps his eyes open and follows the method of "employing people after seeing through". The avoidance of avoidance and the mention of mention show that leadership and management wisdom are in place. The key reason why he did this is because he understands that a person can never become a climate, and he has to help others and jointly fight the world. This is called making good use of joint knowledge.
6. Be good at tapping potential strength.
Dale Carnegie, a famous American success master, said: "The knowledge spread is wonderful, and only those who have done it can know how great the potential power is!" The so-called wonderful, not really can't say, but need to let smart people say. It is not difficult to rule out that some clumsy people who are unsociable are not good at managing their own personnel relations at all, and may even destroy the existing "relationship network", thus putting themselves in a passive position; Smart communicators always do this-"unite with everyone who can be United" to win good popularity to the greatest extent. Zeng Guofan's communicative knowledge is: let go of your hands and feet, be honest with each other, and turn Machamp into a friendly force. That is to say, Zeng Guofan especially understands the relationship and knowledge between communication and reward-"If you want to be recognized by others, you must first be recognized by others."
Seven, keep a low profile and know how to advance and retreat: be a wise man every day.
In the animal world, we can often see lions, tigers, leopards, deer, cows and horses hiding their secrets and advancing and retreating freely. Their fundamental purpose is to capture negative images or keep their bodies. This simple truth is also found in the attack and defense between people, and there is still a lot of knowledge. The key points of learning about hiding, advancing and retreating are: if you are not good at hiding, you will be sharp-edged and easy to break; If you are not good at retreating, you will be aggressive and easy to suffer. Zeng Guofan's knowledge in this field is absolutely not shallow. He hates too much physical and mental exposure, too many attacks, and is good at dark warfare to ensure that he is not hurt. His Taoism can be said to be perfect, especially at the critical moment of life, and it can be brought to the extreme, so as to make the best use of things without revealing them, and to retreat for progress. This understanding determines that Zeng Guofan is a "minister of ZTE".
Eight, learn the knowledge of self-cultivation: the highest realm of life lies in the word "cultivating the heart"
The word "learning" is of course related to reading. Which woman can't stand it? Books are learning lessons that everyone can never finish reading. Unfortunately, some people are sharp-tongued and thick-skinned, have no ink in their bellies, and only do small things by cleverness; Some people take reading as their housekeeping skill, cultivate their body and mind, adjust their mentality, and deal with what is going on in the world with a normal heart. As a member of Tongcheng School, Zeng Guofan has profound attainments in Confucianism and the spirit of Laozi and Zhuangzi, and has developed the habit of reading classics every day. This good habit nourishes his greatest knowledge and understands that the highest state of life lies in the word "nourishing the heart". Indeed, Zeng Guofan is a master of ancient officials in learning to raise the heart, and he really did his daily health. Please remember: the most important problem in life is not to acquire gold and silver treasures, but to cultivate one's mind and nature.
Quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality. Since ancient times, thrift has been regarded as the virtue of self-culti