First, cultivate children's interest in reading. The cultivation of interest does not happen overnight. Parents need patience and set an example, and the influence is subtle. Of course, the earlier this influence, the better. Don't think children don't know anything. When a child's brain is born, it is a blank sheet of paper and a sponge. The sooner things appear in the child's mind, the better. A baby is reading when it is a card. When he grows up, one word is reading. Over time, children will like reading. I remember the first book I bought for my children. That's a red apple and a lovely kitten. The daughter cocked her head and looked at it. In addition, it is necessary to create a reading atmosphere for children. I specially bought a bookcase for my child, so that she can sort out the picture books she has read every day and take out any picture books she wants at any time.
I insist on reading at least two picture books every night, so that children can read them carefully together. The most important thing is to read carefully, so that our children can feel our concern.
Secondly, parent-child reading should not be one-sided. The times are progressing, and knowledge can be obtained not only from books. I never object to children watching TV and playing computer. The key is to be moderate, and more importantly, to cultivate children's habit of watching TV and playing computer correctly. Instead of "blocking", it is better to use the strategy of "sparse" and not watch TV or play computer. Even if it is blocked, the children will fall behind. I think watching TV and playing computer with children is also a kind of parent-child reading. Of course, the content is not adult series or violent games. The TV that my daughter often watches is cartoons, so the time should be controlled well. Let my daughter talk about the content of cartoons.
Finally, parent-child reading should be combined with life, chatting with children, talking about what happened in class, talking about what happened at work, so that children can keep abreast of adults' work, and we can also keep abreast of children's inner emotions. It is very beneficial to let children talk more and parents listen more.
A book is a small seed. When parents plant it in their children's hearts and irrigate it patiently, the small seed will flourish in generate, grow into a towering tree, enlighten the mind and nourish wisdom. My level is limited, and my opinion is correct or not. Please give me valuable advice.
Parents share their parent-child reading experience. Parent-child reading exists in most families, but its origins are different: some come from children's urgent interpretation of pictures, and some come from parents' earnest expectations. The reason why my family started parent-child reading is to raise children before pregnancy.
Before planning to have a baby, my father and I were not only psychologically prepared for being parents, but also learned how to have a healthy baby. Daodao will be seven years old soon, but his parents have been studying for almost eight years. This is because when he is still messing around in his stomach, he can calm down and listen at nine o'clock every night. At first, my father was embarrassed to talk to his big belly, but as the knife grew up day by day, reading brought earth-shaking changes, and at the same time urged us to constantly choose better books for him and gradually improve the children's reading ability, understanding ability and expression ability. Let me talk about my feelings in detail below, which is also a reference for everyone.
First, concentrate on reading with your child: sometimes you are lazy or uncomfortable. Adults always want to finish reading the script as soon as possible, just like completing a task, so that children can learn from what adults perfunctory instead of enjoying the wonderful content. Once I was watching the happy New Year dinner in the story of Frog Frog and Daodao's growth. I really want to sleep and read quickly in confusion. It's hard to avoid mispronouncing, but Daodao listened carefully. It's embarrassing to correct me right away. I immediately sat down to talk seriously and asked him stories at any time. Knife and knife can answer one by one, which shows that the story really penetrated his heart, and so can he.
Second, choose books in the adaptation stage: If reading is useful to the baby, I think it may make the child develop habits instead of learning specific knowledge. Then, as children grow older, they need to choose books for further study according to their knowledge. For example, before the age of 2, bright picture books are the main ones, and card books and picture books are better. 3-4 years old mainly inspires language and understands emotional relationships. Fairy tales, children's songs and sticker books are still good.
Third, intensive reading of a book at a fixed time: children, like adults, will not read carefully when there are many books, which will not play a role in reading. You can buy a set of books for a better one, but if you take out one book a week or one book every three days, the children will cherish the hard-won books and read every story carefully. I take out a series of picture books called "Cute Little Mouse" every three days, and when I finish reading them, I will deliberately guide the development trend of the next story and let him imagine the next story.
Fourth, to provide a good reading environment, parents should be more patient: curiosity, activism, lack of patience and endurance are the common psychological characteristics of children, especially younger children, who usually can't tell a book from beginning to end, then turn to this page to ask questions, and sometimes even talk about him. I am still interested in books in essence, but I have not formed the habit of listening to books and reading. On the one hand, parents need to be patient and draw their children's attention back to the story at any time, on the other hand, they need to create a quiet environment and reduce external interference.
5. Finally, be persistent: When you persist for a period of time, you will find that children will take the initiative to ask for reading and storytelling every day, and their storytelling level will also be improved.
Parent-child reading has greatly improved the language of knives. They can clearly express their feelings, listen to the story patiently, repeat a story to their grandparents, and let their parents bend over and wait for his kiss to show their love when they get home from work. Every day, let's spend more time with our children reading, spending more time with them, bringing the parent-child relationship closer and cultivating a healthy baby!
Parents share their parents' reading experience. The ancients said, "Reading is like breaking thousands of volumes, and writing is like a god.". This famous saying shows the importance of reading. Books are the spiritual wealth of human beings and the ladder of human progress. Although reading can't change the length of life, it can expand the width and enrich life. "Books have their own golden houses, and books have their own Yan Ruyu", but I think books have their own fun, especially when reading with children.
Children's world is full of innocence and happiness. We should go into the children's world and get in touch with them at zero distance. Parent-child reading is a happy experience. I deeply understand that reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. As parents, in the process of reading, we also recall the happiness of childhood, and at the same time, we can appreciate the ups and downs of children. In order to let children get in touch with books as much as possible, expand her knowledge and create a family atmosphere for reading, under the initiative of "parent-child reading" by schools and teachers, I deliberately squeezed out time to accompany my son to read after busy working hours.
In my opinion, reading with children should conform to children's psychological characteristics, and choose books that children like to read, so that children have a good impression on books. It is inappropriate to control children's reading too much. At the same time, we should also exchange reading methods and experiences with children, encourage children to tell stories or specific contents in the book, express their own views and opinions, and then analyze and discuss them together. If you do this often, your child's interest in reading may become stronger and your child's reading level will gradually improve. This is a good way for him to learn to observe and imagine, then tell him what he saw and thought, and guide him to learn to see and think for himself in the future. In this reading process, we unconsciously revel in the world of books with our children and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. Over time, children will fall in love with reading and become close to their parents. We also enrich ourselves and enrich ourselves while accompanying our children to study.
Through parent-child reading, parents and children learn and grow together, creating opportunities for parents to communicate with their children and share the pleasure of reading. Reading with children will make our family less smoky, more bookish, less impetuous and more scholarly, and set a good example for children to study.
Parents share their parents' reading experience. As a teacher and mother, I hope my children can also like books and read many interesting books. Developing good reading habits from childhood will benefit them for life. In addition, parents also have their own confusion of seeking shortcuts to reading countless times. To this end, I am thinking and taking stock, and I want to use "parent-child reading" as a big entrance to improve children's reading interest. And just yesterday afternoon, my little wish came true!
Although, in the early stage, I made a lot of preparations very hard. The planning of the activity plan, the selection of reading materials, the selection of exquisite bookmarks and the investigation of the reading environment all add a lot of color to the success of this parent-child reading activity. The atmosphere was very good yesterday. Babies sit on their parents' legs and arms, enjoying reading. I feel the same way! To my delight, a father came yesterday. Oh, I can't help but sigh that the father's weight in parent-child also occupies a very important position. Another small idea came into my mind: why not have a "parent-child reading-dad special"? It must be interesting, right?
Finally, the message board soon, and the parents were deeply moved, leaving their feelings on beautiful pieces of paper! I remember a parent who wrote a letter and left his own experience. "Shock", "innovation", "value", "enlightenment" and "pleasure" ... so many sincere conversations are the driving force for me to continue to carry out parent-child reading.
The first realization of a small wish made my heart sweet. The feeling of happiness and happiness arises spontaneously!
Parents share their parent-child reading experience. Parent-child reading exists in most families, but its origins are different: some come from children's urgent interpretation of pictures, and some come from parents' earnest expectations. The reason why my family started parent-child reading is to raise children before pregnancy.
Before planning to have a baby, my father and I were not only psychologically prepared for being parents, but also learned how to have a healthy baby. Daodao will be seven years old soon, but his parents have been studying for almost eight years. This is because when he is still messing around in his stomach, he can calm down and listen at nine o'clock every night. At first, my father was embarrassed to talk to his big belly, but as the knife grew up day by day, reading brought earth-shaking changes, and at the same time urged us to constantly choose better books for him and gradually improve the children's reading ability, understanding ability and expression ability. Let me talk about my feelings in detail below, which is also a reference for everyone.
First, concentrate on reading with children:
Sometimes when you are lazy or unwell, adults always want to finish reading the script as soon as possible, just like completing the task, so that children can learn what adults perfunctory instead of enjoying the wonderful content. Once I was watching the happy New Year dinner in the story of Frog Frog and Daodao's growth. I really want to sleep and read quickly in confusion. It's hard to avoid mispronouncing, but Daodao listened carefully. It's embarrassing to correct me right away. I immediately sat down to talk seriously and asked him stories at any time. Knife and knife can answer one by one, which shows that the story really penetrated his heart, and so can he.
Second, choose books in the adaptation stage:
If reading is good for the baby, I think it may make the child develop a habit instead of learning specific knowledge. Then, with the growth of children's age, it is necessary to choose further learning books according to their mastery of knowledge. For example, before the age of 2, bright picture books are the main ones, and card books and picture books are better. 3-4 years old mainly inspires language and understands emotional relationships. Fairy tales, children's songs and sticker books are still good.
Three, a fixed time to read a book:
Children, like adults, don't read too many books carefully, which doesn't play a role in reading. You can buy a set of books for a better one, but if you take out one book a week or one book every three days, the children will cherish the hard-won books and read every story carefully. Every three days, I take out a set of "Cute Little Mouse" series picture books. After reading them, I will deliberately guide the development trend of the next story and let him imagine the next story.
Fourth, to provide a good reading environment, parents should have greater patience:
Curiosity, hyperactivity, lack of patience and endurance are common psychological characteristics of children, especially young children. They usually don't read a book from beginning to end, turn to this page for a while, ask questions on that page for a while, and sometimes even talk about him from left to right. I am still interested in books in essence, but I have not formed the habit of listening to books and reading. On the one hand, parents need to be patient and draw their children's attention back to the story at any time, on the other hand, they need to create a quiet environment and reduce external interference.
Fifth, and finally, it is necessary to persevere:
When you persist for a period of time, you will find that children will take the initiative to ask for reading and telling stories every day, and their storytelling level will also be improved.
Parent-child reading has greatly improved the language of knives. They can clearly express their feelings, listen to the story patiently, repeat a story to their grandparents, and let their parents bend over and wait for his kiss to show their love when they get home from work. Every day, let's spend more time with our children reading, spending more time with them, bringing the parent-child relationship closer and cultivating a healthy baby!
Parents share their parents' reading experience. When I came home from school last Thursday, my daughter said to me, "Mom, we have the book Education of Love recommended by our teacher. The book "Quarrel" that we studied today is selected from this book. Please have a look. " I picked up her Chinese book and read the article Quarrel. And my daughter also reread the book "Education of Love" intently. After reading it, he said, "Mom, come and see, and let's all write about our reading experience." I said, "Okay."
I read it carefully and was very moved after reading it. Amrico, a fourth-grade primary school student, can observe carefully and write such a touching story. And I admire Amway's father, who can pay attention to the usual education methods and guide children in time, thus shaping Amway's good quality and character.
One of them is "Dadi Library", which introduces Dai Di, whose family is not rich. Although he can't afford many books, he will save them as soon as he has money, and then go to the bookstore to buy books. His father found out and bought him a bookshelf with green curtains to put these books. He tidied up these books neatly, and the titles on the spine shone with golden light, and there were many kinds. He treasures these books very much, and whenever he has time, he will dust them off and blow away the dust inside, so his books are still as good as new. When the classmates came, he only read to them and didn't play anything else. His father often encourages him, saying that he has perseverance and will succeed.
Amrico thinks all his books are worn out, so he should learn from Dai Di. He thinks he can learn a lot from him, and he admires him.
This story tells us that Dai Di is a very good boy. He likes reading and can cherish it. Amrico is also very good and observes carefully. Can absorb the strengths of others and make up for their own shortcomings. Learn from classmates with an open mind. The father of two children handles well in educating their children. Dai Di's father found that children love reading, and can give timely help and support, and give timely encouragement. Amrico's father can often communicate with children, guide and educate them in time, which is an example for our parents to learn.
Moreover, Amway's mother is also a caring person, setting an example for Amway. So that he often cares about his classmates and helps them. You can see it from the story of "Little Attic". Amrico's mother took Amrico and his sister to send some cloth to a poor woman mentioned in the newspaper. I didn't know that she was the mother of Amway classmate Cross until she arrived at her home. Close's father went to America and usually relied on his mother to sell vegetables to support his family. Now that his mother is ill, all the furniture in the house has been sold out. Chloe doesn't even have a desk. But he still studied hard and was not embarrassed because his family was poor. I smiled at Amrico when I saw him. Amrico also ran in and hugged Cross. They joined hands with each other. Amrico's mother was very moved. She took out all the money in her purse, gave it to Cross's mother and kissed him again. I couldn't help crying when I came out. After calming down, Quaker Rosie studied hard and became sensible, and asked Amway to learn from him and care more about him.
Amrico is really happy to live in such a family. His parents can communicate with him and set an example, which is suitable for guidance and education.