I might as well study for ten years if I listen to you.

If you are not proud, you are proud, not arrogant. -Zhuge Liang

Proud people always destroy themselves in pride. -Shakespeare

Say that your strength is long or short, and know that you are long. -Shen Juyi

Losing is taking advantage.

Disadvantage is a blessing.

If you get cheap, you lose.

A wise man won't fight under unfavorable circumstances.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.

Only carelessness suffers, and carelessness suffers.

It doesn't hurt to sell a lot of goods.

It's worth shopping around.

John clark: Honest people never suffer.

It is better to let money suffer than to let others suffer.

People who are obsessed with money will be harmed by money one day, people are easy to be insatiable, and things that are eye-catching are easy to suffer.

Hayes: I think I am a special person and will suffer anyway. No one knows, understands and sympathizes with the pain of such a person.

Czechoslovakia: Throw away the knife, and you will suffer.

Learn to fly first, then learn to walk, spreading your wings will be bitter.

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About not listening to the old man, you will suffer in front of you:

As the saying goes, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." There are also many examples in history of being frustrated because of disrespect for the elderly. The battle of Qin and Jin was an important battle. Before the war, Qin Mugong asked an old man named Qin Jian for advice. Uncle Jian said, "I'm afraid it will be difficult for the labor army to attack the distant country." The army expedition, the foot soldiers are tired, and the enemy country is prepared, so it is difficult to win. I don't think I should go. "Mu Gong didn't listen, so he opposed the crusade. Uncle Jian cried and said to the coach, "Meng Ming, I saw the army go out. I'm afraid I won't see the team go home. Qin Mugong was very angry and said to Uncle Jian, "What do you know? I think you should be dead. "However, the development of the war fulfilled Uncle Jian's words, and the Jin army was defeated in the vegetable field. Qin Mugong regretted not listening to Uncle Jian, but it was too late.

Do you really suffer if you don't listen to the old man?

"Son, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer!" This is what our elders often teach us. This sentence has been the supreme "imperial decree" since ancient times, but is it really right to do so?

Now children's thoughts are taught by adults that "only by listening to adults is a good child", but in this way, the sense of choice and dominance may become "blindly obeying elders". As we all know, blind obedience is not a good thing, because education is to make people have ideas, and "not listening to the old man" often erases this idea.

Listen to the old man blindly, and sometimes you will suffer. Everyone is familiar with the case of Shang. Zhong Yong was blindly dragged by his father to "associate with the city people, learn nothing", thus making Zhong Yong "disappear from everyone"! What if Zhong Yong feels opposed? Then maybe a great scholar will be born in the history of China literature.

Therefore, don't blindly "listen to the old man", but listen selectively. Sometimes what adults say is not completely correct. We should have our own consciousness, even if we listen to the "old man's words", we can't blindly guide. "Old people's words" are not necessarily good words. Sometimes adults will teach their children according to their own experience, but the experience of that era may not work in this era. What really matters is their own thoughts. Therefore, when listening to the old people, you must not just listen, you must have your own ideas. If one day adults are gone, who will listen to them? Therefore, in the process of listening, we need to have our own ideas.