Looking back on the road we have traveled in the past 50 years, we always feel suddenly enlightened. At this time, the busy road of life really has time to stop and look back.
No matter what life was like before, after 50 years old, life should be firm, calm and transparent.
At the age of 50, you will understand many things in the world. You should learn to calm down and think seriously. Walking in a hurry will only make you too late to enjoy life.
After 50, the happiest life is nothing more than two words, let go, please yourself and be kind.
First, the rare thing between gain and loss is to let go.
After the age of 50, many people have everything they need in life. Don't go after what they don't have. At this age, the most important thing is not to gain or lose, but to let go.
Learn to let go, you can fight without pressure, learn to let go, you can look down on life and enjoy the present.
Life is a one-way train you can't choose. Only by learning to let go can you be comfortable.
As the saying goes, "people can't help themselves in the Jianghu", life will inevitably compare with others, and there will inevitably be disappointments, and unhappiness will be even more unhappy.
Half a century's life should understand that life is your own, and so is a good mood.
It's better to let go than to care. This is also a way to let go of yourself. Only in this way can you live a better life.
Second, it is never too late to learn to please yourself.
Many people understand that to please themselves is to please themselves, but few people understand what really pleases them. Some people think that to please yourself is to let yourself work less and eat more good things, and to please yourself is to do whatever you want without restraint.
In fact, true self-satisfaction is a kind of spiritual self-satisfaction, which has little to do with external material.
After 50, life entered the second half. You should learn to love yourself, satisfy yourself, and please yourself from body to soul.
Only by exercising regularly and maintaining a healthy body can we have spiritual glory.
Do what you like, always satisfied, inner enrichment will bring external chic.
Third, kindness.
"A good family must have Qing Yu", kindness is a kind of moral character and a way of doing things.
When you get along with others, you should know how to put yourself in the other's shoes, be less calculating, be more sincere, and be sure to gather friends around you and be more blessed in the rest of your life.
All people and things have a certain cause and effect. Only by giving your heart and doing things with goodwill can you form a good relationship, reap good results and accumulate blessings for the rest of your life.
Life is your own. If you want to get better, you must keep learning and increase your spiritual strength.
The Second Flower Blossom is a collection of spiritual essays that can give people strength, which contains many short stories that can be meditated.
From the story, we can see the true meaning of life and feel the spiritual strength.
Putting a collection of such essays at the bedside can help you turn it over before going to bed, which can soothe your busy mind during the day and let you go to sleep calmly.