We have two kinds of extreme psychology towards children, both of which are harmful to children. First, neglect; Second, expectations are too low. Ignore it and let it die like a thatch. If expectations are too high, it will certainly promote it, but it will promote its early death. Therefore, reasonable teaching is the correct route to relieve children's pain and promote their happiness.
-Complete Works of Tao Xingzhi
I think the most important way to educate children correctly is to combine love with strictness. In life, we should not only give our children proper parental love, but also strictly demand them politically. In particular, we should be willing to let them exercise in a tough environment and grow up in the wind and rain. This is true love. Only in this way can we cultivate talents and become truly successful people.
_ _ _ _ Wu
Positive encouragement is better than negative stimulation, but the method of encouragement should not be used too much for fear of losing its effectiveness; Stimulation is good if used well, but it can only be done once in a while.
Be sure to master the development law of children's physical and spiritual nature.
-Constantine
In the field of morality, the main responsibility of parents and teachers is to let the small world where children grow up enrich the factors that can form a better personality as much as possible and exclude other factors.
Percy. can
If we want to cultivate people who are healthy, strong, sensitive, witty and brave, who are good at overcoming difficulties and have the confidence to face up to the people in front, then physical education and sports are very important factors.
Kalinin
Sadness, anxiety and pessimism can make people sick; Positive, cheerful, strong will and optimistic mood can overcome diseases and make people stronger and live longer.
-Pavlov
Physical education and sports can improve people's health and optimism, but optimism is a necessary condition for longevity.
-Lebesinskaya
The most obvious sign of a great man is his strong will. No matter how the environment changes, his original intention and hope will not change at all, but he will eventually overcome obstacles and achieve the expected goal.
Edison
Diligence should be the decisive factor in the formation of genius. ..... A little effort, talent can play a few minutes. Giving full play to one's talents and efforts is in direct proportion.
—— Guo Moruo
All mental work depends on interest.
-Piaget
Children have the strongest memory, so their imagination is particularly vivid, because imagination is just an expanded or compound memory.
-(Italy) Vico: New Science
The more questions a child asks, the more he knows about things around him in childhood, the smarter he is at school, the brighter his eyes and the sharper his memory. To cultivate a child's intelligence, he must be taught to think.
-Suhomlinski
The intellectual atmosphere of the family is of great significance to the development of children. Children's general development and memory, to a great extent, are faster than: what is the intellectual interest of the family, what adults read and think, and what influence they have left on children's thoughts.
-Suhomlinski
If this child's interest and enthusiasm develop smoothly from the beginning, then most children will become talents or geniuses, which is early education.
-Kimura Ku
Even ordinary children, if properly educated, will become extraordinary people.
-helvetius
You should teach your children to walk, but they should learn to walk by themselves.
Emerson
Without educating your son, you have no time to be a man.
-Suhomlinski
Games are the way for children to know the world. They live in this world and have the mission of transforming this world.
Gorky
Beauty is everywhere. For our eyes, it is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery.
rodin
A person's beauty and loveliness are not only determined by his appearance, but also by his mental outlook. Noble people are always young and beautiful.
Xuefeng Feng
Without the emotions caused by oil painting, sculpture, music, poetry and all kinds of natural beauty, the fun of life is half lost.
Spencer
A wonderful life. Truth is beauty. Social progress is the crystallization of human pursuit of beauty.
Beauty is a powerful source of moral purity and mental health.
-Suhomlinski
To judge beauty, you must have a cultivated mind.
-Kant
Caressing, this is not to accommodate naughty children, not to meet the strange demands of idle children without thinking. Pampering and appeasing children's naughty demands will lead children astray and make their hearts rough and heartless; Children who are spoiled because they are naughty can only see themselves and not others; He is a selfish man, a selfish man, and his personal world is the center of his happiness.
-Suhomlinski
Where there is no wise family education, parents' love for their children can only make them develop abnormally. There are many kinds of abnormal love, among which the main one is "1, pampered love; 2. Overbearing love; 3. Redemptive love.
-Suhomlinski
To be a truly educated person, you must have three qualities: profound knowledge, thinking habits and noble sentiments. Not much knowledge is ignorance; Being unaccustomed to thinking is rude and stupid; Without noble sentiments, it is vulgar.
Chernyshevski