The phrase "a child is a blank sheet of paper" is particularly popular among teachers and parents. If the child is a blank sheet of paper, then adults are people with brushes, who can conceive, daub and create their own ideal pictures according to their own intentions.
Children are like plasticine in the hands of adults, and they can be held at will. Their future can be planned and controlled by adults. The famous philosopher Nietzsche said that "children are like a pure blank sheet of paper, and their thoughts and behaviors are completely formed by environment and education", which shows a kind of understanding that "environment and education determine a person's growth".
Is the child really a blank sheet of paper?
Is the child really a blank sheet of paper? Perhaps babies can best explain this. Is a baby totally dependent on adults a blank sheet of paper? They have memories from birth. What is particularly amazing is that after the baby is born, the visible range is just the distance from her face when the mother breastfeeds him. They are particularly interested in figures like faces. They are born with the ability to suck. It can be said that babies bring their own unique skills to adapt to the world. Some babies are naturally very clever and obedient and easy to raise; Some babies cry at night and need their mothers to feed them carefully day and night. Listen, these babies are born with unique personalities. What kind of person is he? What do you need? Mom needs to slowly explore and adapt to him; What is a mother like? How his mother loves him, he is also trying to adapt. When the mother breastfeeds the baby, the baby can not only suck the breast milk, but also feel the love from another person (except him) in his arms. It turns out that there are others besides "I" in this world. What are the others like? Gentleness, joy, impatience and sadness, what is the world like? What am I like? I'm important, I'm not important, I'm cute, I'm not cute, I deserve love, and I'm not worthy of love, all of which are gradually developed in the breastfeeding interaction between mother and baby. Although the little man seems to know nothing, he remembers everything. The baby began to know the world from the first day of birth, and the interaction with his mother began.
Is the child really a blank sheet of paper?
Is the child really a blank sheet of paper? When a baby is born, it is like a blank sheet of paper. The cognitive ability to the world can only be acquired through learning, and the ability can only be acquired through acquired learning. However, how to accompany children to acquire this ability requires parents to think independently. Walking to the left is an extreme behavior control; If you go to the right, you may let go unprincipled. Finding a balance point, training and correcting behavior on the basis of positive emotional response may achieve better results.
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Lecturer: Kang Yanyan Copywriter: Zhang
Introduction to Kang Yanyan:
National second-level psychological counselor
Supervising psychological coach of Chinese Academy of Sciences.
Provincial backbone teachers
Top-notch talents at municipal level
Good at parent-child counseling and cultivating students' learning ability.