A great man has two hearts: a bleeding heart and a tolerant heart. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun
Those who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. -"Mencius Li Lou"
1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny.
2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy.
3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If they cling to their past mistakes, they will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit their own thinking and the development of each other. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "There are poplars everywhere, and every family has Chang 'an Road. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing.
Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.
6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows in thorns." If we can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad.
8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness.
9. The motto about tolerance:
Violet left its fragrance there and squashed its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. (Analects of Confucius)
Taishan does not let the soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)
"Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. -a line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice