A calm life
Selected insights:
A calm life
Nangong family housekeeper Ukaka: Calm (pronounced as " "Dang ground"). Holding a book and saying: "Ari Potter". In this society, everyone says they are busy. ——Line from "Nine Perfect Things"
Calmness describes an attitude: calm yet decisive when faced with problems, experienced yet emphasizing excellence, not arrogant in victory and not discouraged in defeat. Calmness describes a kind of courage, acting relaxedly, calmly and calmly, leisurely watching the flowers falling in front of the court, and gently shaking the feather fan on the city wall. Calmness describes a principle that shows that one is neither impatient nor impatient, nor warm nor fiery towards people or things, but is approachable, approachable, and obedient. Calmness describes a kind of demeanor. The autumn wind blows on the back of the condor, as calm as a virgin; in the Vanity Fair, the lights and feasting pass by, and the clouds pass by. Calmness describes a kind of cultivation, benevolence without worries, benevolence without fear, seek truth from facts, be magnanimous and proud. Calmness describes a kind of potential. Careful consideration can make the best use of strengths and avoid weaknesses. Introspection and self-knowledge can make progress and retreat, and then take action when it is time to take action. Calmness describes a kind of strength, calmness and tranquility, like a huge rock blocking the waves; perseverance, like a drop of water piercing a stone. Calmness describes a kind of efficiency, stable and avoiding chaos, insightful and skillful, like a cook Ding playing with a knife or Lu Ban playing an axe. Calmness describes a state of being, where orchids are beautiful in the deep forest, and beauty is not lost because there is no one around; a gentleman is virtuous and does not change his moral character because of embarrassment. Calmness describes a kind of life. Life is like a pair of sharp reading glasses. It is rare to be confused and it is rare to be sober.
A brave man is calm and fearless, regardless of personal life and death, honor or disgrace. Zhang Fei shouted loudly at Changbanpo to scare away millions of Cao Cao's troops, which made Cao Cao, who cherished talents, sigh that it was a pity. "He is stronger when he is strong, and the breeze blows on the hills; when he is horizontal, he is horizontal, and the bright moon shines on the river." Zhang Wuji's calmness comes from his high skill and boldness, and he can still remain calm in the face of danger even when powerful enemies are at his side.
A wise man is calm and has a mind full of troubles and is generous and calm. When Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty attacked the Xiongnu, he had great talent and broad plans, and his ambitions were determined early. The country was governed by Wenjing, with strong soldiers and horses, and strong national strength. There will be flying generals Li Guang, generals Wei Qing, and Huo Qubing. There are many talents who can be reused. The so-called weather, location, and people are exactly like this. Therefore, he was calm and relaxed, and his command was determined, and he attacked the Xiongnu out of Mobei. From then on, there was no war at the border. Zhuge Kongming was like Sima Yi, sitting alone on the top of the city, with a glass of white wine and a piece of music on the piano, calmly acting as if there was no one else around. Sima was hesitant and finally missed the opportunity. Kong Ming was calm, because he knew himself and the enemy, and he grasped the enemy's weakness before he began to succeed. Cunning and wise, a genius through the ages.
A fool is calm, let’s call it calm for now. One is ignorant and fearless; the other is headstrong and self-important. This kind of calmness often leads to irreparable mistakes.
In the Korean battlefield 50 years ago, Peng Dehuai, commander-in-chief of the Volunteer Army, and MacArthur, then commander-in-chief of the US military, conducted five rounds of military strategy contests. Peng Dehuai commanded calmly and deployed skillfully, winning all five battles. MacArthur lost all five battles. He returned home early and was dismissed. From then on, his political career failed to recover. Investigating the reason, one reason was General Peng's superb strategy, but the main reason was MacArthur's stubbornness and underestimation of the enemy. The Americans look down upon the Chinese soldiers' guerrilla tactics and are too self-righteous. The results are predictable.
Before World War II, British Prime Minister Chamberlain returned from the Munich Conference and proudly said to the British: "This is the peace of our time. I recommend you to go to sleep peacefully!" The then Cabinet Secretary of the Navy Winston Churchill sharply criticized the appeasement policy promoted by Chamberlain: "If you surrender under the threat of Nazi force, not only will it not bring peace and security to Britain and France, but it will also destroy the peace and security of these two countries." The situation is more dangerous. "Facts speak louder than words. On June 28, 1940, France surrendered without strong resistance. In July of the same year, Germany air raided London. Over London, iron eagles were rampant. The Battle of Britain began. Under the leadership of Churchill, the British began an arduous anti-fascist struggle.
Calmness is a goal that many people strive for in life, but few people can be calm at all times, everywhere and in everything in life. Calmness is a kind of accumulation, a kind of wisdom after experience, a calmness after washing away the brilliance, a sincere attitude towards life, and a sign of maturity.
When you envy others, you can express your thoughts freely, express your feelings in one go. Alas, "When the book is used, I regret it is too little." It is only when I pick up the pen that I realize that I have insufficient knowledge. I just regret that the time has gone and I will never be young again. Fortunately, life is still long and it is never too late to regret. As Lao Tzu said, "My life has a limit, but my knowledge also has no limit." If you don't want to be ridiculed by others as a shallow little girl, let alone become a fool, you can only study hard. This excerpt is an excerpt from Zhang Ying’s study couplet written by Zhang Ying, a bachelor of Wenhua Palace and Minister of Rites during the Kangxi Dynasty, to encourage himself: “You can’t read all the ancient books on the shelves, but you have to work hard all the time; you can’t do good things in the world, but you must always be mindful.”
Selection of sentiments 2: (mature online name)
A calm life is not lonely
"The bond between life and death is broad, and I am happy with you. Hold your hand, and be with you. "Growing old together." This is the calmness of feelings.
"The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old together with you. Collect every detail of my thoughts and save them to chat with you later." This is the calmness of marriage.
"I am a fox who has practiced for thousands of years, practiced for thousands of years, and been alone for thousands of years. In the dead of night, can anyone hear me crying? In the dim light, can anyone see me dancing?... When I love you, You were penniless and studying hard; when I left you, you were in the bridal chamber. Can I dance for you again? I am the white fox you released thousands of years ago..." This is the calmness after falling out of love.
"There are hundreds of flowers in spring, a moon in autumn, a cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. If there are no other things to worry about, it is a good time in the world." This is a calm attitude towards worldly affairs.
"I am not surprised by favor or disgrace, watching the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; I have no intention of leaving or leaving, watching the clouds rolling and relaxing in the sky." "The wind comes and the bamboos are sparse, but the wind passes by but the bamboo leaves no sound; the geese cross the cold pool, the geese go away There is no shadow left in the pool. Therefore, a gentleman's mind will appear when things come, and his mind will be empty when things go." This is the calmness of life.
"Planting green seedlings into the rice field, you can see the sky in the water when you raise your head. Only when the heart is pure can the Tao be achieved. To retreat is to move forward." This is the calmness of a human being.
What is calmness? Calmness is your indifference, your detachment, and your discernment.
Nine out of ten things go wrong in life, but two out of ten things can be said to others. In the past, Hanshan asked Shide: "How should I deal with people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, belittle me, despise me, and lie to me?" Shide replied: "Be patient with him, let him, avoid him, and let him Be patient with him, respect him, and ignore him. You will see him in a few years. "Such an attitude is calm.
It is indeed difficult for a person to break away from this noisy and materialistic society. However, everyone has no choice. If you want to be happy, your mind must be calm. Only by being calm can you calm down your heart and savor the myriad flavors of life. (Sentences about dreams)
Human life is destined to go through many stages, such as the innocent boyhood, the passionate youth, the heavy and steady middle age, the calm and calm period. The twilight years of life. Each stage has a unique scenery, and each period of time will give people a different feeling. The pain of being in love is precisely because you are afraid of losing, so you are suspicious, making trouble, and tormenting each other; it is even more painful when you are in love, because you have nothing to rely on, so you are lonely, miserable, and self-inflicted. But at this stage of life, whether it is passionate love or broken love, it can be treated calmly and resolved poetically. It does not mean that the heart is like still water and the love is like a dry well, but that one can look at it rationally and manage it wisely, so that love can show its deep and implicit beauty and the deep and meaningful state of love. Let the two parties in love have no pressure and enjoy the pleasure that love itself brings.
Look at all the prosperity with a cold eye, not be arrogant when you are smooth, and not depressed when you are frustrated. Cultivate a calm and calm determination in the experience of life, and on the ebb and flow stage of life, lift heavy weights with ease and sing at every moment. "Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the southern mountains", facing the noisy world with a free and easy attitude. The fallen flowers are speechless, the fragrance lingers, and we face life with a calm and calm attitude. This state may be difficult to achieve, but we should be on the road to pursue this state.
After the chaos of world affairs and the ups and downs of life, life has engraved the years on people's faces and in their hearts. The rolling red dust has polished the delicate and soft heart to perfection. This hair no longer has a gorgeous shine. This kind of love is a kind of indifference and simplicity. It is not ostentatious, noisy, and coquettish. It no longer behaves like the innocent love of youth, has unrealistic fantasies, and is no longer high-minded and low-minded. Speculation.
This kind of lightness is a kind of down-to-earth simplicity. It is rich but not superficial, it is tranquil but not noisy, and it is rational but not blindly obedient.
"A person is as pale as a chrysanthemum" is a state of mind that is peaceful and persistent and refuses to be domineering. People are as pale as chrysanthemums, what they want is the calmness and persistence of chrysanthemums. What it has is the steadfastness and persistence of "I would rather grow old clinging to fragrant branches than dance with the yellow leaves in the autumn wind", but what it lacks is the domineering attitude of "when autumn comes on September 8th, I will kill hundreds of flowers after they bloom". This kind of indifference is indifferent to honor and disgrace, indifferent to fame and fortune, indifferent to temptation, but indifferent to the bones. This kind of indifference can allow us to break through the chaos in the world of materialistic desires, gain insight into the world, reject prosperity, return to simplicity, and reach the state of "falling flowers are speechless, and the heart is as simple as simplicity".
Calmness and calmness are an attitude. It is not about being passive or deliberately indulgent, but about being aware of all the vicissitudes of life and having a clear understanding of the calmness; it is also not about being self-enclosed and self-admiring, but about not being happy with things or being sad about oneself, and dealing with the complexity of the external environment detachedly. and bustle. As the saying goes, "You can endure countless hardships but still be strong, no matter how strong the wind is from the southeast or the northwest."
Use tranquility to dilute sadness and anguish, use calmness to dispel confusion and worries, look into the distance, even if it is always called a distance, there will always be one thing in your inner world, that is - love !
In today’s materialistic and tempting society, the greatest joy is to keep a calm and peaceful heart, leave behind all baggage, transcend yourself, open your heart, and listen to a melodious piece of music. , brew a pot of tea and gaze at the endless night sky, read the solemnity of the moonlight, count the words of the stars, and feel the sweetness of thousands of lights. Because there is always some love that moves us.
Tagore said in his poem: "The farthest distance in the world is not that I can't resist missing you, but I have to deliberately pretend not to care about you at all, but with my own indifferent heart. "Dig an insurmountable ditch for those who love you." Although this sentence is a bit convoluted, it has touched countless men and women. However, it is precisely because of the existence of distance that beauty can remain forever.
When we dream back at midnight and feel sad about the moon, our memories will linger on all the perfections in the past. At this time, we can truly feel: "It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes than to stay together." Isn't this a kind of beauty? (Inspirational quotes from famous people)
Calm, indifferent. Detached. See through. A calm life is not lonely.
Selection of three insights:
Calm life
After the National Day, I will be one year older again. Time flies so fast, and in a blink of an eye, another year has passed.
When my heart lingers in lonely times, I always feel sad and sad. Always complaining about a year of inaction; always hating the injustice of the environment for self-gain and loss; too many goals, too many desires, failed to reach, failed to be realized. But the heart is exhausted, even scarred. The busy body can never stop and take a rest in the shade of the roadside trees. How can we maintain a calm mind on the road of life?
Sometimes I ask myself, when I am 50 years old, can I learn to face life and myself with strength and confidence? Perhaps, what is old is age and growth experience, and what is mature is mind. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself. Live a simple life, do things down to earth, and be a real person. Only then can we live simply, live freely, live fully and live freely.
Everyone is an ordinary member of the world, but we magnify the aura of some people and set off the insignificance of the great self of others. We are all born on the earth, drink from the source of the earth, share the same sun, and breathe the oxygen of the forest.
We are all equal creatures. If we abandon those rules and regulations and despise those so-called money, status, reputation, and material things, what is the essential difference?
Mature and full millet always lowers its head. The more truly a person has connotation and potential, the more low-key, calm, calm and calm he is. We need to learn and understand how to deal with the world calmly, learn and understand how to live calmly, and deal with all gains and losses with a contented and calm heart.
If ambition is a kind of "field", which gives life an upward magnetism and is free and easy, then calmness is a kind of "Zen", which brings everything back to the heart, calmly and calmly, and not surprised by favors or disgrace. The clouds are in the sky and the water is in the bottle, everything will be better if you let nature take its course! By learning and understanding how to let go, we can be calm! You can achieve peace and tranquility! Calmness is an extension of the soul and a sublimation of the realm! (Article reading website: sanwen)
A calm person does not care about too many external things, but is obsessed with the path under his feet. Having a heart as calm as water and a calm attitude towards life is another kind of joy in life.
Life is full of vegetation and autumn. Right or wrong, success or failure is empty when you turn around, and it is all a dream until you turn around. Chat and indulge your temperament, sing a song, travel through the mountains and rivers, and smile at the common people. Only with a calm heart can you have a calm life!
Four selected reflections:
Ordinary life, live calmly
Beautiful inspirational prose, ordinary life, live calmly
Don’t worry about your emotions My feelings are too complicated. Love is not synonymous with marriage. There is a kind of love in the world, which has no extravagant demands, no one is right or wrong, and no blame for the shallowness of fate and deep affection. No one can resist the charm of "knowing and understanding you" through an unexpected encounter. There is nothing wrong with having a soft spot for each other, there is nothing wrong with admiring each other, and it is reasonable to turn around helplessly. What is love in the world of mortals, and why does it come about? Don’t ask why, there is no explanation for the word "love". The only thing is - talking to each other is the complementation of wisdom; reflecting on each other is a beautiful fragment; cherishing each other is a sublimation of affection; missing each other is a different kind of beauty! (Artistic appreciation: 5utaoke.)
Don’t think of life as too difficult, be grateful that you are still alive in this world. After going through the adverse journey of life and the vicissitudes of life, everyone will feel hesitant and sad, there will be the resentment of the bitter rain and cold flute, and the sadness of the setting moon and the crow of the crow. But our limited life does not allow us to squander the bitter, spicy, sour and sweet things that belong to life. After experiencing the hardships of wind, cold and haze, I can break out of my cocoon on a sunny day. After the bustle, there is still peace. After the experience, the days are still flowing in peace and tranquility...
Don't think too much, no one is perfect, and not everything is as everyone wishes. To put it simply, ordinary life is also a kind of life, just like that.
The days are so peaceful. Ordinary, calm and leisurely, like water flowing leisurely, there is a saying: Ordinary is the truth. In these ordinary days, ordinary people also find purity, simplicity, and truth...
Life is so ordinary. The world is complicated, but to the vast world and all living beings, we are just ordinary people, like grass to the brilliant spring, like the creek to the vast sea, and more like white clouds to the boundless blue sky... After all, Those who shock the world are as rare as morning stars. Most people can only not escape from the ordinary, but they are willing to survive silently in the ordinary. Therefore, mediocrity is the mainstream of our lives.
Walk forward silently in the ordinary journey of life, and appreciate the joy of life pursuit from the calm steps. We brave the strong winds and waves, and use our lives to overcome difficulties; we learn and understand tolerance and open-mindedness, cherish others, learn and understand asking others to forgive ourselves and forgive others; we value career and friendship, revel in the mountains and flowing water, and are obsessed with the scenery of the four seasons. What comes out is the only self, the chic self, the true self.
Yes, only when life is ordinary can we appreciate the value of ordinary life. The ordinaryness of life lies in this ordinary life! In a calm mood, we carefully appreciate the moon reflected in the two springs or listen to the raindrops on the eaves and the rain knocking on the window with a calm mood, letting our thoughts wander... In an atmosphere as ordinary as water, we use ordinary emotions and a sense of ordinary life. In the careful delivery, you can experience the true taste of life and appreciate the ordinary and unique state of mind.
Ordinary life is a life that is so bland that it makes one narcissistic. Even if life is neither spectacular nor admired by future generations, it still makes people feel the sanctity and dignity of existence. We are happy to be ordinary people and not fall into the mediocrity. We are not willing to be humiliated and we will not sink. Only in our ordinary lives can we realize that ordinary emotions, careers, and realms of life can be so colorful and brilliant.
Selected five insights:
Calmness
Calmness is an attitude towards life, calmness is a kind of life cultivation, calmness is a kind of mind and state, Having calmness is another kind of joy on the road of life. It’s how to find your inner peace. Let go of what should be let go, and by tolerating others, you are actually leaving a vast ocean and sky for yourself.
Calm describes an attitude. Calm and decisive when faced with problems, sophisticated yet emphasizing excellence, not arrogant in victory and not discouraged in defeat; calmness describes a kind of courage. Acting relaxed and calm, looking at the flowers falling in front of the court, gently shaking the feather fan on the city wall; calm describes a principle. It shows that one is neither impatient nor impatient, nor warm nor fiery towards people or things, but is approachable, approachable, obedient and persistent; calmness describes a demeanor. The autumn wind blows on the back of the condor, and it is as quiet as a virgin. In the Vanity Fair, the lights and feasting pass by, and the clouds pass by; calmness describes a kind of cultivation. Kindness without worries, kindness without fear, seeking truth from facts, magnanimity and pride; calmness describes a kind of potential. Thoughtful thinking can maximize strengths and avoid weaknesses. Introspection allows you to know whether you can advance or retreat, and wait until it's time to take action. Calmness describes a kind of strength. Calm and calm, like a huge rock blocking the waves, perseverance, like a drop of water piercing a rock; calmness describes a kind of efficiency. Steady and avoiding chaos, insightful and skilled, like a cook Ding playing with a knife or Lu Ban playing with an axe; calmness describes a state. A beautiful orchid in a deep forest is not fragrant because there is no one there. A gentleman is virtuous and does not change his moral character because of embarrassment. Calmness describes a kind of life. Life is like a pair of sharp reading glasses, it is rare to be confused and it is rare to be sober.
When a person has experienced too much, he takes everything lightly, feels that he doesn’t care about anything, and has nothing to seek, then when something happens, he feels that it is not a big deal, it’s just that It is just something that cannot be avoided in life, then his heart will naturally have a normal heartbeat, his mind will be clear, and he will handle things well. In fact, this is also a sign of maturity and a kind of passivity. Calm down.
Don’t panic when encountering problems, and always solve problems fundamentally. This requires a clear mind and a calm mind. Don't think about things too complicated. Nothing is too serious or inestimable. You must know that the more nervous you are, the less good you will do. First think about how this happened and how to solve it. Remember that we must always calm down life with a careful and calm attitude.
Calm and calm, there will never be a perfect reality, there are only mediocre people in the world, and fragile human nature that may fission and mold at any time... With this calm attitude, we will be able to cope with injustice and misfortune. When you encounter misunderstandings or grievances, you will not feel sad, blame others, or feel sorry for yourself. Instead, you will grit your teeth, fight hard, and wait and look for opportunities to win.
Be calm and calm, don’t compete with God, people, or things. Not competing does not mean that you should shy away from social evils, social corruption, and the aggressiveness of villains in the workplace, but that you must choose the most strategic method to achieve the greatest results.
Being calm and calm means that you should maintain a good mood most of the time, be modest and prudent, and guard against arrogance and impetuosity. It means that you have a broader realm and more grand deeds. In addition to your career, you have a better appreciation of perfect things. You can watch a beautiful natural scenery or watch a high-art DVD. Adjust your calm demeanor and mood.
Calm and calm, money can buy books, but not wisdom; it can buy status, but not respect; it can buy medicine, but not health; it can buy clocks; but You can't buy time; you can buy a villa, but you can't buy a warm home...
Pleasure is actually an emotion, a happy emotion felt by oneself. In this busy world, the anxiety of life, work pressure, and family worries often make us distressed and irritable. Desires are endless, and desires can never be filled. People who blindly pursue fame and fortune rarely find happiness. Why not be calm, calm down, cherish what you have at this moment, and maybe another sense of joy will arise spontaneously.
Calmness is a state of mind and a state of life. It is the feeling of calmness and elegance that comes from cultivating the inner mentality to a certain level. Calm people must be passionate about their work.
They cherish their positions and love their jobs. They will not blame others because of the pressure of work, nor will they be underappreciated because of the level of their positions, nor will they be full of complaints because of the amount of remuneration. . They study hard and work diligently. He will not deceive superiors and subordinates, do things according to the boss's eyes, nor will he speculate and rack his brains and use any means to gain fame and fortune. They are dedicated to their jobs, seek joy in their work, and gain joy in their labor. Besides, I think calm people treat their feelings sincerely.
They will not change their minds due to the aging of their wives, nor will they forget about it due to the temptation of society, nor will they do whatever they want because of promotion in their positions. They are emotionally dedicated and have a strong sense of family responsibility. They will hold hands with the one they love and grow old together with them. They love to sing the theme song of "The Most Romantic Thing": The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old together with you, collect every bit of laughter at the beginning, and save it for later when we sit in a rocking chair and chat slowly... , calm people will treat life calmly.
They can clearly understand the gap between ideals and reality. Don't aim too high and beg for opportunities, and don't blindly compare and be vain. They pursue their self-identified pleasure down-to-earth and live a simple and joyful life without competing with the world. You won’t be too excited to forget about it, nor will you be too sad to suffer from pain. He handles things calmly and is not surprised by favors or disgrace. A calm person does not care about too many external things, but is obsessed with the path under his feet.
Having a heart as calm as water and a calm attitude towards life is another kind of joy in life. Let us savor the calmness and enjoy the pleasure that comes from it.
Calmness is a kind of wisdom and a different kind of mentality.