I think maybe it’s because as time goes by, although there seem to be more and more people in our address book, there are fewer and fewer people with whom we really have close friendships. Most of them are just friends. "Like a friend". We often lament that old friends don’t understand the new situation, and new friends don’t understand the old temper. We are always trying to chase solid friendships, but at the same time we don’t have enough strength to maintain every new relationship. In fact, the circle of friends is In a microcosm, compared with the lively and prosperous scene in the early years, today our desire to update and read is not as good as before, and we seem to have become numb to the little red dots that mark the arrival of new developments.

What is a true friend? I don’t think we live in a circle of friends. A truly good friendship is definitely not about staying with each other, but about allowing both parties to grow up with each other. In "We Will Meet Again", the young actor Zhou Mo, played by Joe Chen, said to the protagonist group: " If you don't do well, you can come back to me." Haohan asked, "How about if you do well?" Zhou Mo smiled lightly: "If you do well, you won't want to come back." Most of the time, the alienation of good friends is not because of it. Nothing else, but just because you have different great futures to pursue. The years are changing, and each other is growing.

Sometimes I really think that WeChat’s circle of friends is actually a very failed invention, because it is really too cruel, making the seemingly intimate distance between friends so transparent and visible. . The circle of friends is sometimes scary, because you watch your former friends chatting and laughing with others, but they bypass your circle of friends and never comment, but you can only pretend that nothing happened.

Everyone will grow, not just ourselves, but everyone around us is growing. Whether she can't keep up with you or you can't keep up with her, she will get separated. The same goes for your circle of friends. You and your old friends, you have grown up, and so have others. You have grown up, and so have others, but the growth paths and gains are very different.