How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain

What is life? Successful people say it is fine wine; frustrated people say it is bitter water; successful people say it is a rainbow; losers say it is a rainbow. It's a cloud. Alexandre Dumas said that life is about constantly suffering setbacks and pursuing hope.

A person's life cannot always be smooth and calm. In this long journey, we will inevitably encounter setbacks and failures, big and small. A life without failure is not complete. Life. Without the washing of the river bed, there would be no brilliance of diamonds; without the test of setbacks, there would be no unyielding personality. It is precisely because of setbacks that there are warriors and cowards. Remember, "When Heaven entrusts a person with a great responsibility, he must first strain his mind, strain his muscles and bones, starve his skin, deplete his body, mess up what he does, and gain what he cannot." Balzac said: "Frustration "And misfortune is the step forward for genius; the water of baptism for believers; the priceless treasure for the capable; the bottomless abyss for the weak."

Failures and setbacks in life are both inevitable; Positive and negative functions. It can make people mature and achieve success, or it can destroy one's future. The key lies in how you face setbacks.

Moderate setbacks have a certain positive significance. It can help people drive away inertia and encourage people to forge ahead. Frustration is another challenge and test. The British philosopher Bacon once said: "Miracles that transcend nature mostly appear in the conquest of adversity." Suffering setbacks is not terrible. What is terrible is that you have not suffered setbacks. Because only through experience can we know how to face it and feel the joy after overcoming setbacks.

First of all, setbacks help you grow. The process of human growth is the process of adapting to social requirements. If you adapt well, you will feel relaxed and harmonious; if you do not adapt, you will feel awkward and frustrated. To adapt, you need to learn to adjust your motivations, pursuits and behaviors. When a person is born, he has no idea what is right and what is wrong. It is through encouragement, restraint, permission, opposition, reward, punishment, guidance, persuasion, and even physical punishment and restriction that he learns the adaptation and adaptability of behavior and behavior. Appropriately, learn to adjust behavior under different environments, different times, different objects, and different normative conditions. On the contrary, children who have been lawless since childhood will be drowned in contradictions and frustrations once they live independently.

Secondly, setbacks strengthen your willpower. Today's teenagers have been living in a service environment for a long time. From elementary school to college to job selection, their parents bear the pressure. Therefore, they have little experience of various difficulties, lack endurance, and do not have a strong will. Once you encounter setbacks, you will be defeated. In fact, many mild setbacks in life are the "sports field" of willpower. When you finish the race dripping with sweat and overcome the setbacks in life, you will have a pleasant experience. Psychologists compare mild setbacks to "spiritual tonics" because every time you overcome a setback, you strengthen your own strength and provide "mental strength" to cope with the next setback.

In the face of suffering and setbacks, you have to raise your head, smile at it, and believe that "all this will pass and things will get better in the future." Hope is the second soul of the unfortunate. Yearning for a better future is the best self-comfort in times of difficulty. On the difficult and long road of life, we need a healthy heart and a gorgeous smile. Suffering is a university that no one wants to attend, but those who graduate from it are strong.

When I face setbacks, I know how to warm up the color palette in my eyes. Life is colorful, it is a book, the cover and back cover are designed by others, but the content inside must be written by oneself, with hard work and sweat. Frustration is just a short page in the book, and more is the sweat and smile of victory.

When I face setbacks, I say to myself: "Never give up." It is precisely because the sun never gives up that it finally breaks through the horizon and shines thousands of miles; it is precisely because it never gives up that the grass finally fills the earth with green, regardless of the stars.

When I face setbacks, I will not cry. Life is so beautiful, why should we let tears become its prisoner of war? 21-year-old Huaji does not believe in tears. Instead of letting them fall with setbacks, it is better to turn them into tears that will shine in the smile of victory in the future.

When I face setbacks, I will face them calmly with a happy heart. Happiness is my most precious wealth. It teaches me how to face the pain caused by every setback. "Pain and happiness" appropriately summarizes our lives. Who is not looking for happiness in pain! Who is not injured and learning to be strong at the same time? If we understand this, the pain in setbacks will become more meaningful, and we will better cherish the happiness in life.

When I face setbacks, there is only one sentence that encourages me, "The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." I want to say, "I love setbacks, and I like to face setbacks face to face." ”

Frustrations tell me too much... In short, setbacks are just a small stumbling block in the long journey of life. As long as you can get up strong after falling, your future will be bright. It will be bright!

Frustration is like the wind. It may blow your mini eyes, making you unable to see the course clearly, away from the route that embraces the sun tomorrow; it may blow up your sails and make you Ride the wind and waves and sail towards the other side of success.

Frustration is like rain. It may wet the luggage you carry when you are trekking hard, make the road under your feet muddy, make you difficult to move forward, and never have the intention to move forward; it may also fall as cold raindrops on your cheeks. It will wake you up and make you think about how to move forward bravely.

Life is an expedition, and the journey is full of twists and turns. When you are in the abyss of despair, don't give up, because when you raise your head, you will see the most beautiful starry sky!

If life is compared to a "knife" that cuts through thorns, then setbacks are an indispensable "hard rock". In order to make the "knife" of youth sharper, let us bravely face the tempering of setbacks!

In the bustling city, everyone in the world is confused. Busy and busy chasing fame and fortune, this life is wasted. My heart often thinks of the quiet cave, where the flowers are fragrant, the birds are singing, and the water is clear. Mountain fruits satisfy hunger and grass covers the body, observing one’s own mind to realize enlightenment

Answer: Criedsmile | Level 2 | 2011-1-8 14:46

“Failure is the mother of success "This famous saying inspired me a lot, and it has always encouraged me.

I remember that I was only in the second grade at that time. At the beginning, I liked English very much, so I kept asking: "Teacher, what? The exam is just around the corner!" The teacher replied, "In a few days." On the day of the exam, I was full of confidence and thought I would do well. The results came out quickly, and I only scored over 70 points. I was really angry and sad at the time. When I got home, I told my parents the results of the exam in disappointment, but they were not angry, but said to me gently: "Son, don't be discouraged. Failure is the mother of success. People will inevitably fail. You should We need to find out the reason for the failure." After hearing some meaningful words from my parents, I calmed down and recalled the exam. It turned out that during the exam, I got everything the teacher said wrong. Instead of asking us to write A.B, I wrote 1.2. Adding to the nervousness, my brain became dull and I couldn't react for a while. I found the reason for failure. Therefore, in various future exams, whether it is Chinese exams or mathematics exams, I always remind myself not to be nervous and to listen carefully to the exam rules. In the midterm exam, I let go of my nervousness and achieved better results. I couldn't be happier.

Yes, the famous saying "Failure is the mother of success" is very good. After failure, reflect carefully, find out the reasons for the failure, and then overcome it