People always have many difficulties that they can’t talk about, don’t want to talk about, and don’t need to talk about.
If a person can bear it, then accept it; if a person can be sad, don’t talk about it; when you are alone and helpless, you must be independent and self-reliant; when you are heartbroken, you must hold yourself tight and be strong. Own.
No matter how tough the reality is, it cannot knock down a person who has gone through the wind and rain, and it cannot hurt a heart that has experienced all the hardships in the world.
Life is full of suffering. If you experience it more and for a long time, you will learn to bear it; everyone has injuries, and after the pain has healed for a long time, you will learn to let go; everyone has sorrows, and you will understand. , you will be strong; everyone has desires, and when you wake up, you will know the choice; everyone is tired, and if you are overweight, you will know how to let go.
There are some words that don’t need to be said, don’t need to be said, don’t want to say them, just keep them in your heart.
There are some things that you can’t think about, don’t have to think about, or don’t want to think about, so you can only let them go gently.
Some feelings cannot be talked about, do not need to be talked about, do not want to be talked about, they can only be experienced with one's heart.
Zen saying goes, there are many things that are in the heart but not in the mouth. Everything cannot be said. If you say it, it will be wrong.
The gatherings and separations of life cannot be expressed in words. Once you say it, you will be wrong, and once you make a mistake, you will miss it; in the world of mortals, there are so many idiots who spend their whole lives wasted, just living in other people's world.
There is nothing wrong in the world, and it’s up to the mediocre to disturb themselves.
You shouldn’t talk too much about right and wrong in the emotional world. It doesn’t matter who has failed whom. You can’t keep those who want to leave. Don’t talk too much about household matters and turn a blind eye. With one eye, it will pass naturally; don’t say anything that causes contradictions and misunderstandings. If you can’t understand or explain clearly, it will be in vain; if you can’t explain something clearly for a while, it is better not to say it. The more you say it, the more confused you will be; if you don’t understand, it will be in vain. Don't say anything. No one can explain clearly the cause and effect.
Not speaking is a state of being open-minded and open-minded. There are many things in life that cannot be explained clearly, so you cannot say them. Once you say them, you will be wrong. It is best to learn to be silent. If you really want to say something, you should also understand what should be said and what should not be said, think twice before speaking, and learn to laugh it off and forget it.
Since ancient times, "diseases enter through the mouth, and disasters come out from the mouth." If a person talks too much, he will make mistakes. If he sees through but does not speak clearly, he will leave room for leeway. If he speaks to the point, he will keep his words. Talk less and do more, and use actions to achieve life.
Don’t ask other people’s stories unless she is willing to tell them herself; it’s okay to occasionally complain about life and vent your feelings, but habitually complaining without seeking change is an unwise person.
Wittgenstein has a famous saying: "Everything that can be said can be said clearly; what cannot be talked about must be kept silent."
Mature people never say anything. Many; wise people will laugh it off.
A heavy person is tiring, and a heavy heart is tiring the heart. You should be accommodating and speak moderately.
When you are tired, put aside the work at hand and let yourself rest; when you are tired, put down your worries and don’t keep everything in your mind for too long.
Being a human being is tiring. The more you experience, the more silent you become. Your posture is no longer ostentatious, your tone gradually becomes calmer, your attitude is obviously kind, you lose the frivolity and vigor of youth, and you learn to talk less and do more. , and let the grudges and grudges pass by with a smile.
Some people say that people with stories usually don’t like to tell stories. Therefore, silence is the tone of a person’s maturity.
In life, there are some things that you don’t care about, you just don’t say them or ask, you just understand them in your heart; some injuries, it’s not that they don’t hurt, you just don’t want to cry or make trouble, so you swallow them all by yourself; It's not that people don't cherish them, even though they don't say anything, their love is in their actions.
Some people are used to being indifferent, but it doesn’t mean they really don’t care about anything; they always don’t think so, because who can understand the true feelings in their hearts. When the body is tired, silence replaces everything. My heart is tired and everything falls into silence.
Because, many times, silence is easier than explanation. Having gone through a life of thousands of twists and turns, we have seen the unpredictable world of people's hearts. Our experiences and lessons have taught us to hide everything in our hearts and not express our emotions. We know that disaster comes from our mouths, so we no longer talk endlessly; Now that we know each other, we are just casual acquaintances, and we no longer have family ties.
In the end, we will eventually understand that the last act of maturity is silence. If you don't like people, just turn around silently; if you can't accept things, just endure them quietly; if you don't get love, treat it as an accident. Meet.
Life is short, so why care too much? Just forget about right and wrong and grudges, and live happily until you grow old.
In life, there are many things that do not need to be said, and cannot be said. If you don't say it, you respect others and respect yourself.
Speaking is your right, but not speaking is your right.
Since ancient times, people should not talk behind anyone's back, and people should not talk behind anyone's back. However, we should not say anything casually or talk lightly. We must grasp the proportion of importance and severity.
Many times, being eloquent is not a good thing, and being articulate is not a sign of intelligence. If you talk too much about your own affairs, others will dislike you for being verbose; if you talk too much about right and wrong, others will bother you and meddle in their own business; You speak too clearly, and others will laugh at you because you laugh without restraint, don't understand the ways of the world, and are too stupid.
Since ancient times, wise men have been taciturn and good at keeping words in their hearts and not saying unnecessary words to avoid hurting others or themselves.
In life, there will always be people who look down on you for no reason, and you will also meet people who hate you for no reason. Don’t let this affect your mood. In fact, there are many people who like you very much.
In a relationship, there is always someone who will hurt you severely, treat you like a piece of trash, and throw you away at will; there will always be someone who will love you severely, treat you like a treasure, and will never leave you. There is no need to be hurt. And if you give up your obsession with beauty, everything will be arranged for the best.
Life is about getting hurt and learning to be strong at the same time. There is no need to explain everything, no need for everyone to explain it clearly, some things just need to be hidden in the heart, no need to tell others, no need to say anything. People understand, love well, live well, the sun is new every day, life is new every day, don’t let down the good times, don’t be unhappy because of small things, and be depressed for several days; don’t give up on yourself because of being excluded. Doubt life.
No matter how time goes by, just like a person who knows whether drinking water is hot or cold, one day we will all become stronger due to tempering. Only after we have tasted all kinds of poisons can we become immune.
In life, it’s okay to be sad if you feel sad. It’s okay to cry if you want to. Don’t ask for sympathy, comfort, talking, or understanding. It’s okay to bear it alone. Give it some time. , everything will pass.