Too soft, it will be frustrated; If you are too rigid, you will be folded; When you are soft, you can be tough. Zeng Guofan's "combining rigidity with softness" came home. In his heyday, when he saw that "rigidity" was too strong, he used softness to cover it up, emphasized the difference between rigidity and stubbornness, and applied it properly to life. He believes that the world should not be perfect, round and full, which is "sticking to the residual and keeping the deficiency". Many people don't understand this, and blindly pursue a total victory and complete merit; However, once a great victory or complete merit is achieved, disasters and disasters will follow.

Regret words are like spring, and good words are like summer.

Repentance, repentance, like spring, hides infinite vitality. If life can often reflect on his wrong behavior and often repent and repent, then his life will be full of vitality.

Leave room for everything, and generosity can accommodate people.

It's easy to be tolerant when dealing with people. Respect others, respect others and tolerate others. Different people have different opinions. Tolerant people learn from others and accept good advice. Tolerance means forgiving others and allowing others to make mistakes. It is the power of moving and virtue that narrows the distance between people and resolves the contradictions between people.

Wealth alone is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, breadth is enough to win people, and leadership is enough to lead people!

Ignoring money is enough to gather people around you, restraining yourself is enough to convince people, measuring wide is enough to get help from others, and taking the lead in setting an example and being a teacher.

Only the right self can turn people into others, and the best self can serve others.

Everyone has a kind heart, as long as we do it right and have real virtue, this is a kind of good karma that inspires others to be kind. If you want to be self-righteous and truly achieve your virtue, you must start from the roots and start from his heart. Because the root of all words and deeds is his mentality, which extends his words and deeds.

Pride is the road to destruction, and much talk is harmful.

Once people have a proud heart, they will inevitably relax their vigilance in all aspects, and disasters and failures will inevitably follow. Pride is the road to self-destruction, so the ancients said that pride goes before a fall. Zeng Guofan believes that many words are harmful. If you want to use words more than suppress others, even if you win, others will not be convinced. Be modest when dealing with people. There is often no right or wrong in quarreling, and the result is often emotional. The essence of "don't say much" is to be self-controlled when facing people and things, so as to avoid disaster from coming out of the mouth and chaos from the mouth. In essence, this is a kind of action wisdom that is not entangled and less controversial.

Don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances.

Love a person knows his shortcomings, hate a person knows his advantages. This is a warning to us that when dealing with people, we must not be too emotional, and we must treat others' shortcomings and deficiencies objectively and fairly.

The hero who starts a business in the prosperous times takes modesty as the first meaning.

A talented person becomes the greatest person because of his talent. Great men should strive to be great in spirit, and heroes must be characterized by greatness. All his actions and all his words must be extraordinary.