1, tangled and embarrassed Most derailed women will have such a psychological state when they just derailed, and their mood will be very tangled and complicated. They are addicted to the pleasure of having an affair with their lovers, but at the same time, they are afraid that their extramarital affairs will be exposed and that their husbands will divorce and abandon them when they know it. There are worries, fears, remorse and panic. Describe a woman's infidelity in one sentence, that is, half seawater and half flame. Because there are too many uncertainties in such an extramarital affair, if you are not careful, you will have nothing. 2, revenge psychology Some women are unfortunate, her husband is blatantly derailed outside, but because of age, economic and other conditions, she can't divorce her husband and can only turn a blind eye to her husband's derailment. However, in the end, it is hard to be flat. If you find an opportunity, you will cheat once, so that your mind will be much more balanced. Another possibility is that some women feel that they have suffered from loving only one man all their lives, so they have to go out and love another one, so that acne can be put down. 3, self-paralysis, such women often have self-paralysis after derailment, facing the further development requirements of their lover, they will hide far away. And I will often comfort myself that I was just careless, it's no big deal, and so on. Teach you to find the performance of a woman who is killed and denied after cheating. 4. Seek warmth. Such women may be too hungry for sex or love. They really want to get more attention from men, so they are also happy to cheat. Especially after tasting the sweetness of cheating, women will fall in love with the feeling of cheating and hope to continue with their lover. If the other party doesn't agree, they will also find another target. She didn't fall in love with any man, she just fell in love with and enjoyed the feeling of cheating. The woman who actually feels unforgettable about this kind of love should have met a man many times better than her husband during the extramarital affair. For that man, she will be hard to forget, and even regard him as a very important person in her life, more important than her husband. I will never forget the sadness and happiness brought by the other party. I regret that the happy time is very short and I can't stay with my lover for a long time. What do married women think when they cheat? 2 1. "Lover-type" mind This kind of woman generally values the feelings between men and women, mostly because she has rich and delicate feelings, perhaps because there is no feeling or crack between husband and wife. They expect emotional care and spiritual comfort. This kind of derailment is not too intense about sex, but a link of emotional communication or sublimation. However, this kind of derailment is too deep, often very devoted and tired because of complicated feelings and too much interweaving between material and physical body. Although the other person's body and mind lost great satisfaction in a certain period of time, the final consequence was mostly damage. Two: "One-night stand" this type of women, before often emotionally or physically derailed, perhaps emotionally comforted, or physically lost great happiness. They don't pay much attention to their feelings, but pursue revenge and sensory comfort, perhaps enthusiasm and physical enjoyment. There will be no emotional, material or financial entanglements in this kind of cheating, but only a temporary pleasure. To put it bluntly, each other has a deformed mentality of "playing" and "being played", "possessing" or "being possessed". This kind of stealing people's lives is very chic and relaxed. You won't have any worries unless you are caught in bed. Three: Women with "sexual friendship" are not young by comparison. Ordinary people have a fluctuating life, a happy family and even a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. As the husband and wife worked for a long time, their enthusiasm in their later years gradually turned into affection. Due to tasks, career, family and other reasons, there is little communication in thoughts, words and even "sexual interest". With the passage of time and the growth of age, they often like to find a group to pour out their confidences, and many "confidences" can't be said between husband and wife or even lovers, so they will want to find a "confidant" who is similar to husband and wife or lovers, but will not have any influence on each other. This intimate relationship can only be established after the impact of the mind or physical contact. This kind of stealing people, usually without material or too much emotion, is an enemy relationship, but it is higher than the simple friendship relationship of ordinary enemies. They are independent, do not interfere with each other, and have their own living space. This kind of woman is very concerned about her reputation and is worried about the impact on her family and husband-wife relationship. Therefore, when choosing "sexual friendship", it is very cautious. Four: "Hungry" women are generally not young. Most of them are between 35 and 45 years old. When a husband reaches this age range, he is often "within his power". About the life of husband and wife, most of them just deal with it. At most, it is limited to the current "payment of public grain". But when women reach this age range, they tend to be "fierce" and "unstoppable". Because husbands often deliberately "escape" and try to avoid "paying public grain", wives are often embarrassed to ask for it automatically because of their face. Overnight, wives have a feeling of "not having enough to eat". Therefore, in order to solve the problem of "food and clothing", many wives will look to men outside the "besieged city" and go outside the city to find "food" once they have no chance. Five: The "curiosity-seeking" mentality has become a kind of "fashion" for many people because of the materialistic desires in ancient society, the people's hearts are not ancient, and stealing people. Many women often intentionally pry into or narrate other people's "private affairs" after their spare time. At first, they held the mentality of "contempt", but after a long time, it seems that they have a feeling of "seeking fish from the edge of the wood". When they are in a group, they often ask themselves, "Why can't I touch a monk?" ? Then, there will be a feeling of "itching" in my heart. Once there is no chance, they also want to "retreat and form a network." This type of infidelity seems to be similar to the type of "one-night stand", but this type of woman should be intelligent, and ordinary people just "taste" to satisfy their curiosity. Six: the number of "ignorant" brains is very small, and most of them are "unintentional willows." This kind of woman is often deceived or "forced" by the other party without preparation. Of course, this is not the type of forced rape. Although I don't mean that to each other, I don't hate or crowd out. As long as there is an environment or "atmosphere", as long as there is no physical or reputational risk, it will be "half-delayed" from the beginning. Seven: There is no age limit for women who are "vengeful". They have a * * * temperament, that is, they have revenge. No matter who it is, there is a confrontational mentality of "you give me a level, I will give you a level 15". No matter how old this kind of woman is, no matter how loving the husband and wife are now, as long as she knows that her old man is having an affair, there will be a kind of "since your state official set fire, I, a small ordinary person, will also light a lamp." As a result, they hold the mentality of "self-discipline, self-discipline" and automatically steal from others. What's more, they deliberately let their husbands know that they are stealing from others. People with this mentality are not pursuing the satisfaction of physical desire, but the tunnel is a kind of spiritual satisfaction. Therefore, they are not picky about the object of stealing others, as long as it is a man, even those "old bachelors" who can't marry can accept it. This type of stealing people's minds is the most terrible, so I suggest that friends who like stealing people should keep a low profile and be as mysterious as possible, and never let their wives find out. Parentheses: Suppose my wife is the kind of woman who is very vindictive. (Hee hee, applause here) Eight: "Panic type" women are generally very old, mostly between 40 and 50 years old. These people are old, most of them are virtuous, and they are single-minded to their families, children and husbands. They have no criminal record at all. But with the growth of age, the child is older and doesn't need her care. My husband also has his own career, and he doesn't need my help. At this time, they began to have a lot of time to think about my past and imagine my future. In the process of whimsy, they suddenly feel that time flies, and I missed my youth before I had time to enjoy my life! ! So inexplicably, the panic mentality of "Time flies, youth is fleeting, Feng Tang is easy to get old, and Li Guang is hard to seal" occurred. At this time, they want to catch the tail of youth and run with the bull to make up for the wasted youth. So, they began to look for the right man, want to get back the warm years from other men, and want to destroy them before their youth is about to die! ! What do married women think when they cheat? 3 1. Some women who think they can deceive others think they are perfect and can deceive everyone. There is no so-called sixth sense between men and women, and there is no woman who is so careful. Therefore, women can usually go home on time to prepare meals for their families, but if they don't dress up excessively, they won't attract their husbands' attention. 2. Most men will show obvious abnormality after cheating, which is twice as good for their wives. Most women will give away the clues after cheating, but some people are too hard-headed psychologically. Even if things are about to be revealed, you can talk nonsense with a smile and turn things around. 3. I have no feelings with your husband. If a man doesn't occupy any place in a woman's mind, she won't try her best to make him expire. When a woman is no longer interested in a man, she will not think too much about his feelings, as long as she can ensure that she lives happily and smartly. Bian Xiao wants to say: emotional things can't be forced. If a man finds out that his wife has these conditions, he might as well sit down and talk it over. After all, a happy marriage and family is created by both husband and wife. If husband and wife can't sit together and communicate well, then this marriage is really unnecessary.