On a cold winter day, in order to avoid freezing, a group of porcupines embraced to keep warm. But they were soon stung by each other's hard thorns. In this way, they are forced to separate. But in order to keep warm, their bodies are close again, and the thorns on their bodies hurt them again. These porcupines were tortured repeatedly by these two kinds of pains until they finally found a distance just enough to tolerate each other. Therefore, the social needs arising from people's inner emptiness and monotony have brought people together. But many disgusting qualities and intolerable shortcomings separate people from each other. The moderate distance that people finally find that can make everyone together and tolerate each other is politeness and elegance.

The ears are radar, and when propped up, you can hear good things and bad things. Eyes are thoughts, nothing more than wanting to see clearly the beauty and wonder of you and the world. I didn't stand on the big stage, but I was in everyone's small universe. I'm not as touching as the advertising lines, but at least I'm real. Beauty and ugliness are the theory of relativity, and good and bad lie in the time difference. What you think of me, I think of you.

if I treat you the way you treat me, you would hate me if I treat you the way you treat me.

the so-called face is not the fame that comes from doing a few good things in life and having something glamorous to show, but the hypocrisy of beauty. The face that others value is the personality charm that you show in front of others and the trust that others have in you.

When someone loves you for 999 times, only once he or she neglects you because he or she is busy, maybe at this time, the long-lasting love is fleeting and turns into unchangeable hate, which can't be retained any more. People are so greedy.

the communication between people is a misunderstanding. Approaching because of misunderstanding, and going away because of misunderstanding. When we walk towards a person, we have an infinitely beautiful imagination of her. Once the ideal is disillusioned, it is not far from separation.

All communication has an insurmountable final boundary. Between these two people, this boundary is not clear, but it is certain. All the troubles and conflicts begin with the unintentional attempt to break through this boundary.

It's really difficult to really understand a person. Perhaps most people have never really understood a person, not because people don't want to be understood, but

all the misunderstandings in this world, but all because we can never know whether it is equivalent in each other's minds.

How long have you been watching me in the shadows these years? Why not say it two years ago? We are so compatible.

People with different personalities should be treated with different words, not only for others, but also for yourself.

Trust is the cornerstone of interpersonal communication; It is an insurmountable trench in the growth of life!

the relationship between people is so fragile, seemingly unbreakable, but actually fragile!

some plays can be performed for a lifetime. Some masks can't be worn for a lifetime.

between gregarious and unsociable, it's just like stepping on the clutch in reverse.

love can't care more or less, gain or loss, it's just idealism.

sunshine makes people warm, but being too close to the sun makes people feel hot.

the quality of all communication depends on the quality of the participants themselves.

It's useless to cut corners if you are not the same person.

Some relationships between people are positively related to distance.