1. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and be at peace in your heart. Life, in the final analysis, is about mood. Life is tiring because there are too many things that can affect your mood. Changes in weather, warmth and warmth of people, and different scenery will all affect your mood.
And they are all beyond your control. If you take it lightly, the sky is just cloudy and sunny, people are just gathering and dispersing, and the earth is just high and low. Despite the vicissitudes of life, I am not alarmed, and I am naturally at ease; I am at ease with the situation, neither sad nor happy, and it is a sunny day.
2. You have to rely on yourself to deal with others, and let others comment behind your back. Sometimes we pay too much attention to the voices in our ears, make decisions indecisively, and act timidly. In the end, our souls are tired and our spirits are sleepy.
No matter how well you do, there will be people pointing fingers; even if you are a mess, you can still hear praises. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don’t have to worry about the judgment of the outside world, you don’t have to fall into the eyes of others, and you don’t have to distort yourself to please the world.
3. Slowly I realized that in this life, a person must be able to withstand lies, tolerate perfunctory, deceive, and forget promises. Slowly I realized: Persistence may not necessarily mean victory, and giving up may not mean surrender. Instead of hitting the wall gorgeously, it is better to turn around gracefully.
Give yourself a roundabout space, learn to think, learn to wait, and learn to adjust. There are many times in life when we need not only persistence, but also the freedom and ease of looking back and smiling.
4. Everything arises from causes and conditions and arises from thoughts. If you are attached to something or something, you will worry about gains and losses, and troubles will come one after another. If you can see everything and have no worries, you will be fearless.
In life, you are often afraid of what will come. When you look down on gains and losses, meaningless success or failure, you will have smooth sailing and good luck in adversity. The most precious thing in life is to have a normal heart, stay away from turbidity, be as calm as water, and not be confused by the five colors of the world or the various flavors of life.
5. In this life, people have the same opportunities but different causes and conditions. Whether it is smooth sailing, ups and downs, or ordinary, it is their own destiny. Those who pass by, those who meet by chance, those who meet, and those who part ways are all unique.
No matter what situation you are in, don't complain about the state of the world, don't give up your bottom line, and don't be jealous of others. If you are not greedy, you will have few desires; if you are not angry, your mind will be at peace; if you do not seek, you will always be content. If you meet someone, please cherish it; if you say goodbye, please cherish it.
6. If you understand something, it’s heaven, but if you don’t understand it, it’s hell. Since you are alive, you must live well. Sometimes we lose more than we gain because we are too narrow-minded and care too much about the trivial things around us. Whether something can cause trouble or annoyance depends entirely on how we view and deal with it. Don't get into trouble, don't be too concerned about face, don't be petty. Not caring is a kind of open-mindedness and freedom.
7. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings. A word of criticism or a trivial matter is all brooding in our hearts, allowing the outside world to control our mood.
Most of the time, others may have forgotten what they said or did, but we are still torturing ourselves. Life is not easy, and it has been a bumpy journey, so there is no need to repeatedly jump into traps set by others unintentionally. Live a little longer and show yourself, many people and things have nothing to do with you.
8. Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced cannot get it, and those who are not expected often come unexpectedly.
Therefore, you must have a free and easy heart, let everything take its course, do not be angry, do not be impatient, do not overdo it, do not force, do not be pessimistic, do not be rigid, do not panic, do not forget the shape, do not take pleasure in things, do not Feel sorry for yourself!