What do you feel after reading a book? It's time to write a review and record it. So how should I write my thoughts after reading? The following are my thoughts on the famous work Red Rock, which I collected and sorted out. I hope it will help everyone.
After reading "Because of pain, it is called youth", 1 Because of pain, it is called youth-for you who stand alone at the crossroads of life.
Because of anxiety, so young.
Because I am at a loss, I am young.
I am young because I hesitate.
I am young because I am lonely.
Because I am uneasy, I am young.
After reading this book, I want to ask myself a question: Have I found my future direction at the crossroads of life? I was attracted by the name of this book the first time I saw it, and I finished it unconsciously. After reading it, I suddenly felt a shocking feeling in my heart, forcing me to stop and reflect on myself. Did I waste it?
Because of pain, it is called youth. It was written by Kim Duran, a famous Korean writer, and recommended by Kim Jae Jung and Bi Shumin. The author Jin Lan is a professor at Seoul National University, a doctoral supervisor, the head of the Department of Consumer Studies, and a professional consultant to the Korean President's Office, Samsung Group and Amore Pacific Construction Group. When we see these famous positions of the author, we will sigh unconsciously. He is such a great and successful man. But the author was young, just like us, confused and miserable, didn't know the direction he was pursuing, and even degenerated and gave up. But great men become great men because they walked out of the swamp and found their own direction in life.
Now, we have entered the third year of high school, and we are facing the first big exam in our lives-the college entrance examination. Now we are beginning to be confused, what is our goal, what is our pursuit, and what is our life direction? We are full of confusion and fear, and we have too many mixed feelings. Entering the third year of high school, the pressure suddenly increased, as if all eyes were staring at us. The teacher told us that we are senior three and we can't be lazy any more. If we don't work hard, it will be too late. Parents say to you, son, you are in senior three, work hard and strive for your goals ... The resulting pressure makes us even more confused.
When we see the author's wonderful interpretation of life and time: if a person's life is 80 years old, set life as 24 hours, 24 hours is equivalent to 1440 minutes, and then divide it into 80 years, one year is equivalent to 18 minutes, ten years is equivalent to 3 hours, and so on ... We always feel that our life has gone a long time because of difficulties, but if we follow the rules,
However, whether we can choose the right path, the author also put forward such an idea. One kind of people are the Arrowheads-they have clear ideas about their future; One kind of people is the paper boat school-confused and don't know the direction they are pursuing. Both the arrow school and the paper boat school have disadvantages. Arrow school only aims at one direction, no matter right or wrong, it can't adjust its goal according to the changes of itself and the times, while paper boat school is so confused that it will eventually be submerged in the times. Only by seeking a balanced posture between the Arrow School and the Paper Boat School can we fly better.
In fact, for us, there is also such a question-what university should we take? Some people have clear goals, but most people seem to have doubts. Facing our dream university, we will ask ourselves: Can I get in? Do I have this ability? Can I do that? Often these problems will undermine our confidence and begin to doubt our future. In today's impetuous society, we tend to lose ourselves easily and often only see the immediate interests.
However, time is actually an important factor for success. Successful people will have 25 hours a day, while lost people will have 23 hours a day. We should make full use of our time to create more value. In fact, there are three elements of success: goal, method and practice. Missing one of the three will make the triangle of life lose one side. In order to achieve the balance among the three, we need to constantly introspect and support the center of the triangle.
Youth is actually a function. Even if you press the wrong button, the machine will never break down. Not because of the past, but because of the future; Not because of despair, but because of hope; Not because of setbacks, but because of potential, youth is so beautiful. Young people are looking for directions in confusion and the value of our lives. Maybe at this moment, we are confused, uneasy and even degenerate, but we just need to spend the next second, return to our own struggle and embark on our journey!
Now we have no reason to degenerate and waste time. We should re-examine ourselves and our surroundings in the next life, find ourselves, find our own direction, work hard and stand at the top of our lives!
Because of pain, it is called youth!
After reading "Because of pain, it is called youth", the second way of life is long and I am confused. When I entered the university, I was no longer a child, and my troubles and pains followed. By chance, I bought a book and read it with great feeling-"Because of pain, it is called youth". This book is a classic of healing that has changed hundreds of millions of teenagers in Asia. A tutor's father wrote a painful resonance for the confused children.
Perhaps I have experienced too little, so most of my feelings are not pain, but confusion and anxiety about the uncertainty of the future. To tell you the truth, I don't think I have ever really enjoyed the taste of youth. I have never tasted the bittersweet taste, never talked about love, never indulged in unrestrained vagrancy, never had a glorious history of vigorous struggle, and felt that my life was so dull, featureless and not half as wonderful as others. I have always been a good girl and have no bad hobbies, but I am not the kind of child who only does things according to my parents' wishes. I am also very different from them. I don't want to grow up carefree under their wings, but now I don't even have the ability to survive, which really scares me! It has been a year since I entered the university. I haven't really adapted to this stage yet. I really don't know what to do after losing my goal of entering the university. This book not only gave me guidance, but also moved me more. I really admire the heartfelt words of a real teacher. There are good teachers, but not many. In this huge team of teachers, there are really few!
What this book touched me pointed out that one or two articles can't express it, but I like to rest my feelings, because I think only in this way can I have a deeper understanding of it. Now, I am going to be twenty years old. At the beginning of the next decade, I once thought I started too late and didn't lay a good foundation. This is already a big step behind others, and my shortcomings are more obvious than others. But what I see in this book is that I am still in the early morning of my life, which makes me find my motivation again. Perhaps I am too eager to succeed, always thinking of achieving something, and finally achieving nothing. This is my present situation. I have a desire for success, but I have never been able to stand firm. It's time to calm down and learn something!
Young, so I can afford to hurt. This kind of anxiety from the uncertain future is the most essential problem in life. The real pressure of youth on life is not the certificates and achievements that need to be accumulated, but the insecurity of not seeing the future. Because I can't see clearly, because I don't know anything about the future, I always feel confused and afraid, but I want to say that 18 years old is used to be confused and uneasy.
Miracles are accumulated bit by bit. Don't try to get fat at once. This is a wise saying. As long as you plan a thing carefully and adjust it while sticking to it, it will often be done well. Everyone will slack off. Don't worry about walking slower than others, and don't be disheartened because of temporary setbacks. As long as you constantly adjust your mentality and stop, you will eventually reach the finish line.
Because of pain, it is called youth; Without pain, how can it be called youth? Whose youth is not confused, uneasy and painful? Therefore, I want to thank those who have brought me pain and frustration. Without you, I will not see myself clearly, make progress, be strong and learn how to make progress. Because of your existence, I am stronger and better every day. As long as there is a cell moving in my body, I won't fall down. You can beat me, but you can never beat me.
After reading the book "Because of pain, it is called youth", I saw this new topic for the first time. Some people say that youth is like a story without an ending; Some people say that this is like a wandering journey; Others say it is like a drama without an ending, but I think youth is like a gorgeous fireworks, beautiful but short-lived.
Some things, if you don't do it now, you will never do it in your life. When you are young, you should have the courage to pursue your ideals and do what you like. Even if you fail, you can find a stable job in the future. At least I have worked hard for my ideal. I don't think I will have too many regrets when I am old. This sentence left a deep impression on me. Young people are not afraid of mistakes because we have worked hard and struggled for our ideals. Even if we make mistakes, we won't regret it, because this is what we pursue. Someone once said: What we regret is never what we did wrong, but what we didn't do. Let's open our arms and fly freely in the sky that belongs to us!
Youth is difficult because of loneliness. Because we have all grown up, we have learned to rebel; Because we have grown up, I have my own opinions; Because we grow up, we become unreasonable. All this makes us lonely, but we learn to bear it alone. We learn to accept everything and relax ourselves.
Others say that after 00, we are parasites, a generation that only plays, and others don't value us. But who saw our loss? It's not that we didn't try, but that you didn't see it. After reading this book, I found a resonance.
Because of pain, it is called youth!
Some parts of this book are quite right. Although we are only high school students now, we are also people who are about to enter the society. So be sure to plan your life well, not too blindly.
In fact, the planning for the future is very simple. Just think about what we want now and everything will be clear. But analyzing your heart-knowing what you really want is not a simple matter. Because we are children after all. It is difficult for children to understand the problem without being one-sided. Full of dreams, they cannot fully understand the society. At this time, if there is no correct guidance, the future road is likely to go astray. Article 5 of the Ten Commandments of Choosing a Job says: Don't choose the place where everyone wants to go, but choose the place where no one wants to go. Faced with this impetuous society, many children want to engage in finance and make money, but is this really a good choice? Career is a lifetime thing, so you must choose one you really like and are willing to do, and judge according to the world. When everyone goes to "make money", "making money" is not a good career. Those occupations that are related to the future of mankind, although there may be few people, are really good occupations that will not be outdated. Like researchers. Secondly, when choosing the future road, we must distinguish between dreams and ideals and get rid of our childishness. Some friends still talk about their future with illusions, hoping to try all their favorite careers. Although this may come true, I don't have much hope for it. Because people's life is limited, it is still very difficult to do one thing well. Some people can't do it all their lives, let alone so much. Too many ideals are as dangerous as no ideals.
For us now, the most important and direct planning is the choice of universities. What university you go to is not only related to your grades, but also to your subsequent choices (in fact, the latter is more important). I have two friends, and their choices just illustrate this point. They are freshmen this year. One of them got on the key line in the college entrance examination, and the other one was a little poor. Those who went to the key line applied for popular financial colleges, while the other, determined to burn the bridge and collect information, went to the unpopular department of a remote school. The result is very surprising. There are too many students and too few teachers in popular schools, and students hardly see teachers, which has a great impact on their studies. The unpopular department has fewer students, more teachers and abundant resources. Teaching is almost one to one. In the same department, some may be thousands of people, and some may be dozens of people. How can the academic qualifications be the same!
Therefore, we should not blindly make our own judgments in the choices related to life. So now I don't want to have any conflict with those "hot" majors, and philosophy is the best. I don't mean to influence other people's opinions, but that's the truth. We cannot deny it.
I watched Youth Because of Pain this month, which is an inspirational book written by Korean writer Jin Lanyu. Especially suitable for post-80 s and post-90 s generation. Youth is difficult because of loss, hesitation and anxiety. Nowadays, mobile phones and computers make communication fast and convenient. There were no communication methods such as Weibo and QQ before, but it was human. They care about each other and share weal and woe. Now the post-90s generation is lonely, and everyone is busy managing their own lives. 30 years old, just a blink of an eye. In our twenties and thirties, we have entered the stage of youth and adulthood, standing alone at the crossroads of life. Where is our hope? What do we pursue with our youth? Combining the classic topics in the book, we have the following insights:
1, when will your life stay? This topic seems to be immediately associated with an old saying of China, that is, stand at thirty and be puzzled at forty. How far do you think the lifestyle has gone so far? We might as well take out the computer and do the math. If you compare the time from birth to death to 24 hours a day, what time do you think you are living now? If the average life expectancy of people is 80 years old, what is the equivalent of 24 years old? Tell everyone that the conclusion is-7 am, 12 minutes is equivalent to 24 years old, and at most it is equivalent to 7 am, 12 minutes. At this moment, many people have just got up to prepare for a new day, and some people have not even got up yet. 60 years old, who is ready to spend his old age after retirement, is equivalent to 6 pm. The calculation method of the life clock is very simple, 24 hours is equivalent to 1440 minutes, and it is divided into 80 years, each equal to 18 minutes, one year is equivalent to 18 minutes, and 10 years is equivalent to 3 hours. Compare yourself. If you find yourself half a beat slower than others, you should try to surpass yourself and don't give up and escape.
2, young, so I can't afford to get hurt. The most brilliant and energetic golden age of our life is between the ages of 20 and 35. Everyone has stepped into the stage of trouble and confusion that society will inevitably experience. The real pressure that youth brings to life is not the experience that needs to be accumulated, but the anxiety of not seeing the future, because we know nothing about the future. With the growth of age, the once unlimited choices will be reduced a little bit, just as people often say, "thirty don't learn art" In the end, there are only one or two options left. When tadpoles grow into frogs, they often forget that they were tadpoles when they were young. This stage is the most distressing period in life, so we should love those distresses in front of us. Adolescence is an inevitable experience. Let's go all out to think and develop our future.
Miracles are accumulated bit by bit. In life, we can't do everything with determination and enthusiasm at once. The greater the momentum, the worse the fall. Some people like to make wishes on a large scale, and they can't finish the last thing. In fact, as long as we plan one thing carefully and make adjustments while persisting, it will be completed well. Everyone will feel slack. Don't worry, we will walk slower than others. As long as we constantly adjust our mentality, know how not to give up and keep moving forward, we will definitely reach the end. Rome wasn't built in a day. When your energy and efforts accumulate over time and reach a certain thickness, they will naturally be returned to you in the end. This is the causal relationship of nature. Think about it. 1996 when I came out of the countryside, I was still a child who had not graduated from junior high school. I don't have any connections or backgrounds. Through my efforts and persistence in 16, my life and quality of life have gradually improved, and I have a gentle wife and lovely children, a car and a house, which shows that my dream can be realized on the career path of chefs! Now let's take a look at the post-90 s chefs. They have no sense of responsibility, strong selfishness, no spirit of hard work and aging, and they don't know how to cherish "today", "I'm too tired today, let's talk about it tomorrow" and "I'm full today and lose weight tomorrow". Tomorrow is another day. There will be many tomorrows. "Starting tomorrow" is just a comfort to the bad habits that I can't control.
We should all calculate what time our life clock hands point to and compare your life to 24 hours a day, with an average of 18 minutes 1 year. For example, I am 32 years old, so my life indicator is around 9 am, which is also the age when my life has just begun. Thank you for giving me the courage to make progress in my early years! At the same time, it is also good for post-90s employees. Your life is more exciting, especially when you get up at dawn and in the morning. As long as you work harder, do more than others, and have more minutes than others, your life will be wonderful, because you have a lot of time, opportunities and platforms!
After reading "Because of pain, it is called youth", and Article 6 is called youth because of pain.
The road of life is long, and I am lost. Looking back on 20xx, what have I gained? What have you lost? I see. What's lost? Standing on the tail of 20 18, how deeply I feel and think! 14 14 Turn on your mobile phone in your spare time in October, and click "Dangdang Reading". The book "Youth because of pain" will be downloaded and stored in your mobile phone.
"Because of pain, it is called youth" —— A book "You Standing at the Crossroads of Life Alone" written by Korean writer Yu. Many young ladies born in 1990s like to watch Korean dramas that cry, and I am honored to read Teacher Jin's book that inspires me.
How long will the influence of education last?
Once naive and romantic, I thought it would be good to do things seriously after work, and my education didn't have much influence on myself. After work, I found that people who study in famous universities really start higher than those who don't study in famous universities, which is just a good stepping stone. I once complained that I didn't study hard, went to a poor university and chose a major that I couldn't find employment after graduation. Now, none of this matters to me. Behind the glamour is not necessarily exquisite, but it may be a treasure, destroyed. No matter how good the education is, it is only a short-term stunt. In the end, we have to rely on our own efforts. Why bother? According to Yu's time deduction algorithm, if everyone can live to 80 years old, every day is equivalent to one year 18 minutes. And I am a master of Mr. Kim's works. My biological clock is 7 am12. I am too old to study hard. I have wasted 24 years. How can I continue to be sleepy? I should rub my sleepy eyes, get dressed and embark on a journey of future exploration, shouldn't I?
It's too early to start managing money.
I have always envied the fresh graduates. As soon as they were assigned to the project, their monthly salary was almost the same as mine. When they became regular employees, their salary was half higher than mine. They always say with envy: Wow, if I had your salary, I would definitely save a lot of money. So stupid birds fly first, read all kinds of financial books early, and search all kinds of financial books, stocks, funds, gold, insurance, savings and so on online. And then find the right type of financial management. Life needs financial management, but also needs to invest in yourself. Strengthening one's own quality is the smartest investment in financial management.
Because of pain, it is called youth; Without pain, how can it be called youth? Whose youth is not confused, uneasy and painful? Therefore, I want to thank those who have brought me pain and frustration. Without you, I will not see myself clearly, make progress, be strong and learn how to make progress. Because of your existence, I am stronger and better every day.
20xx starts from scratch and starts again!
What is the definition of youth after reading "Because of pain, it is called youth"? Are we young, 18 years old, or are we carrying all kinds of experiences and going through the road of growth? The answer is not absolute, because we are on the road of growth called youth under the banner of 18 years old. Perhaps, we are often uneasy, at a loss, and have hesitated, been lonely and even uneasy more or less, but this is the charm brought by youth.
I didn't quite understand the charm before, but I was always worried because I was afraid of the unknown future and hesitated every choice I made. However, it is precisely because of a book, specifically, a book about my own growth so far, that I can appreciate the charm of youth more, that is, Jin's "Because of pain, it is called youth".
I have to say that this is a magical book, not to give it fantastic colors, but to attract readers of different ages with the simplest and easy-to-understand truth, because everyone has one thing in common, that is, the "youth" they all had. Everyone who reads it will recall the dribs and drabs he experienced in the past and deeply engrave them in his mind. It doesn't have flowery words, and it doesn't have a little grandiose truth, but it is full of tiny details that can make you move.
It made me understand the meaning of youth: never regret your decision, never give yourself a chance to turn back, and try your best to achieve a goal, even if we can't see the future outcome. Because we can only stand at the crossroads of life, no one can really decide our future, and the road to the future is only ours, not others. The first thing we should do now is to set ourselves a goal to guide ourselves. It doesn't need to be too far. Just look at this step, do it seriously and lay a solid foundation, which is already a small step for us to succeed.
We don't need to be too fast. Maybe we once lost at the starting line of life, but after all, we didn't overcome that moment, but who can reach the finish line first. In the process of running, we still have a chance to catch up with the leader. What we need to pay attention to is the obstacles in the running process, which can not be ignored on our growth path, but it is these experiences that enable us to accumulate more growth experience and know what we should really do. Know clearly that your goals are not those who stand in front of you, but the goals you set for your future. What you are willing to do only belongs to your own goals and unknown journey.
Don't look back when you have made up your mind. We cannot change our decision many times. Now that we have determined a path, we should go forward bravely and face the goal without fear. Maybe there are many people around us who discourage their decisions and believe that they are well-intentioned, but we should find out for ourselves what we really want and whether every decision we make is well thought out. If it is well thought out, then we don't have to hesitate or listen to others' comments on our decisions, because no one can replace us on this road, and all the future is in our own hands. Once you decide, don't give yourself a chance to back down. Hesitation will only make us more confused and less confident, so we can only move forward wholeheartedly in the direction we decide.
After reading Youth Because of Pain, when I just decided to read this book, I was attracted by its title.
What attracted me most was the section "Catch the time thief around you" in this book. There was a great Japanese gentleman who was both a famous doctor and an economic critic. In a word, thousands of investors can buy and sell their stocks or change their bank deposits. He is a busy man, but he can master four or five social roles skillfully. The secret is to make up your mind to quit bad habits and do what you should do or what you should have done in your spare time.
Sometimes, we are like this. We are addicted to all kinds of temporary pleasures and can't extricate ourselves. We consume precious time bit by bit, but in the end we have to pay twice as much time or energy to make up for the unfinished things before. This makes people feel very tired, so we are not busy, but we always talk about "I am busy", which is why we feel very busy and tired. However, it seems contradictory that you can only squeeze out time when you are busy. Is to make good use of the present, divide the time and do things well now. I realize that I, too, will not manage my time properly and make plans, and then I will find that the summer vacation is already halfway through.
This book is an inspirational book and a spiritual guide!
After reading "Because of pain, it's called youth", I picked up this book for the first time, because that sentence called youth because of pain, so I stopped and opened the first page gently, which seemed to attract me and turned to the last page unconsciously.
I was deeply moved. After reading it, my heart is like a shock. In fact, everyone's essence is the same at first, but they all change slowly with the environment. I was impulsive in primary school. I never care about the consequences. I feel happy and comfortable. If you quarrel with others, you will not consider it from his point of view, nor will you worry about his feelings. Primary school has six years. I played for six years. I probably look back on my mistakes and how I wasted my time, as the book says. And in the following days, how can I re-examine myself and find myself?
Because of pain, it is called youth, written by the famous Korean writer Kim. This book mainly tells the long road of life and has been lost. In an era of paying attention to fighting for dad, what can we fight for the future? Many times, I have become a failure in my studies. In the book, the author truly shows the hardships and anxieties of this generation of young people that parents and adults have not had time to understand. The author helps them see the pain that they can't talk to others, and tells them how to find the energy to fight for the future from this pain.
At the beginning, the author used a wonderful idea to interpret life and time: if life is 80 years old, let life be 24 hours, and 24 hours is equivalent to 1440 minutes, and divide these into 80 years, 1 year is equivalent to 18 minutes, and 10 year is equivalent to 3 hours. Compared with the author's life experience, we have experienced very little. Therefore, we should live a good life. When I finished reading, I was called youth because of my pain. I have to describe it as shame. Because of anxiety, it is called youth, because of confusion, it is called youth, because of hesitation, it is called youth, because of loneliness, it is called youth.
After reading this book, I was very touched and gave me a lot of inspiration. I'm confused and don't know the direction I'm pursuing. But I have tried, tried to do the impossible, just as the author tells about his youth, so have we. Although the result was not what we expected, we also became stronger, experiencing and enduring dreams, setbacks and confusion. ...
Because of pain, it is called youth.
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