We always believe that life will be better if we get married and have children. When we have children, we will worry because they are not old enough. We think we will be happy when they grow up. But when they enter adolescence, we are still in the same distress, so we believe that happiness will come when they pass this stage.

We always tell ourselves that after retirement, when either spouse is willing to cooperate, when we have a better car and when we can have a wonderful holiday, our life will be perfect. The truth is, no moment is more precious than now. If not now, when? Our life will be challenged at any time. It's best to accept this fact and make yourself happy anyway.

I appreciate a famous saying by Alfred Su Ze. He said: "For a long time, I felt that life-real life seemed to be about to begin. But there will always be some obstacles, such as having to finish something first. Unfinished work, time to be dedicated, debts to be paid, and so on. Then life began. Finally, I realized that these obstacles are my life. " This view made me realize that there is no road to happiness. Happiness itself is the road. So, cherish every moment you have, remember that time waits for no one, don't wait any longer-wait until you finish school and then go back to school; Waiting for your marriage or divorce; When you have children or children grow up and leave home; When you start working or retire; When you have a new car or a new house; When spring comes; Only when you are lucky enough to come to this world again will you realize that you should be happy at this moment. ...