I met a good teacher at school, a good master at work, and a good partner when I got married.
This just shows that it is really important to meet someone in this life.
As the saying goes: "in the bitter fleabane bitter fleabane, you can't help;" White sand is in nirvana and black with it. "
Walking with the wise and interacting with the superior, life is bound to be extraordinary; Only by parting ways with fools and villains can life be happy and clear.
Therefore, how good a person is depends on who he is with and who he is taught.
Life is a long road, and only the talents in the same industry are everyone's biggest indicators!
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Learn from the master how to see the world.
In life, the bigger the pattern, the higher you stand and the farther you see.
It is often our own "eyes" that determine the pattern.
If the eyes are trivial, it is easy to be blocked by the troubles in front of you; But if you open your heart, open your eyes and stand on a high place overlooking the big pattern of life, you will suddenly be enlightened.
But if you want to see the world from a height, you must have the help and guidance of others on your way up.
In "Ordinary World", Lu Yao once borrowed the characters in the novel and said this sentence:
"When a person's mind is not strong enough to fully grasp himself, he needs to rely on another person who is mentally stronger than himself.
Maybe one day, students will become their own teachers' teachers (which often happens), but at every stage of their growth, people need to get better advice than they knew at that time. "
Many times, standing on the shoulders of giants, you can only see higher and farther.
Arthur Huaka, a famous American banker, attributed his success to the advice of experts.
One day, Huaka read the story of the great industrialist William Astor in the local magazine. He admires and admires him and hopes that he can become such a person one day.
Finally, by chance, Huaka met her idol.
He immediately asked, "I really want to know, how can I earn 1 million?"
Astor said to Huaka, "As long as you make more people better than yourself, you will succeed one day."
Although it is only a short sentence, Huaka has always kept it in mind. In the following days, Huaka visited first-class businessmen, editors and bankers according to Astor's instructions. He began to imitate their successful practices.
As a result, in less than five years, Huaka realized her dream and became a banker.
Later, when a young man asked Huaka about his successful experience, Huaka conveyed to the young man what he heard from Ashtar: "I hope you can often learn from people who are better than you, which is beneficial to your study or your life."
Indeed, if you have more contacts with superior people, your thinking and vision of seeing things under their insight will be different, which will naturally be more effective.
As the saying goes: "Reading thousands of books is better than taking Wan Li Road; Walking on Wan Li Road, it is better to show the way. "
Walking with a wise man is a wise man, and associating with a superior person is an achievement.
Only by learning to use superiors can we quickly find the simplest and most effective way to succeed.
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Learn how to do things from competent people.
General Fu Xu said: "Young people should at least know an old man who knows the world and ask him to be a consultant."
There is no other reason. Being a man is a lifelong study. Only by learning more from the experience of our predecessors can we avoid many detours.
I still remember that in the variety show "Life I yearn for", Daxun Wei visited once, and everyone gathered around to chat after dinner.
When talking about Huang Lei's film The Troublemakers, Daxun Wei said, "I am really lucky to join the cast of Huang Lei. It is the most careful and practical crew I have ever seen. "
However, as soon as the words came out, He Laoshi began to deliberately ridicule: "So you mean that your last movie" Gardenia Blossoms "was not good?"
The words have been spoken. No matter how Daxun Wei saves them, what he just said is hard to reconcile.
He Jiong took this opportunity to teach several newcomers how to survive in the entertainment circle:
"When you say something, you simply express your affirmation of it, and there is no need to bring anything else, otherwise it will cause the speaker to be unintentional and the listener to be interested."
In a few words, I clarified the way of the world and pointed out the maze of newcomers.
Someone left a message below saying, "It's good to be taught a few life maxims by people like He Jiong."
Yes, it is not only a way to know people in the world, but also a way to cultivate one's inner self.
Taking the capable person as a mirror, we can see our own shortcomings, and then check for leaks and make up for gaps, so as to gain motivation for the future.
There is an old saying: "It is better to study for ten years than to listen to you."
Sometimes, excellent people can solve the doubts and troubles in our lives in just one or two sentences, and let us gradually sort out the road ahead in the fog.
Over time, keep up with them and you will get better and better.
So always get close to a high-level person with excellent habits.
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Learn optimism from Fu.
People will inevitably encounter setbacks, misfortunes and disasters in this life.
At this time, only by abandoning pessimistic and negative emotions and choosing a positive and optimistic attitude can we be happy masters.
I believe many people have heard of the "butterfly effect".
A butterfly occasionally flapped its wings in Brazil, causing a tornado in Texas a month later.
The same is true of the "butterfly effect" in emotions.
People who are depressed will always talk endlessly and complain angrily because of a little thing. Over time, life is gloomy. But optimistic and positive people can see the bright side in the broken and start again hopefully.
With such people, you will find flowers everywhere and there will always be hope.
Remember there is such a story:
Once upon a time, there was a man who was unhappy every day and everything was boring in his eyes.
Later, he went to seek the help of a psychologist.
The doctor didn't prescribe medicine, but said to him, "Go and see an optimistic and happy friend every day and stay with him all morning, noon and night."
Although he didn't understand, he did it anyway.
After a while, the doctor paid him a return visit. As a result, he said that he is very happy every day now.
The doctor asked him, "What is your harvest?"
He smiled and replied, "If you want to be happy, you have to be with someone who can make you positive, and then it will take effect faster than any medicine."
Happiness is the best medicine for all heart diseases. With an optimistic person, you will be infected by his energy, and you will be happy unconsciously.
Our life is long and short, and there will inevitably be setbacks, difficulties, disappointment and sadness on the way. ...
But the most unfortunate thing is that I still met the wrong person and got entangled with him, which added more misfortune to my life.
The only way is to polish your eyes and choose a lover to go with you!
See the world from an expert's eyes, learn from the plans of capable people, and enjoy life as a blessing. Only in this way can you live a relaxed and happy life!