How do lazy people become diligent? Many people feel bad about lazy people, because lazy people are not likable anyway, and it is not easy to make lazy people diligent. How do lazy people become diligent? Let's take a look at the method!
How lazy people become diligent 1 Long, long ago, in this beautiful land of Ireland, people and ghosts were passed down from generation to generation.
The blue sea surrounds this Roland Island with only one peak. On this peak, there lives a demon giant named Verwell.
He loves Roland island very much. He loves everything on the island. He goes to the island twice every morning and evening. He never walked past farmland and crops, and never let his feet kick into any hut. He is the patron saint of the whole island.
One evening, he came out in high spirits, clumsy feet walking carefully in the fields. He dare not neglect at all, for fear of stepping on the crops.
"Ha ha!" He suddenly found a large weed in front of him, so he stepped on it with a pair of big feet and felt very comfortable: he finally found a place to rest. He just lay on his back. "Oh, no, is this a wasteland?"
At this time, he felt itchy in his head and neck. I don't know why. He thought, is there anything strange about these weeds under his feet? He quickly pulled up a handful of weeds and took a closer look: the withered grain was wrapped in thick weeds, as if complaining to him for help.
"What a shame!" As he muttered something, Will looked around: "Whose garden is so desolate? ! "Looking down the line of sight, Weil saw a row of crooked huts in the distance. The wooden windows without glass trembled in the cold wind and made a" rattle "trill.
"Whose land is this? ! "Will the Giant is shouting. The wind is still whistling, the window is still shaking, and no one pays attention to him.
"Come out, or I'll beat you!" Will was obviously angry. He growled and threatened to dance. Just then, the small door of the hut creaked gently and opened. "It's me! It's me! "
The people who came out answered eagerly.
Will will take a closer look and suddenly understand: "Who am I talking about? Who else will be on Roland island besides him? " The giant seems to have expected it, and his eyes are shining with lightning.
It's a long story to mention the man in front of me.
His name is Cooper, and he is a famous slacker all over the island. He is short and his clumsy face is always so dirty.
Because he never washes his face, the dust accumulated over the years is embedded in every wrinkle on his forehead and corner of his eyes. His gloomy face was born with a greedy mouth and covered with a broken sack, like a clown in a circus.
Don't look at him like this, he is blessed. His wife is a famous hardworking girl in the whole island. Cooper has a pet phrase for his wife-"It's still early!"
Every day the sun shines on his ass, and his wife urges him to get up. He is always "early!" If the house is dirty, he will ignore it; The cow called for milking, but he answered slowly, "It's still early!" "
This time, the field is full of weeds. He hasn't done this job for almost three months. His wife urged him many times, and he always said, "It's still early!" " His wife's wailing was just a breeze in Cooper's ear.
But today, why is the crying outside so loud and terrible? His listless eyes narrowed into a line and opened slightly. His heart was pounding and his legs were shaking.
He decided that it wasn't his wife's scolding, so he got up with a skid, creaked the small wooden door away, and just leaned out, only to hear a thunder: "Cooper! You are lazy again!
I knew it, you are the laziest on the island! "Cooper body shivered.
"I limit you to pull out all the weeds early tomorrow morning! Or I'll throw you into the sea to feed the fish! " The giant growled angrily. This is the first time he has been so angry on this quiet island. Lazy Cooper hung down a broken straw hat, lowered his hand, straightened up and said trembling, "Yes! Yes! "
But he immediately had a brainwave and begged the giant obsequiously, "Verveer, the weather is bad today, and the moon must be very dark at night. If you want to pull weeds in one night, I can only pull weeds in the moonlight, unless you let your old man go to heaven and bring back a bag of moons! "
When Danvel saw Kulpa's pious attitude, he felt pity. "Yes, how to pull weeds without moonlight?" He thought to himself and gradually relaxed his tight face.
"all right! I will bring a bag of moons to help you finish the task tonight. " Say that finish and roared off. But who doesn't know that there is only one moon in the sky? Will the Giant went to the Heavenly Palace with great interest. Of course, he was ridiculed and laughed at by the gods and came back with a lot of anger.
"Ah! Wellwell, why are you so depressed? " On the way, magician Jack asked loudly.
The giant told Jack what had happened.
"You were cheated by lazy Cooper!" Jack clapped his hands and laughed. "Lazy people know that there is only one moon in the sky, but they want you to find a bag of the moon to pull weeds. Isn't this a trick to trick you into getting through? "
Will the giant suddenly realized that he was trembling with anger and roared at the sky with his fist. The sound is great. Suddenly, he turned and ran to Cooper's cabin.
Listen, slacker.
You know there is no moon bag, but you think you are smart enough to make fun of me. I'll tell you what, I'll give you another day, and I'll bring a bag tomorrow night. You must give me all the weeds in the field, otherwise, I will throw you into the sea with this broken house.
With that, the giant left angrily.
Cooper was dumbfounded with fear. He was so scared that he sat on the threshold, looked at the boundless weeds and prayed for the boundless sea and vast blue sky to help him through this worrying difficulty!
This big slacker, who has never had any troubles, is worrying about not eating or sleeping. Tears of fear quietly wet his rags.
The wife standing by is an extremely clever woman. She came to her husband and said, "Cooper, if you listen to me now, you may still be saved."
"Come on, what can I do?" Cooper's anxious eyes revealed a glimmer of hope.
"Now, the only way is that you immediately run to the field with our best cattle and plow all the weeds, not a tree left. When the giant comes tomorrow, you can say that the seven dwarfs stole all the weeds in the middle of the night, and there is no grass left, so you naturally don't have to pull it up. "
At this point, Cooper can only do so. He spent a whole day and a night, and the sweat of the lazy man soaked through every dress inside and outside. His footprints spread all over his fields, and all the weeds and withered millet disappeared, leaving only a black and oily land.
"That's great." He stood contentedly under the tree of Tanobe, wiping his sweat and waiting for the arrival of the giant. At night, Verveer suddenly came to the field with a gust of wind. He looked at this fertile land with nothing, and looked at this sweaty slacker in surprise. He was about to open his mouth, but he saw Kulpa kneel down with a soft knee.
"Mr. Giant, as soon as your home left yesterday, I took Niu Gengdi to pull weeds. In the middle of the night, I was so tired that I took a nap under the starlight. I didn't expect the weeds in the field to disappear as soon as they slept. My wife told me that the seven dwarfs stole all the weeds while I was asleep. I'm running away on the road now! If you don't believe me, catch up immediately, and maybe you can catch these thieves. "
Will, believe it, said nothing, picked up his pocket and caught the wind; Fly after it, but never catch up with the dwarf.
In order to prevent the giant Will from coming to trouble again, his wife solemnly told her husband that there must be no more weeds in the field. Cooper has been frightened for a long time. How dare he not be afraid? Since then, he has been farming in the dark every morning, and enviable crops have grown in the black fields.
He became the most diligent person on Roland Island.
How do lazy people become diligent? Laziness is psychological boredom. You think laziness is ease, rest and blessing. In fact, it is boredom, burnout and depression. And from a psychological point of view, the main reason for laziness is the lack of goals.
The lazier a person's body is, the lazier his mind will be; Just like running, some people keep running, and their minds will become as clear as their bodies. So many entrepreneurs get business ideas by running.
The reason why a person lives is by no means for freedom. When you are lazy, your brain will listen to lazy signals like your body, so it is no longer willing to think and reduces its ability.
As for laziness, there are generally several kinds:
1, too lazy to get up
One is really lazy and has superior conditions. You can be lazy from today to the next life as long as you choose to be lazy.
The other is to think that you are too lazy to get up. This is the ostrich mentality. If you have to get up, you will say it one day.
2. No dreams
Such people only have fantasies, no dreams, no goals that life must pursue, and fantasies need neither cost nor diligence. So it doesn't matter whether he is lazy or not every day. Since it doesn't matter, he will be lazy day by day.
3. Poor self-control
I know I can't be lazy, but I really can't When I get into the comfort zone, I can't get out. I regret it after a lazy day, and I can't do anything tomorrow.
4. Because of its own collapse.
After some people are frustrated, the happy emotional experience collapses in terms of body, self-esteem and narcissism.
Laziness can not only bring comfort, but also produce side effects:
1, lost the opportunity to improve,
2, the reduction of sense of accomplishment,
3. The sense of efficacy declines.
The less action, the less experience, the less chance to get a sense of accomplishment, and the less confidence in being competent for a task. In order to escape the pressure, coupled with the comfort brought by greed to laziness itself, it will lead to a vicious circle of laziness.
In fact, everyone is more or less lazy, which is a question of self-control. A determined person can consciously restrain laziness.
Everyone, including us, says that what we don't want to do today will be done tomorrow. This is also an inertia, and people with poor self-control will be negative.
I always think there will be a better idea tomorrow. What I want to do will always wait until tomorrow and gradually become a habit. If I get used to it, it will develop into a kind of dependence, relying on others everywhere.
Dependence on parents; Just like a sentence we often hear, "My parents have arranged it for me anyway", this is lazy dependence. We usually say "this man has become lazy" because lazy dependence has formed in his mind.
Laziness is really terrible. It just makes you feel good for a moment. In fact, laziness will make people lose more than they gain.