1. Learn to give up, let sadness go with the wind, and only happiness will follow; learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leaving a simple back; learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, Leave the most beautiful memories.

2. It is to better realize your ideals. In fact, it takes courage to give up temporarily. Not everyone has the courage! Many people waste a lot of precious time and opportunities making choices. Some people even spend their entire lives making choices and get nothing in the end. Because he didn't learn to give up.

3. Sometimes, the person who advises you to leave may be the person who loves you the most. A person who wants you to give up may be the one who cares about you the most. A person who longs for no more contact may miss you the most. A person who leaves silently may be the most reluctant to leave you. Our lives are spent in such contradictions and entanglements. Love is not a game of being together, love is precisely the pain of missing you and having to leave.

4. If you give up what you should give up, you will get what you should get. Giving up does not mean giving up the ideal you are pursuing, but giving up temporarily for your ideal. Famous Quotes

5. If you fall in love, don’t let go of the opportunity easily. Being reckless may make you regret it for a while; being cowardly may make you regret it for a lifetime.

6. Dare to pull down the emperor even if he is willing to be killed. Proverbs

7. A horse can take risks, but its strength is not as strong as an ox; a strong chariot can carry a heavy load, but it is not as good as a boat to cross a river; a man who sacrifices his strength for the sake of shortcomings will find it difficult to make a fool of himself. Wei Zheng

8. If you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let it go; if you are reluctant or unable to let it go, then suffer.

9. Only by knowing how to give up can we have a better future.

10. Learn to give up. Giving up is a sobering shot. Let you calm down and reflect, making your mind clearer. Whatever you do must be done within your ability. You won’t be able to touch the sky with just one stretch of your hand. Learn to give up, giving up is a new starting point.

11. If you can’t stand some of the other person’s behaviors, how come you get used to having someone cook and wash your clothes so quickly? If you can’t stand the other person’s temper, how come you enjoy the other person’s care and love so much. When you give up the life of two people, you give up not only the troubles and annoyances, but also the happiness and sweetness that you have been pursuing for a long time. Troubles and annoyances are always present, but happiness, once lost, is not guaranteed to come back.

12. If you want to take something, you must give it first. Sun Tzu

13. If you want to have eternal applause, you must give up the vanity in front of you.

14. Giving up is a state and the only way for the development of nature.

15. If you want to surpass yourself, sometimes you need to learn to give up what you have worked hard to get.

16. I put down my dignity, personality, and stubbornness just because I can’t let go of you.

17. Time will slowly settle, and some people will slowly fade away in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs your own fulfillment.

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18. Over time, people always have to mature. Sometimes we always hesitate between gains and losses in life, and often we lose more! In fact, you always have to learn to give up in life in order to gain more!

19. Sun Tzu said: If you want to take something, you must give it first.

20. Some forgiveness is not that I am willing, I just want you to appear in my life; all the giving up is not that I am willing, I just feel distressed, why do you not care so much; all I am not willing to give you blessings. I use a fake smile to cover up the rain-like tears. It is said that those who cannot sleep at night are always awake in other people's dreams. After thousands of twists and turns, none of us is the only one. For companionship and understanding, love is just a coat.

21. Time is gone and it is hard to give up your career.

22. There are some things that we know are wrong, but we still have to persist because we are not willing to give up; there are some people that we know we love, but we have to give up because there is no result; sometimes we know clearly that There is no way, but I am still moving forward because I am used to it.

23. To be successful, people must have the spirit of never giving up. Only when you learn to give up can you start to make progress. Jack Ma, Chairman of the Board of Directors of Alibaba and a famous business elite

24. When God closes one door, he will definitely open another door for you.

25. After years, people We always have to be mature. Sometimes we always hesitate between gains and losses in life, and often we lose more! In fact, we always have to learn to give up in life in order to gain more!

26 , People who give and take are so unlucky and miserly that they are unfortunate. Rudaki

27. When a person gives up, it means you have grown up!

28. Find your position, and you will shine with the beauty you deserve. With a fresh mind, you can carefully envision your prospects, and you'll be sure to achieve what you want to achieve.

29. No matter whether it was sunny or hazy yesterday, learn to give up, and you will get a newer sun from your tomorrow and a bigger blue sky for you to ride on!

30. An old man accidentally dropped one of the new shoes he just bought from the window on a high-speed train. The people around him felt very sorry. Unexpectedly, the old man immediately dropped the second shoe from the window. The window was thrown down. This move was even more surprising. The old man explained: No matter how expensive this shoe is, it is of no use to me. If someone can pick up a pair of shoes, maybe he can still wear them! Secret: Successful people are good at giving up and seeing value in losses.

31. Learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leaving behind a simple silhouette; learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of your heart, leaving the best memories; learn to give up, so that both of you can have each other. A more relaxed start, love that is bruised and bruised does not necessarily mean it will be unforgettable. In fact, life does not require such meaningless persistence. If you don’t have something, you really can’t let it go. Learn to give up and life will be easier.

32. Learn to give up. Giving up is not giving up, it is a kind of waiting, waiting for a better time. Didn’t Guan Gong, the martial sage who embodied the word righteousness, also have the experience of surrendering to Han but not to Cao? But in Cao Ying, his heart was with Han, and he always wanted to help Liu Fuhan, and finally achieved the feat of riding a thousand miles alone!

33. Be willing to give up, be willing to give up, only by giving up can you gain. Buddhist scriptures say

34. Only when ships abandon safe harbor can they harvest a boat full of fish and shrimp in the deep sea.

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35. Time is like a river. The left bank is the unforgettable memories, the right bank is the youth worth grasping, and the fast flowing in the middle is the faint youth. sad. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many that truly belong to you.

36. Go your own way and let others tell you!

37. If you keep the green hills, you won’t have to worry about running out of firewood.

38. Giving up is not only the way back from the journey, but also the way to start the journey again. It is also the way to think deeply about the past, and it is also the way full of longing for the future. Thousands of lights of wisdom shine brightly in the gentle and clear sky, stretching out the gentle wings of the music of life and bringing out the bright spring seasons of a lifetime.

39. I am born with talents that will be useful, and I will come back even if I spend all my money!

40. When you learn to give up, you learn to mature.

41. I am born with talents that will be useful, and I will come back after spending all my money.

42. The most regretful thing in life is to give up easily what should not be given up and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted

43. Mei and Ju give up comfort and peace Only by being comfortable can you get the beauty of the proud frost and snow; only by giving up the gorgeous dusk can the earth usher in the dawn of the rising sun; can you give up the fragrant flowers in spring so that you can enter the fruitful golden autumn. Giving up does not mean losing, because only giving up will lead to another kind of gain.

44. Giving up does not mean losing. If you can’t have her, you can still care for her. If you can’t care, you can still bless her. If you can’t bless, you can still look at her. If you can’t look at her, you can still miss her. If you can’t miss her, you can still miss her. You can also choose dreams. If you don’t have dreams, you can wait for the next reincarnation

45. How happy are those who give and take, but the unsympathetic misers are unfortunate. Rudaki

46. Giving up is a wandering song, singing lowly in the heart. It is a frustrated life full of self-confidence; it makes the fallen faith rise again; it makes the depressed person rise again. Fighting spirit bursts out towards the morning sun; turning worldly disputes into friendship

47. If you can give her a happy destination, it is better to give her a starting point for flying; if you cannot give her a shoulder to rely on, it is better to stay far away. If you can't give her a good happiness, it's better to let her take risks; if you can't always keep your promise, it's better to remain silent; to stay together reluctantly is worse than giving up

48. The most noble behavior of human beings In addition to preaching truth, it is to publicly renounce error. Liszt

49. Sometimes you have to learn to give up in order to find happiness.

50. Don’t pick up the sesame seeds and lose the watermelon.

51. Giving up is a wandering song, singing lowly in the heart. It is a frustrated life full of self-confidence; it makes the fallen faith stand up again; it makes the depressed fighting spirit face the morning light. Spout out; turn the worldly disputes into conflicts

52. Endure the calm for a while, and take a step back to open up the sea and the sky.

53. If you want to be a mountain climber, you have to give up your delicate and fair complexion;

54. Learn to give up, giving up is a kind of wisdom and beauty. Only when you know how to give up can you know how to own and cherish.

55. There are pains and joys, joys and sorrows, gains and losses in life. Having an optimistic and cheerful heart will make the ordinary and dull life interesting and colorful. The inexplicable sadness and emptiness of life that I had experienced in the past made me feel like a passer-by in my life.

56. The most difficult thing in life is not how to possess but how to learn to give up. This is not necessarily the end, a new beginning is coming.

57. There is no failure, only temporary suspension of success! Quotes about learning to give up: Learn to be indifferent

58. If you want to cross the desert, you have to give up coffee and Coke.

59. Thinking about the past and cherishing the beauty can easily lead to injury.

60. If you want to pick a bouquet of fresh mountain flowers, you have to give up the comfort of the city; if you want to be a mountain climber, you have to give up a delicate and fair complexion. You can't get everything, so you should learn to give up.

61. The past does not equal the future!

62. In the big storms of life, we often imitate the captain and throw away heavy cargo in the storm to reduce the weight of the ship. Balzac

63. There is no grass anywhere in the world, so why have unrequited love for a flower.

64. Good work comes from hard work, waste comes from play, success comes from thinking, and failure comes from following.

65. There are many difficult and confusing trivial matters in human life. What is needed at this time is decisive abandonment and wise choices. The only thing that can limit us is determination.

66. The past is forgotten like smoke, and the world is wide with selflessness in my heart.

67. If you want to cross the desert, you have to give up coffee and Coke;

68. The higher the goal you pursue, the more things you need to give up.

69. Only by giving up the fragrant flowers in spring can you enter the fruitful golden autumn;

70. When God closes one door, he will definitely open another for you. door.

71. Don’t give up on a love because of a little flaw. After all, in love, what is needed is true love, not perfection.

72. The feeling after giving up is melancholy and gentle. It is a rational choice after helplessness! The sweetness of missing someone is mixed with bitterness. When you deeply fall in love with someone, but the other person does not respond to you with love, one day you will find that losing yourself will make you humble no matter how deep your love is. Giving up is actually a kind of beauty and self-comfort that everyone forces but is unwilling to appreciate!

73. Sometimes life will force you to hand over power, let go of opportunities, and even leave love behind. You can't get everything, and you should learn to give up in life, just like cleaning up the files in your computer.

74. The Buddhist scriptures say: Give up, give up, only by giving up can you gain.

75. One leaf falls and the whole spring cannot be barren. Selected quotes about learning to give up. Learn to give up, learn to endure, learn to be strong, learn to smile.

Introduction: The most beautiful scenery in life should be hard work. Effort is a mental state of life and a pure love for life. Effort is the mother of possession, possession is the son of hard work. All roads lead to Rome if you work hard. Therefore, instead of stipulating what kind of person you must become and what you must obtain, it is better to hone yourself and become a hard-working person.

1. Life is the same as love. If you miss love, you will miss life. What is love? It makes people more charming, at a loss what to do, and fascinated. When facing love, be brave and boldly speak out your love. If there are flowers, you have to pick them. Don't wait until there are no flowers and break the branches. People will always grow old, sick and die. No matter how you live your life, you will miss the splendor of life if you miss love.

2. When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up quickly. When I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover. When I was in love, I missed the freedom of being single. Many things always feel good when they are not obtained. After getting them, we begin to understand: we are losing at the same time when we get them. There are gains and losses, so face them calmly.

3. I want to stand in this world on my own, have enough influence and enough money to protect the people I want to protect, and to be able to face any sudden disasters. Neither will be defeated.

4. If you get used to weakness, your heart will gradually become weak. If you get used to dependence, you will gradually forget how to rely on yourself. Once tears lose their effectiveness, once you fall into an isolated and helpless situation, if you become weak, how should you protect your loved ones around you and yourself?

5. So what if you don’t like it? Just be aware of it. It is impossible to ask everyone in the world to be your friends and people who care about you. Cherish those who treat you well, and for the rest, just let them be!

6. I love you very much, but I don’t know how to get close to you, so I think it’s okay to leave. There is no difference, the result is the same anyway, it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. The important thing is that I was obsessed with you, just like I was obsessed with a carved chair from the late Qing Dynasty. Love is a knowledge that takes a lifetime to learn and manage.

7. I want to give you happiness, but I can’t enter your world. I want to exchange my whole world for a ticket to your world, but that is just my wishful thinking. In my world, you don't care; in your world, I am expelled. I really like you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget it, but the tears I shed did not fool me. Promise yourself to bear this alone.

8. Don’t let happiness pass you by. The person who understands you best will always be by your side to protect you and prevent you from feeling any grievance. The person who truly loves you may not say Many words to love you will lead to many things to do to love you. If you find such a person around you, please cherish it... Happiness will not wait for you all the time. The person who loves you and the person you love cannot appear at any time. Take good care of it and don't let yourself pass by happiness.

9. We should have understood long ago that the most beautiful thing is not the moment of success, but the hardships in the struggle in retrospect.

10. In life, there is no eternal pain and no difficulty. Let us learn from willows, which appear to be weak but are tough, and are constantly blown by strong winds; the trunks that are too strong will break their branches in the wind. Learn to give up, learn to endure, learn to be strong, learn to smile, that is a different kind of beauty! Appropriate giving up is an elegant turn in life.

11. God will not only favor one person forever. No matter how lucky it is, it will give her lots of hardships in the future. All she can do is seize the opportunity of happiness and use it to work hard to reach the highest possible peak. So, never miss any opportunity.

12. Don’t seek to compare with others, but seek to surpass yourself. If you want to cry, cry with tears of excitement. If you want to laugh, smile with a growing character.

13. Those who are happy for your sadness are your enemies, those who are happy for your happiness are your friends, and those who are sad for your sadness are your close friends.

14. People are forced out. Everyone has potential. They are born in happiness and die in sorrow. Therefore, when facing pressure, don’t be anxious. Maybe this is just a small test that life throws at you. Believe in yourself and you can handle everything. Don’t be anxious. A hero can go to Liangshan. Heroes are created in the times. The poor want to change. Only under pressure can people be motivated.

15. As long as there is hope in the heart, there is happiness.

16. Only by living a simple life can you live a happy life. People should be self-sufficient, tolerant and generous, and should not overthink anything. If the load on the mind is heavy, they will complain about everything and worry about others. It is necessary to delete the memory regularly and discard unpleasant people and things from the memory.

17. Occasionally I think, if life is really like a video game, if you play it bad and you can choose to play it again, what will life be like? Precisely because time passes forever and every day cannot be recovered, we must cherish every inch of time, be filial to our parents, love our children, be considerate of our loved ones, and be kind to our friends.

18. People, don’t be self-righteous. Anyone who leaves the earth will turn around. Throughout the ages, those who rely on their talents and unbridled people have not had a good end. Therefore, no matter how capable you are, you must remain humble and prudent and do your own thing well. Gold will always shine.

19. I am not very good at drinking and cannot appreciate the delicious taste of wine, but I can feel the beauty of knowing myself. Life without friends is lonely and incomplete. However, due to the busy life, contact gradually becomes less and less, and friendship becomes weaker. Therefore, take some time to contact friends to chat together, and let the friendship rise with laughter. , when a friend encounters a problem, you must remember to stand up. Even if you can't help, comfort is the greatest support.

20. It is always difficult for people to correct their shortcomings, and it is always difficult for people to discover their own mistakes. Sometimes, they know they are wrong, but they can’t stop, making mistakes again and again, and grasping the right direction. , stick to your principles, there are many temptations in the world, pie in the sky will never fall, don't pay a heavy price for coveting temporary happiness, if you find that you are wrong, you must stop.

21. There are two great tragedies in life: one is despair, the other is complacency. Modern people seem to be particularly vulnerable. Newspapers report every day that many celebrities are suffering from depression. These people must have gone from one extreme to another. It is precisely because of complacency that we firmly believe that we are perfect and omnipotent. If we suffer a little setback, we will become extremely inferior and even lose the courage to continue living. Find an accurate position for yourself and enjoy the fun of life.

22. To succeed, you need friends; to achieve great success, you need enemies. Only with competition can there be development. Because of the existence of enemies and the determination not to admit defeat, you will work hard to do your own thing. Therefore, sometimes enemies are more powerful than friends. There are no permanent enemies in the world. But there are eternal friends, and sometimes enemies can become friends.

23. Maybe the more beautiful it is, the more fragile it is, just like the bubbles in midsummer.

24. No one is seventeen forever, but some people are always seventeen. I have grown up relying on a memory that only I remember. Long enough to bravely face all the ups and downs in the world.

25. I have always liked the afternoon sunshine. It makes me believe that everything in this world will turn around, and that destiny is generous and beautiful. We will eventually grow up, growing up quietly with a feeling of no resentment. After all, growth is a blessing.

Postscript: On the road of life, we are all running, we are always catching up with some people, and we are always being surpassed by some people.

The essence of life is to appreciate the scenery along the way and to reach the distant destination. The secret of life is to find a speed that suits you best. Don’t be overwhelmed by speed and don’t waste your life by being slow. The joy of life is walking. Follow your own path and look at your own scenery. You will not be satisfied if you surpass others, but you will not lose your ambition if others surpass you. When you are in despair, look up at the sky and think about the meaning of existence. Famous aphorisms about learning to give up

1. When God closes one door, he will definitely open another door for you.

2. Be willing to give up, be willing to give up, only by giving up can you gain. ——Buddhist scriptures

3. Don’t pick up the sesame seeds and lose the watermelon.

4. When you learn to give up, you learn to mature.

5. If you want to have eternal applause, you must give up the vanity in front of you.

6. If you want to cross the desert, you have to give up coffee and Coke.

7. There is no grass anywhere in the world, so why should we have unrequited love for a flower?

8. Go your own way and let others tell you!

9. Sun Tzu said: If you want to take something, you must give it first.

10. The Buddhist scriptures say: Give up, give up, only by giving up can you gain.

11. One leaf falls and the whole spring cannot be barren.

12. I am born with talents that will be useful, and I will come back after all the money I have spent!

13. Only by knowing how to give up can we have a better future.

14. The most difficult thing in life is not how to possess but how to learn to give up. This is not necessarily the end, a new beginning is coming.

15. Keep the green hills and don’t worry about running out of firewood.

16. Endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world.

17. One leaf falls and the whole spring cannot be barren.

18. When a person gives up, it means you have grown up!

19. If you want to surpass yourself, sometimes you need to learn to give up what you have worked hard to get.

20. Sometimes you have to learn to give up in order to find happiness.

21. The past is forgotten like smoke, and the world is wide with selflessness in my heart.

22. The higher the goal you pursue, the more things you need to give up.

23. There are many difficult and confusing trivial matters in human life. What is needed at this time is decisive abandonment and wise choices. The only thing that can limit us is determination.

24. If you give up what you should give up, you will get what you should get. Giving up does not mean giving up the ideal you are pursuing, but giving up temporarily for your ideal.

25. Giving up is a state and the only way for the development of nature.

26. Ships must abandon safe harbors to harvest fish and shrimp in the deep sea.

27. If you want to pick a bouquet of fresh mountain flowers, you have to give up the comfort of the city; if you want to be a mountain climber, you have to give up a delicate and fair complexion. You can't get everything, so you should learn to give up.

28. Only when plums and chrysanthemums give up their ease and comfort can they gain the splendor of the frost and snow; only when the earth gives up the gorgeous dusk can we usher in the dawn of the rising sun; in spring, when we give up the fragrant flowers, Only then can we enter the golden autumn with abundant fruits. Giving up does not mean losing, because only giving up will lead to another kind of gain.

29. Giving up is a wandering song, singing lowly in the heart. It is a frustrated life full of self-confidence; it makes the fallen faith rise again; it makes the depressed fighting spirit face the morning light. Spout out; turn worldly disputes into friendship...

30. Find your position, and you will shine with the beauty you deserve. With a fresh mind, you can carefully envision your prospects, and you will definitely achieve what you want to achieve.

31. Learn to give up. Giving up is the beauty of wisdom. Only when you know how to give up can you know how to own and cherish.

32. Giving up is not only the way back from the journey, but also the way to start the journey again. It is also the way that induces deep thinking about the past, and it is also the way full of longing for the future. Thousands of lights of wisdom shine brightly in the gentle and clear sky, stretching out the gentle wings of the music of life and bringing out the bright spring seasons of a lifetime.

33. It is to better realize your ideals. In fact, it takes courage to give up temporarily. Not everyone has the courage! Many people waste a lot of precious time and opportunities making choices. Some people even spend their entire lives making choices and get nothing in the end. Because he hasn't learned to give up.

34. Learn to give up. Giving up is a sobering shot. Let you calm down and reflect, making your mind clearer. Whatever you do, you have to act within your ability. You won't be able to touch the sky with just one hand. Learn to give up, giving up is a new starting point.

35. Over time, people always have to mature. Sometimes we always hesitate between gains and losses in life, and often we lose more! In fact, you always have to learn to give up in life in order to gain more!

36. There are pains and joys, joys and sorrows, gains and losses in life. Having an optimistic and cheerful heart will make the ordinary and dull life interesting and colorful. The inexplicable sadness and emptiness of life that I had experienced in the past made me feel like a passer-by in my life.

37. Learn to give up, let sadness go with the wind, and only happiness will follow; learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leaving a simple back; learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, Leave the most beautiful memories.

38. No matter whether it was sunny or hazy yesterday, learn to give up, and you will get a newer sun from your tomorrow and a bigger blue sky for you to ride on!

39. Learn to give up. Giving up is not giving up, it is a kind of waiting, waiting for a better time. Didn't Guan Gong, the martial sage who embodied the word "righteousness", also have the experience of "surrendering Han but not Cao"? But he "was in Cao's camp and his heart was with the Han", and he always wanted to help Liu restore the Han Dynasty, and finally achieved the feat of "riding a thousand miles alone"!

40. In the storms of life, we often imitate the captain and throw away bulky cargo in the storm to reduce the weight of the ship. ——Balzac

41. In addition to spreading the truth, the most noble behavior of a person is to publicly abandon mistakes. ——Liszt

42. To be successful, people must have the spirit of never giving up. Only when you learn to give up can you start to make progress. Chairman of the Board of Directors of Alibaba, a famous business elite - Jack Ma

43. A horse can take risks, but its strength is not as strong as an ox; ——Wei Zheng

44. How happy are those who give and take, but the unsympathetic misers are unfortunate. ——Rudaki

45. An old man accidentally dropped one of the new shoes he just bought from the window on a high-speed train. The people around him felt very sorry. Unexpectedly, the old man immediately dropped the new shoe he had just bought. Two shoes were also thrown from the window. This move was even more surprising. The old man explained: "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it is of no use to me. If anyone can pick up a pair of shoes, maybe he can still wear them!" Secret: Successful people are good at giving up and learning from losses. see value in it. Learn how to comfort yourself with sentences to learn to be indifferent to life

Learn to comfort yourself with sentences to learn to be indifferent to everything in life

It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, which can truly solve your worries. Yes, only ourselves. Regardless of success or ups and downs, we must accept all encounters in life calmly and always be the strong man in life and never be a deserter in life.

We are lovers, but we can only say goodbye to each other

If you don’t like me if I have a bad temper, then I don’t like you either. It’s fair to say

We all live in dreams, but compared to you who live in the dreams created by others, I who live in daydreams seem more tragic

When you face difficulties and troubles, don’t forget Look up at the sky

Human nature does not need to be doubted or changed

On this road of no return in life, who doesn’t start to face the world as soon as they step out of campus? Lies; we stumble, covered in dirt, like a clumsy clown

The leap of pure thought puts ourselves in the shadows, there is already a storm on the other side, but we can’t let go of where we want to go. The dreamland is waiting for us to walk together. It’s the last lingering sound

It’s just that there is only an empty world left in the sky. It seems like a dream but not a dream. The sky of the students

Even if there is an eagle in the snake’s heart living in your heart You still have to make it feel like you are a frog in your eyes

If life rapes you, don’t be sad, don’t cry, pack your mind, life will continue tomorrow.

The past is the past, and what cannot be gone back is called the past. What I don't want to accept is the present. I hope to change it in the future. A person's life is so short, but the days are like years.

Don’t let the only thing you can achieve in this life be the restless tenderness of adolescence

You are watching the fire from the other side, why don’t you save me? You were as cold as ice and shot at me.

We know how to love but we can never go back