Today’s introduction: Today’s children live in a peaceful era and rarely have a sense of worry. This has advantages and disadvantages, and we will discuss this issue now.

Some people say that children should not be taught a sense of worry. To make her happy every day, is this right?

Let me give you an example. I once had a neighbor who was from a good family. Her parents did not instill in her a sense of worry. Because she was the eldest daughter in the family, she spent money like water. We're all used to it.

Unexpectedly, her mother gave birth to two younger sisters one after another. Although her family was not in financial ruin, the financial pressure suddenly increased. When the business was sluggish in those years, she suddenly became very Decadent, and complained repeatedly about her parents.

This is because she has never had a sense of worry. She thinks that no matter how many younger siblings are added to the family, she will always be the one at the top of the food chain and can spend as much as she likes. But obviously the reality is very disappointing.

Later she moved away to work, and she was no longer close to her parents.

You can also see here that it is actually good for children to have a proper sense of worry.

Destiny cannot be a straight line. You never know when it will be uphill and when it will be downhill. If you deliberately create a beautiful and pure world, like a greenhouse, and raise the little flower of your child in Inside, if he encounters some setbacks or changes, he simply cannot bear it, and it will harm him.

So it is necessary to cultivate children's awareness of worries. For example, I will show him some war-related movies, and then tell him that we are very lucky to live in a peaceful era. At that time, Japan invaded Fortunately, we have the Communist Party, which carried out revolution and drove away little Japan.

Of course I will tell him in life that some people do business like in the drama. It is true that some companies will go bankrupt, and then some people will suddenly become rich, but these are very rare cases. , I am not saying that there will definitely be, but it is also possible. Anyway, life cannot be seen as smooth, there will definitely be ups and downs.

After the child received this education, he himself made up his mind and said, I will study hard, because after learning more knowledge, I will be able to cope with other setbacks in life, big or small in the future. of.

Important reminder: Cultivating children's awareness of worries does not mean blindly crying about poverty. You can also let them watch some war-themed movies, and communicate more and instill some financial management concepts in daily life.