Nowadays, many parents are busy with work and career. They throw their children to school and hand them over to the teachers. They don’t care about anything... Whether the children are good or bad is the teacher’s problem. This concept is obviously wrong
No matter how good the school is or how good the teachers are, the position of parents can never be replaced in the hearts of children. Educating your children well is not only the teacher's job, it is also the most important career in your life!
Teachers cannot guarantee your child’s good conduct
No matter whether a person’s grades are good or bad, conduct is the key! Morality can make up for the shortcomings of ability, but ability cannot cover up the shortcomings of morality. But a child's character is largely related to his tutor.
Teachers are just those who teach and solve problems, but parents are the influencers of their children's lives. Parents’ words and deeds are always greater than a teacher’s 45 minutes of classroom education.
Therefore, if you want your children to have good conduct, family education is the key, and there is nothing the teacher can do!
Teachers cannot give your children good habits
Children who grow up at the mahjong table or in front of the TV are definitely very different from children raised by parents who love reading. This is why when many parents urge their children to study seriously while watching TV, they often receive strong rebellious psychology. They also don’t think about it, how can they force their children to do something they can’t do themselves?
Most children raised by parents who are proactive and have good living habits are young adults who love learning and can arrange their time reasonably.
Parents will save a lot of trouble in education, so when you are puzzled as to why your child has so many bad habits, take a good look at yourself first, and maybe you will find the root cause!
Teachers can’t give your children interest in reading
Many parents complain that their children don’t like to study or read. But I didn’t ask myself, do I like reading? Children's interest in reading is cultivated from an early age. Children should start reading when they are two or three years old, instead of waiting until they go to school and let the teacher cultivate the habit of reading in your children.
The more books you have at home, the more your children will read. If parents set a good example, their children will follow suit. On the contrary, children can only imitate you and do other things. Whether the gap in reading since childhood will be reflected in the later knowledge level, cognitive ability and writing level.
Teachers cannot help you cultivate children's will
Teachers give children more textbook knowledge, good living habits, principles of life, and strong will, which are all necessary It depends on parents to cultivate. The teacher has no obligation to help you cultivate these. These can only be cultivated by parents in daily life since childhood.
If you ignore it, your child may have good grades, but will be weak and cannot stand any setbacks, so emotional intelligence education is also very important.
Teachers cannot give your children long-term happiness
The original ecological family a person lives in has a great impact on his life. Love between husband and wife, family harmony, and living in an environment full of love Children who grow up in a family are destined to have a brighter heart than children who grow up in a family with an unhealthy family or a family that is noisy all day long.
This is something that teachers cannot give, but it can determine a child’s life!