Cognition determines thinking, and thinking determines behavior.

First, you should be cruel, you should be cruel for a long time, and you should kiss for a long time. Any relationship can be close, or it will break up if it doesn't work out. No big deal. Accommodation and understanding will be more painful. One is lack of energy, the other is unnecessary.

Don't call me kind. I used to be kinder than anyone, but others treated me like a fool. Reality has taught me that being cruel is cruel. People are good at being bullied. People are mirrors of each other. I will treat you as you treat me. Don't ask me why. Life tells me.

Second, you will feel relieved after reading it. In the most difficult times, don't always think too far about the future. Encourage yourself to finish today's work. There are too many things in this world that cannot be caught off guard. Some things don't deserve your feelings at all. Life is an experience. Please enjoy it! It is a quiet moment of time, and chicken feathers are commonplace. Even if the world is thin and cold, the heart should be full of flowers, shallow happiness, quiet love, deep understanding, and gently let go! Don't surprise anyone's life, just be gentle with your own years.

Natural and graceful, live a good life, the scenery is far away and life is near. I only want the rest of my life, and the years are innocent, only warm and not sad.

Three: People must go out, socialize and experience different things. When you meet all kinds of people, your brain will think and you will feel full of energy. No matter what you do when you go out, even if you sit in a coffee shop, don't let yourself rot at home. As long as you go out, your beautiful soul can breathe fresh air, and as long as you are in contact with people, your beautiful body can release its charm.

The consequence of staying at home for a long time is to lose spirituality and become a complete idiot!

Four: such a woman can't be the enemy of a woman. She is generous in paying the bill, sincere in not eating or drinking, and self-respecting. Clearly experienced a devastating blow, but silent in front of outsiders; Obviously, she had the worst fall in her life, but she still lived an active and quiet life. No one can beat such a woman.

A woman's best state is: her eyes are full of stories, but her face is not weathered. She wears light makeup every day, puts on her favorite clothes, does not envy anyone, does not laugh at anyone, does not depend on anyone, and does not swallow dates.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) kazuo inamori: Make money by physical strength, just be honest; Use your brain to make money, be smart; With Qian Shengqian, it is good to be a little bit ruthless; If you make money with resources, you will slip away, and if you make money with contacts, you will be open-minded. Trying to make money is not because I love money, but because the stars and the sea need boat tickets, and poetry and distant tolls are expensive. Money can cure all affectation and inferiority.

6. kazuo inamori: Effort is attitude, strength is dignity. Don't envy others' success, it is at the expense of ease; Don't envy other people's talents, it's earned by personal efforts. Don't envy others' maturity, it is the result of experience and vicissitudes.

Some people are running, some are sleeping, some are grateful, and some are complaining. If you don't win lying down, get up and run like hell. No one can give you the life you want if you don't work hard.

Hard work is the attitude of life, strength is your dignity.

You should believe in the seven truths of the strong. If you are good enough, others will see you. You don't need to prove it with your mouth. Showing off has little effect except making enemies for yourself, causing trouble, attracting jealousy and becoming a thorn in others' side. The better people are, the lower their profile is, the more powerful people are, the less arrogant they are, and the more calm people are, the more respectful they are. They look just like ordinary people. They don't show up. They don't like to brag about their achievements or complain. If they don't win, they should stand up and run hard. No one can give you the life you want if you don't work hard.

Hard work is the attitude of life, strength is your dignity.

Seven, the real law of the strong, you have to believe that if you are good enough, others will see it, you don't need to prove it with your mouth. Showing off has little effect except making enemies for yourself, causing trouble, attracting jealousy and becoming a thorn in others' side. The better people are, the lower their profile is, the more powerful people are, the less arrogant they are, and the more calm people are, the more respectful they are. They look like ordinary people, they don't show their mountains and rivers, and they don't like to brag about their achievements. 8. Did you find the loner, the loner? In fact, most of them are very nice people.

These people never get together or gossip. I only like a person, do everything I should do, enjoy my clean spiritual world, stay at home for a while with my clean life circle, cook for myself, play my favorite music, watch a long-lost movie, read books, grow flowers, write, and then sleep quietly and watch the world coldly. Such people deserve to make friends! Nine, appropriate restrictions on adults, appropriate restrictions on adults is a tacit understanding. I said I have something, don't ask me anything; I said I was having dinner with someone. Don't ask me who I was with. I said I was with a friend. Don't ask me if I'm a man or a woman. If I could, I would tell you without asking. Not that I can't say it, maybe I don't want to say it; It's not that I don't want to talk about it. I may just not want to talk to you.

Adults' measured manners are not hypocrisy, but kindness. It tells each other in the most gentle way what distance we need to keep.

Finally: I grew up on a very bumpy road. I fell into a dirty mire, addicted to games and feelings, but I never gave up on myself and never stopped reading and learning from excellent people around me. I am also very grateful to my tutor for his patient guidance, so I also shared this gift, hoping to help those in need, and thank my partners for their support and encouragement.