"Be firm and easy to break, be soft without losing" is a famous saying left by the ancients, which emphasizes that being a man should not be tough blindly, otherwise it is easy to hit a wall and suffer losses, or get yourself into trouble. On the contrary, being "soft" is not easy to be damaged. Of course, whether a person is "hard" or "soft" depends on the specific situation and cannot be generalized. Share the following, be "soft". The softer he is, the more blessings he has and the less disasters he has. As a man, if he is "soft" on these three things, his life will be smoother and smoother. How strange!

First, when speaking, try to be "soft" and attach importance to harmony.

2 Be a principled person. When things happen, you have touched the bottom line of your principle, so you must harden your heart, that is, you can let go; What happened, you can accept it, so be soft.

I won't be a fan if people don't attack me! Learn to fight for your due rights! Endure it if you can, but don't endure it if you can't!