1, setbacks can't stop the strong (Zhang Haidi is determined to become a success)

Zhang Haidi was severely paraplegic since he was a child, dying several times and weak. However, over the past 20 years, she has learned four foreign languages, translated more than 654.38+06,000 words of foreign language works, obtained a master's degree in philosophy, taught herself acupuncture techniques, and treated more than 654.38+00,000 people, making great contributions. Compared with Zhang Haidi, what are we able-bodied people doing?

2. Courageously driven by setbacks (Verne 16 submission)

Jules,/kloc-a famous French science fiction writer in the 0/9th century. Verne's first work, Five Weeks in a Balloon, was successively submitted to 15 publishing houses, but none of them was appreciated. 16 was not accepted until it was submitted. American writer Jack. London first submitted the manuscript, and no publishing house was willing to publish it, so that he had to work as a coolie. Later, his "Northern Story" was taken a fancy to by a western monthly with a unique vision and became famous in one fell swoop. The famous Danish fairy tale writer Andersen made his debut. Some people know that he is the shoemaker's son, that is, they attack his works for "incoherence", "ignorance of grammar" and "ignorance of rhetoric" However, he was not discouraged, never stopped writing, and finally became famous. After the publication of Idle Time written by British poet Byron 19 years old, some people called him "dog blood drenched his head" and said that he "expressed his feelings in a dead swamp". However, Byron did not flinch, but responded to the detractors with better poems.

3. Struggle in adversity and seek happiness in suffering (Gao Shiqi struggles with illness)

Gao Shiqi is a popular science writer in China. When I was studying abroad, I did an experiment. The glass bottle containing viral encephalitis was broken and the virus invaded his cerebellum. Since then, it has left a curse of physical disability. He endured the virus and completed all doctoral courses in bacteriology at the University of Chicago. After returning home, he dragged himself to work in Yan 'an. After liberation, his condition deteriorated and it was very difficult to speak and act. Even he needs help to open and close his eyes. But he still works with amazing suffering spirit, and has written more than ten thousand words 1. Someone asked him if he was bitter, and he smiled and said, "No! Because I struggle every day, and struggle is endless fun. "

4. Suffering is also a fortune (Wang, the father of western folk songs)

The musician Wang, known as the "father of western folk songs" in China, was imprisoned for a long time, separated from his wife and children, and suffered great psychological pressure for a long time. However, with the attitude of "it is better to walk around", he devoted himself to the lonely smoke in the northwest desert and created many western folk songs such as "In that faraway place". 5. After the setback, he was even angrier (Bailey and the reporter). After Bailey became famous, a reporter interviewed him. "Will your son be the king of the ball like you in the future?" Bailey replied, "No, because his living environment is different from mine. When I was a child, my living environment was very poor, but it was in this harsh environment that I honed my strong fighting spirit and qualified me to be the king of the ball. However, he lived comfortably and didn't go through difficult trials. He can't be the king of the ball. "

Never be discouraged in the face of setbacks (Edison was not frightened by the fire). A fire burned the laboratory to ruins. All the materials and samples of Edison's research on talking movies were burned to ashes. His wife was heartbroken and burst into tears: "What a teenager's heart was burned by a fire. Now you are old and weak, what can you do? " Edison is also very sad, but he will never be disappointed. When he invented the electric light, he experimented with more than 7,600 materials and failed more than 8,000 times. He was still not discouraged and finally succeeded. Now the fire can't bring him back. Edison said to his wife, "Never mind, although I am 67 years old, I am not old. From tomorrow morning, everything will start again. "

7. Resilience is a great achievement.

In 494 BC, the State of Yue defeated the State of Wu. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, had to use "careful words and gifts" to make peace with Wu, waiting for a comeback. Gou Jian first bribed the prince of Wu and his ministers with beautiful women, gold, silver and jewels, and also held his wife hostage to be a groom for the prince himself. Gou Jian also sent tea and rice to the king of Wu, and finally won the trust of the king of Wu and was released. After returning home from a narrow escape, Gou Jian tried his best to pay tribute to Wu while withdrawing troops and training. In the end, he led tens of thousands of elite soldiers, completely defeated the State of Wu, and realized his desire to wash away the humiliation and revitalize the country.

8. Overcome setbacks with optimism (Newton and others faced setbacks)

At all times and all over the world, because of extremely strong and effective optimism, many people have overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles and won. When Newton invented the theory of gravity, people all over the world opposed him; When Harvey invented the theory of blood circulation, people all over the world opposed him. When Darwin announced the theory of evolution, people all over the world opposed him; When Dambert first made the telephone, people all over the world laughed at him. When Wrigt first made an airplane with coolies, people all over the world laughed at him. mention

Dr. Sun Yat-sen, the first time he gave a speech on saving the nation by revolution in Nanyang, only three people listened at a time. Many people are praised by the world for their optimism.

Extremely strong and effective optimism can make people overcome the confusion, blindness, ruthlessness, terror, resentment and resistance all over the world. Moreover, the greater the work, the more fierce the resistance, which has become a law. The most important weapon to deal with this fierce resistance is optimism. Without optimism, one is bound to be defeated in front of all kinds of demons.

9. The origin of Thanksgiving Day

1620, some Puritans who suffered religious persecution took may flower to the New World of North America to seek religious freedom. After two months of tossing and turning at sea, they finally landed in Plymouth, Massachusetts in the cold 1 1 month. In the first winter, more than half of the immigrants died of hunger and infectious diseases. Those who survived had a hard life. They began to sow in the first spring. In order to survive, they pray for God's blessing and eagerly look forward to a bumper harvest all summer, because they know that a bumper harvest in autumn determines their life and death. Later, the crops finally got a bumper harvest. Everyone is very grateful for God's grace and decides to choose a day to commemorate it forever. This is the origin of American Thanksgiving Day.

Thanksgiving Day is the most authentic national holiday in America. On this day, Americans of all faiths and backgrounds thank God for his kindness in the past year and sincerely pray that God will continue to bless them.

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Someone said, "I hate my life and I have to make some changes." What these people want to change is their ungrateful hearts. If we don't know how to appreciate what I have, then it's hard for us to get more. Even if we get what we want, we won't really enjoy it.

Gratitude is a philosophy of life and great wisdom of life. Life in this world can't be smooth sailing. All kinds of failures and helplessness need us to face bravely and deal with them with an open mind. At this time, do you complain about life blindly and become depressed from now on? Or be grateful for life and get up after falling? British writer Thackeray said: "Life is a mirror. You laugh, and it laughs. " If you cry, it will cry. "Gratitude is a way of singing about life, which comes from love and hope for life.

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Once upon a time, there was a Buddha who crossed the river by boat. He didn't want to make waves, so he overturned the boat. The Buddha floated in the river like a leaf for a long time before he climbed ashore exhausted. The first thing we did when we got to the shore was not to scold the boatman for his incompetence and make him lose everything he carried with him, nor to curse the dangerous waves that almost killed him, but to kneel on the beach and worship Master from a distance: "Thank you, Master!" Someone asked inexplicably, "Why not thank the Bodhisattva?" Buddha said, "I didn't like swimming. That's what Master taught me every time he forced me into the water. Not the master, I want to rest today! " When you are in trouble, instead of complaining, you are grateful. Life has reached such a transcendental state, and things have suddenly become clear. What else in this world can make you suffer and resent?

Idiom story: Mr. Dong Guo and the Wolf; Farmers and snakes; Bite the ring and knot the grass; Zhuge Liang devoted himself to Huai Ju's legacy.

12, animal gratitude

You saw the cold of a dog and put warm cotton wool on it. After lying in cotton wool, it will look at you for a long time. It can't speak, and it can only express its gratitude in this way.

You see a bird hurt, take it out of the cat's mouth, treat its wound with medicine, give it food, and then put it back into the forest. It flies to the treetops and will come back to see you. It can't talk, so it can only remember your help in this way.

Animals with low intelligence still appreciate the help of others. Shouldn't human beings also have a grateful heart? Dogs and birds will stare at you for a long time to thank you, but this moment will soon pass; They may forget you soon. But with this moment, the world is no longer the original world, grateful eyes disappeared, but gratitude scattered in the world, the world is warm and kind. So we should cultivate this kind of feeling between people.

13, Kami's shoelaces

Once, Japanese geisha master Kanmi played an ancient hiker in a play. Just as he was about to go on stage, a pupil reminded him, "Master, your sandals are loose." He replied "thank you" and immediately squatted down to tie his shoelaces. When he reached the stage entrance where the protected person could not see, he squatted down again and loosened the shoelaces he had just tied. Obviously, he wants to show the fatigue of a long-distance traveler with loose sandals. A reporter went backstage to interview and saw this scene with his own eyes. He asked Kami, "Why don't you teach that student on the spot? He still doesn't understand the true meaning of acting. " Kami replied, "There are many opportunities to teach students acting skills. On today's occasion, the most important thing is to teach him to learn to appreciate the concern of others. "

14, Thanksgiving Desert

An Italian female explorer crossed the Taklimakan desert alone. When she walked out of the desert, she knelt down facing the desert and was silent for a long time. A reporter asked why, and he said sincerely, "I don't think I conquered the desert. I am thanking Taklimakan for letting me pass." Indeed, everything about human beings is endowed by nature. For this world, human beings cannot have the ability to conquer it. On the contrary, what human beings need is a grateful heart, so that human beings can inherit it endlessly.

Roosevelt's house was stolen.

Once, the home of former American President Roosevelt was stolen and many things were lost. A friend wrote to comfort him after hearing the news and advised him not to care too much. Roosevelt wrote back to his friend: "Dear friend, thank you for your letter to comfort me. I am safe now. Thank god: because first, the thief stole my things and didn't hurt my life; Second, the thief only stole some of my things, not all of them; Third, the luckiest thing is that he is the thief, not me. " Stealing is absolutely unfortunate for anyone, but Roosevelt found three reasons to be grateful. This story inspires us how to be grateful for life.

Gratitude is the motivation for us to see the gap when we fail, the crisis when we are unfortunate, get warmth, inspire our courage to challenge difficulties, and then move forward in the past. Just like Roosevelt, if we look at the ups and downs of life from another angle and always feel grateful for life, we can always maintain a healthy attitude, perfect personality and enterprising belief. Gratitude is not pure psychological comfort, nor is it an escape from reality, nor is it Ah Q's spiritual victory method. Gratitude is a way of singing about life, which comes from love and hope for life.

Put a small piece of alum in the water to precipitate all the dregs; If we cultivate a grateful thought in our hearts, we can precipitate a lot of impetuousness and anxiety and melt a lot of dissatisfaction and misfortune.

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Vietnamese Ke Buwei fled to Tunxi to avoid the mutiny. Wandering under Tianmu Mountain, he and his wife spent the night under an extremely lush tree. The next morning, Koubuwei raised his axe to cut branches for firewood. His wife stopped him and said, "Thanks to it, we can survive. We should appreciate it as much as we admire our loving mother. "

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After an academic report, a female reporter boarded the rostrum. After expressing her admiration, she suddenly asked sharply, "Mr. Hawking, Luger's disease has fixed you in a wheelchair forever." Don't you think fate has cost you a lot? " The audience was silent. Hawking still smiled, tapped his fingers on the keyboard a few times, and a sentence appeared on the screen: "I have the ideal I have been pursuing, my relatives and friends, and by the way, I still have a grateful heart." The audience applauded constantly.

18, Chinese and western philosophy of life and death

On the one hand, Confucianism recognizes that "there is life after death", but it also emphasizes that "unknown life also knows death?" Remind the world to pay attention to secular efforts. Mencius' so-called "don't die young, cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, so make a living" can best highlight this humanistic spirit. Although Zhuangzi, a Taoist, clearly stated that "death is also life", he also emphasized that life and death should be treated equally, because "the unity of life and death" can best show the spirit of transcendence.

In the west, Plato clearly emphasized that the purpose of life is to pursue truth, goodness and beauty, but eternal truth, goodness and beauty only after death. Therefore, "philosophy is the practice of death." In addition, he advocated the theory of immortality of the soul. Although his student Aristotle denied the immortality of the soul, he also affirmed that "sacred reason is immortal" and stressed that "we should try our best to live a rational life and make ourselves immortal". In Kant's view, although the immortality of the soul "has no logical certainty", it has "moral certainty and inevitability". Therefore, he stressed that the more the spirit is used, the more it will come out. "The more you think, the more you do, and the longer you live." In Hegel's opinion, it is even more blunt that "death is a kind of sublation". The existentialist Heidegger clearly pointed out that the outlook on life is the view of death. Since life is destined to be a "dying person", how to be conscientious on weekdays is the best attitude to face life and death. Because of the advancement of medicine, "hospice care" has become a topic of general concern, and how to "live and die with dignity" has also become a topic that transcends national boundaries. Life and Death, the representative work of Professor Ross of the University of Chicago, holds that death is also a kind of "growth" of life, which is more positive and constructive. 19, questioning the meaning of life, questioning the meaning of life, is the inevitable torture of every thoughtful living body on its own soul. Even if it can't reach the height of ultimate concern of human beings, it still shines with unpretentious civilian thoughts. Dr Victor Frank, the author of The Meaning of Living, is a famous psychiatrist in Austria and a representative of the third school of psychotherapy in Vienna. During World War II, he was a prisoner in Auschwitz concentration camp. The book The Meaning of Living is what the author focuses on.

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The description of the experience and catastrophe of the prison camp is also an important record of his invention of the "logotherapy Law" during his prison life with the prison number 1 19 104.

Unique characteristics make everyone different and make everyone's existence meaningful, which is closely related to creative work and human love. "One cannot find the abstract meaning of life. Everyone has his own special vocation or mission, which needs to be realized concretely. His life is unrepeatable or irreplaceable. Therefore, everyone is unique, and only he has a special opportunity to complete his unique talent mission. " "Once a person understands that his position is irreplaceable, it is naturally easy to make every effort to take the greatest responsibility for his existence. As long as he knows that he has the responsibility to take care of himself for some unfinished work or those who look forward to his early return, he will certainly not abandon his life. " In Frank's view, as long as there is "the will to seek meaning", not only life and love, but also "suffering" and "pain" are meaningful.

20. Just because life is limited

There is no change, no escape. The only thing we can do is to live the short life as loudly as possible and the few days as thick as possible, so as to make up for the regrets left by God and dispel the fears in our hearts. Since then, life has a real meaning. Today, people have used the word "value" as a symbol of this meaning. French explorer Xia witnessed the death of his best partner and brother in an avalanche in the Alps. Xia faced tall and straight with the shortest language. Xia is willing to be a lone ranger on the snowy mountain, "because every time, there is always a temptation ahead."

Temptation, which should be the initial motive force of concentrated life, is often called goal or ideal now.

Tick off the old days every day and replace the calendar with a new one every year. You will sigh that life is short, you will feel that there are not many days in the future, you will try your best to make the condensed days more exciting, better in quality and heavier, and you will look forward to the temptation and weigh back the limited value. Why should I climb the mountain?

A famous English mountaineer replied, "Because the mountain is there." For mountaineers, mountains are an irresistible call. Take mountaineering as a lofty cause and go all out.

The spirit of human exploration is eternal. It is precisely because of human exploration spirit and continuous progress that today's civilization has come into being. Many people have given their precious lives in the process of exploring nature, but this is a valuable asset for later generations. Cultivating the spirit of exploration is of positive significance to a person and a nation. An adventurous person will constantly seek new conquest goals and new realm and height of life; On the contrary, if a person or a nation has no adventurous spirit, there will be no future.

22. A tragic scene in the Antarctic expedition

199 1 year, Amundsen of Norway and Scott of Britain began to conquer the South Pole almost at the same time. Scott didn't reach the South Pole until five weeks after Amundsen won. Although Scott knew Amundsen had won the March to the South Pole, he didn't stop because he would be a loser. When he returned, he was trapped in the ice and snow because of the early winter in Antarctica, and his good friend Oates froze his feet. In the end, the last three explorers were seriously overdrawn and lacked food and fuel. The merciless snowstorm froze them to death in cold, hunger and fatigue. Scott was still writing his adventure diary before he died, and they didn't give up their 35-pound rock sample until they died. Zweig once praised: "Magnificent destruction, though still alive, produces the will to climb infinite peaks in failure. Although a person destroyed himself in the struggle against invincible bad luck, his heart became extremely noble. "

23. The Legend of Thorn Birds

There is a legend that there is a bird that sings only once in its life, and its song is more beautiful than all the creatures in the world. From the moment it left the nest, it was looking for the thorn tree and wouldn't stop until it reached its goal. Then it plunged into the longest and sharpest thorns and let out the sound among the wild branches. At the dying moment, it transcended its own pain, and its singing actually eclipsed larks and nightingales. This is a beautiful song, and the end of the song is death. However, the whole world is listening quietly, and God is smiling in the sky. Because the best things can only be bought with the deepest pain? Hu Yangshu.

There is a tree called Populus euphratica in Inner Mongolia, which has a strong vitality: life, 200 years of decline; Death will last for two hundred years; Yes, it is immortal for 200 years.

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