In our traditional society, beating and scolding education is more common, because people at that time thought that only beating and scolding could educate good children. Isn't there a famous saying? That is: "A dutiful son is born under the stick", which can fully prove people's views on education at that time. However, according to scientific research, the education of beating and cursing is very incorrect, which will not only arouse children's rebellious psychology, but also cause children to have some psychological diseases, and even seriously affect their future development. Therefore, I personally think that serious beating and scolding education is domestic violence, and I strongly suggest that domestic violence be included in the ranks of illegal crimes. So what points should parents who don't understand education grasp? Here I share some experiences based on my own summary, hoping to help you:

1, use "I understand"

In fact, this sentence has a magical power. If possible, I strongly suggest you give it a try. Specifically, when a child makes some mistakes, don't hit him or scold him first. First, calm down and say to the child, "I understand what you are doing and how you feel." After that, you will find that children will thank you first, because they are also eager to be understood, and then your education will be easy.

Step 2 make friends with children

This is actually very important. Children are rebellious because they think adults don't understand them at all and often educate them from the perspective of their parents. At this time, if you become their recognized friend through various channels, then your education for them should be easy for them to accept.

3.* * * Share with others

* * * Sharing plays a very important role. For example, if you share your happy things with your child first, then the child will share his things with you, so that after you share them with each other, you will get mutual recognition, and it is easy to know why the child made a mistake, so it will be much easier to communicate with the child.