Communication

The road is made up of people. Nowadays, all walks of life need useful talents, and the relationship between people plays a big role in this. This requires people to learn to communicate.

In today’s world, times move very fast. If you don't have the ability, you will be eliminated. Although there are no fathers and sons on the battlefield, certain interpersonal relationships will bring you a lot of benefits when you get involved in society, making it easier and faster for you to succeed.

I recently watched a TV series that talked about the importance of relationships.

Yip Rongtian was the manager of a small business, which went bankrupt due to poor management. But with the encouragement of his friends, he finally regained his confidence and built a village house with his friends, thereby making a large profit. If they had not had such a deep friendship, he would never have been able to overcome failure and achieve success, which reflects the importance of communication.

Soon after that, his Litian Company suffered a big blow because he was framed by his enemies for bidding on a piece of land. It was at that time that he met Huo Jingliang, the big boss of Huo's Enterprise. Huo Jingliang took a fancy to Rongtian, so he asked Rongtian to work under him. In order to find a way out from the failure, he endured the humiliation, worked quietly and humbly, and finally won Huo Jingliang's trust. So as to continue to support his company. His friend couldn't bear to see Rongtian being offended by himself, so he also came to work under Huo Jingliang to reduce Rongtian's burden. Because Ye Rongtian is very good at interacting with big bosses who are unfaithful for profit and gain trust, and with the help of friends, he can continue to develop his career and survive in a society that does not care about friendship.

The above is a successful example, but there are also examples of failure in life. Some talented people have finally climbed to a relatively high position, but because their interpersonal relationships are not well established, their relatives and friends leave them. In the end, they become so poor that they have no choice but to commit crimes, and spend their entire lives wasted. Such examples are really common and illustrate the importance of communication.

So how do you learn to communicate?

Be informal. Don't haggle over small things with your friends, and be careful not to lose the big for the small.

Able to bend and stretch. Don't pretend to be fat, otherwise it will only have the opposite effect. It is necessary to clarify the wise saying of "take a step back and the sky will be brighter".

Know how to safeguard the interests of both parties when appropriate. Only in this way can we get twice the result with half the effort and win the trust of the other party.

In short, before establishing yourself in society, you must first learn how to handle interpersonal relationships. Only successful interactions will provide you with a broader space for future development.