When you encounter problems, stop thinking about why you can't, and start thinking about how you can, and your life will become more and more free and stronger.
Love your imperfect self, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed. Then no matter how rough life is, we can live in peace and harmony!
We are often afraid of change, of losing the comfort of the present, and we don't know where the future is. However, life regrets what you wanted to do but didn't do, far more than what you did wrong.
Life is long and short, and all we really have is this moment. Some people are regretting the past, some people are worried about the future ... sometimes a turn is all in this life.
Behind all dissatisfaction, there is a "should" that you should think about, and "should" is the source of pain. All healthy relationships need to find a balance between self-discipline and willfulness.
All the encounters are for us to know ourselves better and others better. When we really understand that everyone in the world needs to be loved as much as we do, we won't feel lonely.
No matter who you get along with, you should put yourself in a position that is helpful and useful to others. This is the starting point for you to establish contact and real relationship.
You are not as bad as you think, and others are not as perfect as you think. Every moment in life can be the beginning of change.
The life you choose may be bitter, maybe tired, maybe no one understands, but as long as you know that you are right, you will move forward bravely. Because the saddest thing in life is: never have a choice, always be arranged!
Whether a child can play the piano, play chess, write and draw has little to do with the success of mathematics, science and culture. What determines health and happiness is whether a child feels love and learns to love when growing up; Can you make the right choice and have the ability to resist setbacks to solve the difficulties you encounter? The best education for children by teachers and parents is to find out the child's specialties when he makes mistakes and help H find a solution, instead of blaming and criticizing. Daily life is already very difficult. You have been working hard under the uncontrollable environment, under the requirements, judgments and accusations of various people, and don't fight with others. In this world, if only one person loves you, don't expect anyone. This person must be yourself. When you really love yourself, people who love you will also appear, because everyone likes to be with happy people.
Every day, with a quiet mind, I feel whether I am judging all the time, whether I can look at myself, people and things with a non-judgmental and unacceptable attitude.
We were all born original, but when we grew up, we accidentally became pirates. We play too many roles and spend too little time on ourselves and sincerity.
Let go of anger, let go of avoidance, let go of confrontation and accept yourself. This is the beginning for the world to accept you.
We always think that happiness is to get everything we want. In fact, happiness is to finally know that life is less prosperous and more frustrated. If we can learn not to fight, escape, complain, change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed in the changeable life, then no matter how ups and downs there are in life, we can live a peaceful and harmonious life.
In fact, what really scares us is not our shortcomings, but our confrontation and fear of our own shortcomings.