Architecture mainly studies the design of single buildings.

Urban planning is mainly planning and layout.

A According to your personal hobby, it is not recommended for girls to study civil engineering, because most of them work in the field, and there are few girls majoring in civil engineering. If you embrace civil engineering, build schools in Tsinghua, Tongji and Southeast China.

B. consider architecture. I don't know if you like painting, but you can consider it if you are more meticulous. However, many students in this major stay up late. For architecture, I suggest Tsinghua, Southeast and Tongji.

C urban planning also needs hand painting, but compared with architecture, the requirements for hand painting are slightly lower. For example, architecture plays games, so urban planning makes rules of the game. Urban planning involves architecture, economics, sociology, geography and politics ..... so it is difficult to learn well. Urban planning, recommended Tongji, Tsinghua, Southeast.

At present, the employment prospect of civil construction is relatively good, but the urban planning is almost (not bad). After all, now is an era of great construction, but any major will have its highs and lows, and it is impossible to go on forever. ......

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