A great man has two hearts: one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun
He who loves will always love him; Those who respect others will always respect them. -Mencius under Li Lou
The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The interpretation of tolerance in modern Chinese dictionaries in China is: magnanimous, not caring or not investigating.
1. To forgive others is to forgive ourselves. A little more tolerance for others, in fact, there is a little more space in our lives. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.
2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are hard to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget, life will be sunny and happy.
3. Tolerance means not caring, and letting things go. Everyone has mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With his majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "There are green poplars everywhere, and every family has a way to Chang 'an." Being generous to others and accommodating criticism is the way to success in career and happiness in family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, live a tired life, and it is rare for the world to go once, and chic is the most important thing.
5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.
6. Tolerance means not being forced when others disagree with you. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Knowing the root of each other's ideas and finding the basis of their opinions can put them in their shoes and the proposed scheme can be accepted more in line with each other's psychology. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life, so we should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them and do a good job of sublation.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough, but calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally be wide.
8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving a chance is not connivance, nor is it an exemption from the responsibility that the other party should bear. Everyone needs to be responsible for his actions; Everyone has to bear all kinds of consequences. Otherwise, the other party will violate the prohibition (mistake) again and again, showing weakness.
9. Motto about tolerance:
Violet left its fragrance on its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain
A gentleman's way is loyalty and forgiveness. Do as you would be done by. I don't want others to do it to me, and I want to do it without others. (The Analects of Confucius)
Mount Tai won't let the soil, so it can become a big mountain; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)
"Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses those who are tolerant and those who are tolerated. -a line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice
● Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Help)
● The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)
● The spirit of generosity is the greatest of all things (Owen)
● There are many such occasions in life: the goal you intend to achieve with resentment may be completely forgiven. It is entirely possible to be realized by forgiveness-(Sidney Smith)
● Forgive sincerely, and then forget it (Britain)
● Forgiveness is human and forgetting is divine (James Glenn)
● Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (Bernaix)
● The noblest. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)
● God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth)
● Only brave people know how to tolerate; Cowards will never be tolerant, which is not his nature (Stern)
● Tolerance is either beneficial or harmful to people (Burke)
● Those who hurt others' teeth but oppose revenge, and those who advocate tolerance should never get close to him-(Lu Xun)
● They want to be warm and smooth, but they don't want to observe, but they are also clear and cut < Book of Jin >. Strict is love
● Training you is to love you, and spoiling you is to harm you
● Love is deep and responsibility is strict (France)
● Family is not strict in recruiting thieves, people are not strict in taking risks
● Teaching is not strict, and teachers are not strict
● If you want to become a square, the rules must be strict
● A gentleman loves virtue, while a villain loves tolerance.