Indeed, time is a good test. If a person doesn't really love you, even if he says well, he won't be able to give you the love you want after being with you. And if a person really loves you, even if he is not good at saying all kinds of sweet words to you, he will definitely prove his love for you with practical actions. Superficial love in life simply cannot stand the test of time, because only those who truly love you will infiltrate their love into every aspect of your life, love you silently, and care for you. It's not difficult to know the boy you love and how much he loves you because the details are real.
A person's love for you is often hidden in various small details in life. If he really loves you, you can feel his love for you in many of the things you usually do when you get along. You can't fool people with your personal feelings like this. Therefore, if you really meet a boy who loves you so much, you must cherish it after you are together. In this fast-paced society, there is no one who is not busy. Everyone is busy living their own lives and doing their own work every day.
However, if a boy really loves you, he will balance work and time with you, and will not forget you because he is busy at work, nor will he completely ignore you because he is busy at work. A man who truly loves you will always keep you in his heart no matter how busy he is. Just like the protagonist Tony in "Green Book", he looks big, fat and uneducated, but he has been squeezing out time to write letters to his wife during the tour.
Sometimes it’s late at night, sometimes it’s meal time. Indeed, when a person loves you deeply, no matter how busy he is, he will be free for you. If a person is busy, he will forget you. If you question him, he will blame you for not understanding him. If this is the case, it only means that he really does not have you in his heart. After quarreling with you, he will take the initiative to contact you. Every couple who has been together for a long time will inevitably quarrel. As emotional expert Wenger wrote in the book: "Even in a good marriage, there will be 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to kill each other's life."
Really break up a relationship What matters is not the quarrel, but the attitude and handling of the two people after the quarrel. As we all know, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang have a happy marriage, which many people talk about and envy. Even so, they also had quarrels during the 63 years they were together, and Qian Zhongshu admitted his mistakes at the end of each quarrel.
Once Jiang Yang asked him: "Why do you let me hit you every time? I sometimes reflect on it. In fact, it is not just your fault." Qian Zhongshu answered her: "Because you are My, even if I win the quarrel, what can you do? "If I win the truth, lose my feelings, and lose you, I will lose everything in my life. In a world of two people, there must always be one, one laughing, one noisy, and one squatting. "When he needs to make a decision, he will think of you and take the initiative to contact you. Tolstoy has a famous saying: "We love each other equally because we understand each other and respect each other.
At the beginning of a few years, Kang Hui participated in a variety show. There was a moment when the guests present needed to call to express their love. Everyone else dialed the phone directly, but Kang Hui was hesitant. He said he had to ask his wife's permission to make the call to see if she wanted to leave the country. Nimati smiled and mocked: "Her opinion is no longer important."
Kang Hui immediately said seriously: "No, her opinion is important." They have been married for 22 years, but in these We can respect each other in small things and take care of each other's feelings. What respect and love is this. It seems like a small thing, but from this small thing, it can be seen that their relationship is really enviable and worthy of praise. Emotionally, if a boy can respect you and think about you in everything, then there is no doubt that his feelings for you must be true.
If you don’t really love you to the core, you won’t always put feelings first. This is something that a man who doesn’t love you can’t pretend. It is not easy for us to meet a sincere person in life. If so, please cherish it more and don't let your miss turn into a mistake. Everyone who tries to run to you doesn't want you to hug him tightly.