I think being gregarious is not necessarily a good thing, and flocking to others can sometimes lead to a mob;

Being unsociable is not necessarily a bad thing, and only by being at ease can you achieve peace and prosperity.

A person who doesn't fit in with others is a real person, someone who won't go along with others.

An isolated person does not mean that his quality and character are low, it just shows how ridiculous the herd effect is.

No matter in society or in school, everyone seems to be gregarious. In fact, I think most people try to put on a “pretend to be gregarious” person. ? Compromising and losing yourself again and again, wasting time for self-improvement in "grouping". If you join a group, you will let yourself down. Only by being alone can you illuminate yourself.

In 2012, Pritzker Prize winner Wang Shu ascended the podium. He received an international architectural award, which is equivalent to the "Nobel" and "Oscar". People asked him the secret of his success. He said: "I have to thank those years of loneliness. Because I was lonely when I was a child, I fell in love with painting and had an ignorant concept of architecture. After graduation, because I was alone, I was able to calm down and think, and many design inspirations came from During that period. "

Excellent people will move forward silently and let solitude give them strength. The herd mentality will make you forget your pursuit and lose your independent thinking and judgment

Mr. Lu Xun once said: Wild beasts always walk alone, while cattle and sheep flock together.

Being unsociable does not mean being isolated from the world, but walking calmly in your own vast space, letting go of your thinking, and getting closer to your ideals.

Don’t try to be gregarious, you have to understand that 99% of the things about you have no meaning to others. Learn to shake hands with yourself and live a more exciting life.

Being gregarious in order to cater is more tragic than not being gregarious.

There is a famous saying that goes like this: "God uses various ways to make people lonely so that we can go to ourselves - Hermann Hesse."