A brief introduction to the main deeds of filial piety and love for relatives
As the saying goes, filial piety comes first among all good deeds. "Filial piety" comes from the heart, and "love" comes from emotion. Filial piety and love for relatives is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, a precious spiritual wealth passed down by our ancestors, and the cornerstone of family happiness and social development and progress. The following is a brief introduction to the main deeds of filial piety and love for relatives that I have carefully collected. I hope it will be helpful to you. Introduction to the main deeds of filial piety and love for relatives 1
In Xinjian Village, Suncun Township, there is a harmonious, warm and happy family. Although it is not earth-shatteringly great, it embodies the traditional Chinese virtues of filial piety and love for relatives, because their family has a good and filial daughter-in-law - Sun Sanhua.
Sun Sanhua’s husband Wei Peiqi is a craftsman who works hard all year round. As the head of the family, he treats every family member with tolerance and understanding. As a son, he respects his parents and as a husband. , he loves and protects his wife. As a father, he sets an example and pays attention to the education of his daughter.
Sun Sanhua has always stood behind her husband, playing the role of a virtuous wife. Her husband is busy working away from home all year round, so the heavy responsibility of taking care of her parents-in-law falls on her. My mother-in-law suffered from hemiplegia due to a high fever in May 2008. Her speech stuttered, her hands and feet were stiff, and she was unable to take care of herself even in the simplest tasks such as eating, dressing, combing her hair, and getting out of bed. As a result, she began to take on the tedious care work of feeding, watering, washing, and dressing her mother-in-law. Whether it was serving soup and water day after day, washing her face and feet, rubbing her shoulders and back, or washing her hair and bathing, wiping herself and changing clothes once a week, she never failed once, and she never said a word of complaint. . Seeing her mother-in-law expressing herself inaccurately, unable to take care of herself, and looking sad and painful, Sun Sanhua felt very distressed. She worked tirelessly and traveled around to find doctors and medicines. As long as the medicine was effective for her mother-in-law's condition, no matter how expensive it was, she would save money and save money to buy it for her mother-in-law. For four years, she tried her best to take care of her mother-in-law and never let her suffer any injustice. Her filial piety and virtuousness were unanimously praised by her neighbors and villagers.
Sun Sanhua is enthusiastic and kind in life, and can live in harmony with his neighbors. He often helps his neighbors solve family difficulties and is willing to do practical things and good things for his neighbors. Actively participate in various activities in the village, cooperate with the village in carrying out relevant work, and enthusiastically participate in public welfare undertakings. In his ordinary position, he fulfills his duties, uses his actual actions to interpret the spirit of filial piety and love for relatives, and contributes his own strength to the creation of a harmonious society. Brief introduction to the main deeds of filial piety and love for relatives 2
My name is ×××, I live in the cement precast factory in ×× Town, and I work in ×× No. 1 Middle School. I have a grandmother in her eighties and a woman in her fifties. Parents, there are a total of eight people in the family, and they have performed filial piety and love for their relatives. Over the years, the couple has done what they should do in terms of honoring their parents, maintaining harmony between brothers and sisters, uniting neighbors, and abiding by laws and regulations. The following is a report on several aspects:
1. Honor your parents< /p>
My wife Pan Ke and I got married at the beginning of XX. It has been four years now. We have been living in the same hospital and eating from the same pot with our parents. This is how we think about it: My parents are getting older. It is conceivable that they have experienced countless sufferings in their lives. With the reform and opening up, vitality has been brought to the countryside. Our life is getting better and more prosperous, but we must not forget the parents who gave birth to me and raised me just because our life has improved. They took my life and brought me up. They brought me into society and taught me how to be a human being. I must not forget that the upbringing of my parents is the most basic standard for being a human being. Everyone must have a kind heart and respect for their parents. Heart, our conscience is not only buried in our hearts, but more importantly, it is implemented and taken into action to carefully support our parents and grandma. Grandma has been in poor health since she was young, suffering from gastritis and other diseases. She has to be hospitalized several times a year. Dad is busy with work. At this time, I am the first to take grandma to the hospital, even though I am also very busy at work. But every time, she insisted on leaving the ward only after grandma's condition stabilized and recovered. One evening this summer, it was raining non-stop. Suddenly I heard my wife shouting anxiously: "Come here quickly, our mother is sick." I immediately rushed to my grandma's room and saw her struggling. Her head dropped to the ground and she couldn't stop vomiting. I didn't think about it anymore, I immediately held up an umbrella and found a car to take her to the hospital. I went upstairs and downstairs to get medicine and water. I kept busy until about one o'clock in the middle of the night until my grandma's condition stabilized. When I got down, I took a breath and read the deeds material "Filial Piety to Elders, Love to Relatives and Advanced Deeds".
As the saying goes: "Those who are obedient are filial." It is common for the elderly to talk a lot as they get older. At this time, I tell my wife and daughter that we should not argue with the elderly. Respecting the elderly is a traditional virtue in our family. .Although there are some words that young people don’t like to hear, there is absolutely no malice. We have to listen patiently and explain before explaining. This will resolve some misunderstandings. Therefore, in the past few years of marriage, the relationship between the family has always been harmonious, and there has never been any misunderstanding. I have blushed and quarreled. Good intentions are rewarded. Our careful care of my parents and grandma has also earned them their love for our children and grandchildren. Whenever I am busy at work, my parents can always give me something. We boil water and prepare meals, and grandma can take good care of the children so that we can work with peace of mind.
2. Brothers are united and sisters-in-law are harmonious
We are six cousins , although we all live separately and each has his own family, we are not distracted by our separation. Whenever the family has something or difficulties, we can always get together to discuss ways to solve the difficulties, especially When it comes to treating the elderly, our family is scrambling to honor them. For example: whenever grandma was hospitalized to pay for medicine, the six of us brothers would always fight to pay and take care of grandma in the hospital. We are humble and considerate to each other. We never care about trivial matters. We treat each other with the attitude of valuing harmony. We respect our parents and pay more alimony every year. You respect me one foot, and I respect you one foot. People's hearts change people's hearts, and four taels exchanges for half a catty. Between brothers and sisters-in-law, family harmony will never be destroyed by trivial matters. Some brothers and sisters-in-law, The conflicts between them were all caused by trivial matters. The problems between them could not be solved, and they got nothing. They were accused by others, and they were accused of being unfaithful and unfilial, and finally went to court. Our family wanted This attitude of focusing on principles in big things and style in small things, and the mentality that suffering a loss is a blessing. Only in this way can we handle the relationship between his brothers and our sisters-in-law." Over the years, it is her family's high integrity, The benevolent and righteous approach has made our big family harmonious and happy, making us the envy of our neighbors, and winning praise from everyone.
3. Neighborhood relations
My family lives in a small courtyard, surrounded by a few families. Over the years, our family has never had any conflicts with the neighbors. We all adhere to the principle of peaceful coexistence and mutual respect. When one family is in trouble, the whole family supports it, and the neighborly relationship is handled very well. One of our neighbors moved from other places, and his family is relatively poor. His son often It was not easy to find a partner through introductions, but my family was so poor that I couldn't even afford a meeting gift. In the end, I gave him 2,000 yuan to get through it. Later, when I got married, I still couldn't afford the wedding ceremony. In order to make this young couple happy, I once again spent 2,000 yuan without hesitation to help them get married, so that the lovers finally got married. Their old mother was so moved that she talked and praised everyone she met. , saying that I am the best person in the world. ;