If a person wants to succeed and achieve something, he must need the help of people around him or the environment. Before that, you need to know what others can offer and how they can help you. You have your own way. These answers are hidden in the wisdom of the ancients, such as the following three points.
1. If Tao exists, everything is born; If the Tao is lost, everything will be destroyed.
This sentence means that heaven and earth run by the Tao, and in short, they have their own laws. Going to Qiu Lai in spring, flowers bloom and flowers fall, and the sun rises and sets in the west. This is the law between heaven and earth. If this law can exist and run smoothly, everything will flourish. Anyway, if this rule is broken, it will be extremely unfavorable to all development.
Personally, this sentence means that everyone should take the road to do things, which contains a lot of content. To give a simple example, the most important thing for a person is modesty. At the beginning, be modest and let others have a good impression on you and think you are reliable. Don't bosse around after you have achieved something, but keep a humble attitude. So people won't slander you behind your back. Only by walking along the main road can you appear easily.
When your career reaches its peak, you should learn to be contented and retire when you succeed. Learning from the beginning to the end is also a manifestation of taking the right path.
2. The number of paradise, on the contrary, prosperity is declining. The burning fire, the extinction period is near.
The meaning of this sentence is that the law of the operation of heaven and earth is relative. For example, flowers bloom for a summer, and eventually they will fall. After noon, the sunshine will gradually weaken. It is for this reason that extremes meet.
Happiness is a curse, and bitterness is sweet. When the raging fire burns to its peak, it is not far from being put out. How to understand this sentence when it is put on individuals? Just like the last sentence of the first article, when people are at the limit of development, they must learn to stop and meet before they can save themselves.
A truly promising person can not only fight for his career, but also keep it and have the courage to give it up. Everyone can't have one thing forever. Learning to give up is great wisdom.
3. Those who know themselves are wise, the winners are brave, those who give up on themselves are mean, and those who are self-reliant are successful.
The meaning of this sentence is obvious. People who can fully understand themselves are wise, those who can overcome themselves are brave, those who give up on themselves are sad, and those who can stand on their own feet are great.
There is a saying that the greatest enemy of human beings is actually themselves, knowing ourselves and knowing ourselves, and winning every battle. When there is competition, don't get to know your enemies first, know where your shortcomings are, how not to be defeated, and then think about how to win.
To defeat yourself is actually to defeat your desire, your laziness and your comfort zone. If a person can overcome these, he will certainly have a promising career. Some people's ability to resist pressure is extremely weak, and they can't recover after some blows. Such people are so pathetic. Because many times he has stood in front of victory, but he fell down. Only by learning to be self-reliant can we go forward bravely and realize our dreams.