There is a plot in Zhang Ailing's novel Hui Huan, which is a conversation between her cousin Mrs. Wu and her cousin Mrs. Xun in her fifties, and Mrs. Xun forcibly squeezes out a sense of girlhood. In a word, Zhang Ailing concluded that Mrs. Xun lived in the illusion of a girl: her cousin had a new perm, and Mrs. Xun's Beijing films were still so refreshing, which added to the illusion of her girlhood. For women, the last thing to face is not getting old, but being afraid of getting old in the process of getting old.
In fact, the real "girl's heart" is an honest, non-repressed, self-loyal emotion, because girls' mentality is always rich, free and arbitrary. It is multifaceted. It can be immature, rebellious, individual, lazy, enthusiastic and full of curiosity. It is a young and interesting attitude towards life. Don't be bound by the traces of age and years.