As the saying goes: When people go to higher places, water flows to lower places!

But I don’t know: the high places are cold, but the low places are filled with rivers!

The sea is open to all rivers, and it is great to be tolerant

Standing tall and standing tall without desire is strong

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The great national heroes of the Chinese nation Lin Zexu once said: "The sea accepts hundreds of rivers, and tolerance is great; if you stand thousands of feet high on a wall, you will be strong if you have no desires." He took this sentence as his motto and always kept it in mind. I like this famous saying very much, and even more admire the gentlemanly demeanor of "the sea is open to all rivers, and tolerance is great".

"The sky can tolerate everything, and the human heart can tolerate the sky." This is my motto. People often like to listen to good words, but they ignore the ancient saying that "loyal words are harsh to the ears but helpful to the deeds"; people often worship celebrities, but cannot stand the "fake life" behind them; people often yearn for a paradise, but forget that "how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" "The ups and downs. This is people in reality. He can accept the sunshine visible when he raises his head, but does not pay attention to the shadow behind him. He can only see the brilliance, but not the haze after the brilliance. When faced with criticism and accusations from others, he will feel dissatisfied, thinking that others are being harsh and will retaliate. However, he forgot to examine his "story behind", forgot to think and review his "notebook" again and again, and forgot the truth that "the sea is open to all rivers, and tolerance is great". In all kinds of forgetfulness, he will eventually forget where he is, stay where he is, and stop moving forward.

I once read a sentence by Victor Hugo, a 19th-century French literary master: "The widest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is human beings." mind". However, in today's society that promotes individuality, how many students who think highly of themselves have this kind of spirit? Or, what we should learn is to examine ourselves, what we should accept is criticism, what we should have is patience and tolerance.

When Chaplin himself entered a competition to imitate himself and came in second place, he was embarrassed and unhappy with the critics' judgment. Although this is ironic, it also shows from another aspect that the imitator's performance skills should not be underestimated. Things that could have been laughed off were criticized by Chaplin, which shows that Chaplin did not have a broad mind to tolerate criticism and evaluation from others, and was not a true gentleman.

To deal with the world with an inclusive attitude is not only a virtue but also wisdom. Because we are facing people from different levels and professions in different environments, we cannot engage in social activities based on our own ideas or preferences. At this time, tolerance is not only the lubricant of interpersonal emotional communication, but also the emerald green leaves and gorgeous flowers on the big tree of life, the splendid and charming charm and charm.

Tolerance reflects a high level of life. A general's forehead can run a horse, and a prime minister's belly can punt a boat. A tolerant person must be a kind, wise and generous person. Therefore, tolerance should be an attitude towards life and a beautiful scenery in life.

Wang Shuo once published an article "I Watch Jin Yong" in "China Youth Daily", violently attacking Jin Yong's martial arts novels, and collectively referred to Jin Yong's novels as Jackie Chan's movies, Qiong Yao's TV series, and the "Four Heavenly Kings" "Four major customs". In the face of criticism, Mr. Jin Yong said calmly: "Reputation and reputation are common things in life. It is not surprising. Mr. Wang Shuo's request may be too much. It is beyond my ability. It is helpless if I am limited by my talent." "And he said: "I am very grateful to the many readers for their love and enthusiasm for my novels. They have been very good to me. In other words, God has been very good to me. I have enjoyed so much. Happiness, if you get scolded occasionally, you will not be unhappy if you are lucky."

Mr. Jin Yong is a recognized leader in modern martial arts novels. He is famous and knowledgeable. , his contribution to martial arts novels is not insignificant. With his reputation, he could definitely fight back against Wang Shuo's belittling.

However, when faced with criticism from others, he did not become furious. Instead, he used a tolerant heart and a broad mind to face himself and thank others. This is the demeanor of a gentleman. After all, "There is no pure gold." No one is perfect." Only when people discover their shortcomings through constant criticism, observe their own shortcomings, tolerate the strengths of others, and accept criticism with a tolerant heart, can they not be tired, improve themselves, and reach higher levels.

"A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always worried." Only magnanimity can achieve great things. Tolerance is the first virtue of human beings. Duke Huan of Qi, the leader of the Five Hegemons in the Spring and Autumn Period, once had a "vengeance with an arrow" against Guan Zhong, but he was able to put aside the past grudges, worship Guan Zhong as his prime minister, call Guan Zhong his father, and finally dominated the world with the help of Guan Zhong; after Tang Taizong ascended the throne, he After putting the blame in the past, Wei Zheng, who dared to give advice, was reused and regarded as a mirror of himself. It was his magnanimity and openness of opinions that finally led to the famous "Reign of Zhenguan" in history.

From this point of view, as young people in the new century, we should have a broad mind, cultivate an inclusive heart, and create a blue sky that is unique to us! Let the spirit of "The sea embraces all rivers, and tolerance is great" will always be in your heart! Let us keep in mind: "The sky can accommodate everything, and the human heart can tolerate the sky."